I was reading on the plane from NYC to Savannah.

The experience was just alright. There were certain parts of the reading material that felt unsubstantiated.

Here's a note to the author: It's not appropriate to quote scientific studies and Taoist philosophers on the same page as if they are equally valid sources.

Also, having two- and three-page chapters is a bit excessive, especially during peacetime.

Moreover, once you've introduced the term "cunnilinguist" the first time, you don't have to keep putting it in quotation marks.

It would be better if the author could make some improvements in these aspects to enhance the overall quality and readability of the work.

This would make the reading experience more enjoyable and engaging for the readers.

Hopefully, the author will take these suggestions into consideration and make the necessary changes.

Please provide the article that needs to be rewritten and expanded so that I can assist you further.

From time immemorial, I have been an opponent of various advisors, albums, kama sutras (except for illustrations, of course), or other sex education materials for men like "a thousand ways to...", "a million times something", "two hundred sighs for...", etc. I always thought that one has to approach certain things on one's own (oops, an unfortunate statement). As we know, every man regards any operating instructions only as possible suggestions on how to handle, assemble, or install a given thing, not as instructions per se. Using them is considered a sacrilegious disgrace and simply should not be done. Just like it is not allowed to ask for directions when you get lost, etc. You are a man - by virtue of your gender, you have the knowledge of handling cars, all kinds of tools, assembling furniture encoded in your DNA. In short - the strong, knowledgeable male gender does not need operating instructions!

And what about women? Do we men know how to deal with them? How to "handle" them? (Forgive the rhetoric, I don't mean anything bad, quite the opposite!). Of course, since I can assemble a wardrobe without instructions - pleasing a woman will not be a problem for me!

But how surprised one can be that it is not so, that it does not work out, that it is not like in the movies or on the internet forums about sex (where everyone is a god/goddess of love) or in men's and women's magazines, where every issue features articles like "how to do it well for him/her". And then there will come the disappointment. Sex is a beautiful thing, whether in marriage, a relationship or other arrangements - probably the most important thing is that it brings joy to both lovers. To listen to each other, talk, know your likes/dislikes, etc.

Well, but it's not me who has to write the advice, but about the advice, so to the point!

The book is very well written. From a scientific point of view, without excessive exaltation and the author's intellectual autoeroticism - he is not a world-renowned sexologist who knows everything (as unfortunately happens in our domestic publications of famous sexologists). We get a solid portion of knowledge, terminology, anatomic geography and, very importantly, and I don't know if it's the most important - a healthy psychological approach to oral sex, to relationships with a woman, taking care of her needs and of her both during the act and at the moments when it's already "all over". The three main chapters, which are a kind of introduction, development, and conclusion, are a very good construction that allows for a smooth acquaintance with the topic. The chapters are divided into subchapters, which facilitates navigation through the advice, which, after all, is supposed to be used to return to it if necessary. At the end, there are additional materials, more or less useful, already dealing with practical extras. Each chapter has been written with a thorough explanation of why it is this way and not otherwise. The language is accessible, not scientific, but also not too colloquial - the whole gives the impression of a logical consequence of many years of research (I assume also empirical) and systematized sexological knowledge and knowledge of the principles of the functioning of the human body. In the introductory chapters, Ian Kerner often refers to the history or research on human sexuality conducted by, for example, Virginia Johnson and William Masters (a very good series "Masters of Sex" was made about them).

Attention! The advice is not only for "inexperienced" people who are not very well oriented in the topic and "are afraid to ask". Experienced men, even in long-term relationships, as can be clearly seen during reading - the author will allow, as it is nicely said, to systematize the "knowledge" possessed, supplement it with new information and confront the reader's experience with his own statements and ideas. The author also does not shy away from humor, although not excessive, but he can make the reading more pleasant.

I think that many things in this advice are the most true truth that life has written, and in fact biology, and with a clear conscience I can recommend it to all men. Even those who have never read any instructions. Of course, it is known that no one will ever gain sexual experience, acquaintance only on the basis of reading a book or magazine and a series of the above-mentioned materials. However, I am firmly convinced that the time spent reading this particular position will not be wasted, and it will allow to turn words into effective actions.

To the grateful joy of your ladies!

A truly enjoyable and educational piece of writing! It offers a wealth of interesting and valuable information that can be both entertaining and enlightening.

Whether you are someone who takes pleasure in exploring and understanding the vulva or someone who has a vulva themselves, this read is highly recommended.

It provides a unique perspective on a topic that is often overlooked or misunderstood. With its engaging style and accessible language, it makes learning about the vulva a fun and engaging experience.

So, if you're looking for a book that combines entertainment and education, look no further. This is a must-read for anyone interested in the female body and sexuality.

This is a review about a certain source related to oral sex.

It is considered a very good source in terms of the content regarding oral sex. However, one major drawback is that there are an excessive number of page fillers.

These page fillers seem to be unnecessary and have made the overall length of the source much longer than it needed to be.

If these page fillers were removed, the source could have been significantly shorter while still maintaining its valuable information about oral sex.

This would make it more concise and easier for readers to access and understand the relevant details without having to wade through a lot of extraneous material.

Overall, despite the issue of page fillers, the source still has some merit in terms of its content on oral sex, but it could be improved by reducing its length and eliminating the unnecessary elements.

The first third of this book is truly a remarkable piece of non-fiction.

It offers a thoughtful and even insightful exploration, presenting an excellent summary of the female sexual arousal cycle. Additionally, it provides a very detailed synopsis of human female anatomy and sexual physiology. There is also a fair discussion on the impact of social norms and gender roles on heterosexual sex.

Factually speaking, this work starts off strong. However, the author's assertion about the declining protective utility of barriers for STD prevention with an increased number of partners seems to go against the literature I have read.

But then, unfortunately, it takes a turn and devolves into a manifesto for a very narrowly conceptualized and systematic form of cunnilingus. What initially began as a good non-fiction work on a tender aspect of the human experience transforms into a pedantic and overly detailed outpouring of sexual “self-help.”

It could have made a great article, but instead, it was turned into a novel. If an author uses the term “as described earlier in the book” more than a few times, it gives the impression that they are stretching to meet the publisher’s word count expectations.

The first portion of the book earns 4 stars and might be worth checking out from the library, while the later part gets only 2 stars. In conclusion, don't waste your money on this book.

It's not solely for men. In fact, I firmly believe that women can derive just as much benefit from learning about their own bodies and pleasure points.

Understanding one's own body is a crucial aspect of sexual health and satisfaction for both genders. When women take the time to explore and discover their unique erogenous zones and what brings them pleasure, they are better able to communicate their desires and preferences to their partners.

Now, instead of using vague phrases like "Yeah more of that!" or "Um... try something different," I can have more informed and specific conversations with my partner. This not only enhances the quality of our sexual experiences but also deepens our connection and intimacy.

To be honest, "The thinking man's guide" might give the impression of being a bit pretentious.

However, Ian Kerner, the sex therapist, appears to be a rather sophisticated individual. He is well-versed in philosophy and literature, which undoubtedly makes him appealing to the liberal arts student.

When it comes to his practical advice, it could potentially seem overwhelming for beginners. Nevertheless, a significant portion of it is actually quite intuitive.

If you are in need of a crash course on how a vulva functions or on sex etiquette, then this is definitely a book worth reading. It provides valuable insights and information that can enhance one's understanding and knowledge in these areas.

Overall, despite the initial perception of pretentiousness, Ian Kerner's work offers practical and useful guidance that can be beneficial for those looking to expand their understanding of sex and relationships.

The book had excellent physical descriptions and detailed information within its pages.

However, Kerner's personality, as depicted in the story, came across as extremely submissive, to the point where it was almost irritating.

Despite this flaw in the character portrayal, the book as a whole remained a solid piece of work and was highly readable.

The engaging plot and well-written prose compensated for the less-than-ideal aspect of Kerner's personality.

Readers could still enjoy the story and gain valuable knowledge from the information presented.

Overall, it was a book that had its strengths and weaknesses, but it was definitely worth a read for those interested in the subject matter.

Yes for anatomy.

Yes for Percy Bysshe Shelley (didn't expect, right, to read the poems of a 19th-century British poet in a book about sex?)

Yes for cunnilingus being ordinary sex!

No for "creams and ointments".

No for the fact that I feel like a coffee machine and this book is the instruction manual for its operation.

This article presents a series of rather bold and unique viewpoints. The mention of anatomy shows an interest in the physical aspects related to the topic. The inclusion of Percy Bysshe Shelley's poems in a sex book is an unexpected and perhaps thought-provoking combination. The assertion that cunnilingus is ordinary sex challenges some traditional观念. On the other hand, the rejections of "creams and ointments" and the feeling of being like a coffee machine with the book as an instruction manual add a touch of personal sentiment and a critique of a certain approach to the subject matter. Overall, it's a short but impactful piece that manages to cover a range of ideas in a concise manner.

Lots of useful information can be found within this text, despite its gratingly exuberant writing style. Almost every rhetorical flourish is cringe-inducing to such an extent that it makes one want to discard the book. The noisy odes to the overrated Strunk and White make it nearly impossible to progress beyond the first chapter.

However, it does possess very good details and ideas. Although, it can be a bit rigid or ideological on numerous points. Thankfully, I will never have to date this individual, but I don't mind extracting knowledge from his base. It is much more anatomically specific and detailed than Violet Blue's collection. Nevertheless, it is much less sincerely spirited. Seriously, all of Kerner's over-enthusiasm reeks of someone trying overly hard to compensate for something, similar to a desperate motivational speaker.

It is worth rereading in conjunction with other titles from the genre. Definitely not the Bible, but it is extremely useful for many men and women. The programmatic/formulaic approach he presents might not be especially useful, but culling from the base of information and methods presented does yield benefits.

When I first laid eyes on this book, my initial thought was, "Oh great, a refresher course." However, it soon became clear that it was far more than that.

It is a comprehensive study that commences with the equivalent of 2 + 2 and culminates in advanced postgraduate work in matrix algebra. If one truly takes this to heart, he or she would无疑成为获奖大师。

Kerner offers a philosophy for this craft. The prominent idea is that the act should be practiced as a complete performance in itself, not merely a preparatory service. This redefines a skill set as an art form. In this art form, the man derives as much pleasure from the performance of the art as the woman does from receiving it. The experience of pleasure is the key, not the usual goal-oriented explosive ending. As the author stated in one interview, "but most men just don't know how to do it." Women complain that "it's like the running of the bulls in Pamplona. It's like a stampede... and I just want to get out of the way."

So, a significant portion of Kerner's philosophy centers around the idea of taking it slow and gentle while remaining attentive to the task at hand and adjusting the intensity of the delivery to her passion. Take your time, build tension gradually, and enjoy the experience as art - to me, a soul-fulfilling art. I would have liked to see more on the philosophical and perhaps biochemical aspects of the art.

Kerner provides the basic geography lessons and then delves into an extremely in-depth and detailed methodology of the science and practice of this art. It is so detailed that it actually struck me as a bit humorous. It almost becomes a gold medal-seeking Olympic sport. I love art and philosophy, but sports leave me cold. It almost reaches a ludicrous level where one might be tempted to equip oneself with an anatomy book, drafting set, metronome, stopwatch, and quite possibly a trained coach with a laser pointer and a bullhorn. The dexterity required for some of the advanced maneuvers would be like playing "Swanee River" on a harmonica while thundering out Bartok's Piano Concerto #2 on a Steinway grand piano. He even includes a "Routine Template" at the end of the book that one can Xerox and record a history and create new routines.

I part ways with Kerner on a few issues. One is basic nomenclature. A carburetor may have 18 parts, but not all 18 of them are called the throttle plate. Yes, the throttle system may be larger than previously thought, but it is not every structure within the geographical area of a throttle plate just because you like the fact that the throttle plate controls how the engine goes "varoooom varoooom." I can see perhaps 5 or 6 structures, but 18? I think that serves to confuse the issue or at least exaggerate the structure in question.

My second objection is personal. While I may approach the high southern latitudes, I remain firmly a few degrees ventral of the south pole. There are definite hazards that I believe are best avoided. Again, personal, but sloppy technique can lead to problems.

The last issue, as I hinted before, is that I think he overemphasizes methodology. Most people are content to bowl a 150 to 200 game. Nobody but a pro expects to have a 300 game. Most golfers don't swing par. But the emphasis on methodology, the "do this 5 counts, pause 5 seconds, east-west swipe, southern rest," comes off with all the grace of a military marching band. We are not striving for a Nobel prize here. There is too much emphasis on specific methods. Even though the author repeatedly states that one should not be goal-oriented, this overemphasis on specific steps and routines becomes extremely goal-oriented.

My advice is to take the philosophical elements of this book seriously. Go slow, be gentle, build tension, back off, build tension again, remain focused, become more forceful as required but only at her behest, and enjoy this experience, become intoxicated by it. Play the harmonica and maybe plink out "Chopsticks." Forget about Bartok... it's too technical and too demanding. Enjoy the experience for the pleasure that you will both derive and avoid the performance anxiety of too many specific steps, methods, and timings. Regardless of what one does, if he is gentle when needed, attentive, not in a hurry, and follows her cues, success is almost guaranteed. Despite the overemphasis on method and techniques, I recommend this book to everyone - both genders. The art is the great equalizer between the asymmetry of the human sexual response and it is one of the deepest forms of intimacy a couple can experience.