The book refers to a new word that I have learned. Cunnilingus is a term that is often used in a specific context. It describes a particular sexual act. However, it is important to note that such topics should be discussed with respect and in an appropriate setting. When we encounter new words, it is an opportunity to expand our vocabulary and understanding. But we also need to be mindful of how and when we use these words. In the case of cunnilingus , it is a word that may not be suitable for all audiences or conversations. We should always consider the context and the people around us before using such terms.

I am not the target audience of this book. I’m a 35-year-old happily married woman.

Just seeing the title, I thought, man, I wish that was true.

Like many women, I suspected that something was off with every sex scene I’ve ever seen on television.

I know how ‘it’ works for me and how it doesn’t, and I was pretty sure I wasn’t unusual in that regard.

This book says everything I wish I could tell every man in the world! It clears up every misconception that men have because of television and pornos.

The person who wrote this book simply explains how an orgasm works and doesn’t work. He explains the biology of a woman’s body in a very direct and open way. Best of all, he explains in-depth how to bring a woman to orgasm in several ways and multiple times in one night (yes, I promise it is possible).

I’m not saying I’m game for every single thing he describes (we are all different and all have preferences), but 85% of it, YES PLEASE!

I’d like to say two things to any man reading this book:

1) The verbal phrases he advises to say are seriously important. They reassure and relax, which are the two main things that help us orgasm and two things we aren’t very good at doing on our own.

2) When the author is describing what you should do and the order you should do it in, it’s going to seem like you’d be there for hours. Remember, though, he’s explaining it thoroughly so you’ll understand how to do it. I promise it doesn’t take that long. Seriously, if you did half the things he recommends, it would be a couple of minutes tops, if you’re doing it right. You will have a VERY grateful partner willing to reciprocate!

The blowjob manual that could be condensed into 20 pages but is actually 200. Seriously, you can skip and discard the first half of the book because it mainly consists of the author's desperate attempts to convince us that there is no such thing as the G-spot, A-spot, etc. and that everything is the clitoris with internal and external deviations, covering (at least that's the impression I get from the description) the female sexual anatomy like an octopus with tentacles crawling everywhere.

The second part is practical and contains reasonable advice, but it is marred by the author's extremely irritating (for me) digressions in his attempts to be interesting and insert metaphors into everything. The movements of the tongue were like the Romans in Shakespeare, a half-page description of Mohammed Ali because according to the author it has a great and powerful connection with the position of your head during blowjob, etc. He writes that the author is a doctor (PhD), and judging by his style, I suspect he is a doctor of literature.

And yes, according to him, not only is there no G-spot but also female ejaculation doesn't exist and "a small amount of fluid sometimes comes out". Let me send you pictures of wet sheets, man...

This is a really good read that is highly recommended for all guys who are looking to step up and take responsibility for their partner's sexual enjoyment.

Primarily, it focuses on performing oral sex and explores the best and most enjoyable way for her. It provides valuable insights and tips that can enhance the sexual experience for both partners.

However, the only aspect that I think could be discussed more in the book is communication. Communication between you and your partner is of utmost importance. Understanding the things she wants and likes is crucial. I feel that sometimes there are assumptions made regarding what she will like or not, and this can lead to misunderstandings and missed opportunities for a more fulfilling sexual encounter.

By emphasizing the importance of communication, the book could provide even more comprehensive guidance and help guys build stronger and more satisfying sexual relationships with their partners.