416 pages, Paperback
First published January 1,1991
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A disambiguation of unrelated books containing a character named Mary that generally dont have a last name or other unique identifier.more...
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When wars descend upon the world and unlikely friends find themselves crossing paths, it is often the case that the bonds they form can endure a lifetime. These are not the ordinary best friends that young women with relatively trivial First World Problems seek. No, these are the kind of friends who know most of each other's deepest secrets. However, the existence of those unknown secrets, the ones that are deliberately kept from the other friend, has the power to make life extremely complicated.
And then there is a daughter added to the mix, creating a situation where two generations of women, who have grown up in different continents, interact. The women of the older generation attempt to convey to the young woman born in another continent what life was like in the old country, albeit in a somewhat limited way. The respect for each other's feelings still significantly impacts their willingness to reveal their truths. Sometimes, they still resort to telling lies. Oh, the complex nature of mature friendships that manage to last a lifetime. The question that lingers is whether such friendships are still possible in the same way as they were in the old country?
"It's not you it's me" is what I truly feel like expressing to this book!
At the beginning, it touched on several sensitive points for me due to my own mother/daughter relationship. I set it aside for a while as I found the shift in point of view to the mother rather difficult to manage. It was really just rhetorical complaining and the story was consistently depressing. I had to continuously take breaks and read something else to lighten my mood.
I highly doubt that I will read anything else written by this author. The overall tone and style of this book didn't resonate with me, and it left me with a rather negative impression. Maybe others might find it more engaging, but for me, it simply didn't work.