Loved this so much and appreciated the Christian themes throughout. It is so well explained I have easily been able to identify each of my children’s love language.

5 لغات للحب يتحدثها البشر عامة كبار وصغار
في هذا الكتاب المخصص للغات الحب عند الأطفال يستعرض الكاتب اللغات الخمسة ذاتها المشتركة بين الأطفال و الكبار من التلامس الجسدي وكلمات التوكيد والوقت النوعي والهدايا والأعمال الخدمية مع ذكر امثلة تسهل عليك معرفة لغة طفلك.
ان التحدث بلغة طفلك الأساسية يساعده على الشعور بأنه محبوب فعندما يشعر أنه محبوب يصبح خزانه الشعوري ممتلئا فيتجاوب طفلك بسهولة لتوجيهاتك فيستمع اليك وتسمع له.

لكل طفل لغة وقد يكن طفلك ثنائي اللغة او متعدد اللغات لكن الاكيد ان هناك لغة مفضلة يحبها طفلك و يجيد التحدث بها.
اكتشف لغة طفلك تعلمها تحدث بها بطلاقة وفي الوقت نفسه تحدث الغات الأربعة الأخرى لتعلم طفلك التعامل بجميع اللغات ليقدم الحب للجميع بسهولة

تذكر ان
-تتحدث لغة الطفلك ولا تتلاعب به، لاتستعمل طفلك ولاتستغل مشاعره لأغراضك الشخصية ومنافعك الذاتية.
-لا تجعل حبك له مشروطا.
-لاتجعل حبك وسيلة لرشوة الطفل أو مقايضته.
-حافظ على الخزان العاطفي ممتلي وتذكر ان تعتدل ولا تبالغ كي تحافظ على القيمة.
-الأطفال يمرون بتجارب وتتطورات تُأثر عليهم وتُغير من لغة حبهم لا تقاوم التغير ولا تحاول التثبيت.
-قد يفضل طفلك ان يستقبل الحب بلغة ويعطي الحب بلغة أخرى.
-أدب طفلك بالحب.

ذكر الكتاب امثلة للتعامل مع حالات الغضب والحزن أو مواقف الفقد ووضح دور الأهل في مساعدة الطفل على تخطي الحزن

A good parenting book on how to determine which love language is strongest for your child and specific ways to show your kids love with each language.

The first half was more interesting/useful to me than the second. The second half is too vague and doesn't get to the root of the problem in some ways.

Gayet egitici ve bilgilendirici buldum. Düşünmediğimiz alanlari da icine alarak sevgiyi insanlara iletme yöntemleri uzerine cok detayli bilgiler yer aliyor.

Ozellikle cocugumla hemen birkac deneme yaptim ve hemen olumlu yinde sonuc aldim.

Εξαιρετικό βιβλίο που πρέπει να διαβάσουν όλοι οι γονείς και σύζυγοι!!! Περιλαμβάνει πολύ βασικά πράγματα για να είναι καλύτερες οι σχέσεις στην οικογένεια, δοσμένα με απλό τρόπο!!

The concept of the five love languages is very inspiring, and it was fun to figure out which is the best way to express my love to each of my kids. Of course it’s not that simple, not that black and white: they – just like everyone else – are multilingual. The five love languages may seem oversimplified, and some examples fabricated, but the book has its merits. It’s about love after all.

I’m a strong believer in The Five Love Languages and therefore was very interested in learning my children’s love languages as they grow. However, I learned that children don’t have a primary love language until they are at least 5-8 years old as they are starting to navigate the world on their own through school, friendships, personalities, etc. As infants and toddlers, they need to see all five love languages to fill their “tank” and feel unconditionally loved. Just saying “I love you” and providing necessities like a home, food, and clothing is not enough to show your love for children. I love learning about child psychology and how we can make an impact on them so they grow into respectful people ❤️

I did find this book helpful in some ways, and frustrating in others. While it was beneficial to learn the different ways a child feels loved and the authors did offer some approaches to behavioral issues that have already been beneficial, I just don't think that knowing a child's love language and "filling their love tank" will solve ALL of a child's behavioral problems as the book suggests. I felt the authors put too much responsibility on the parent for a child's behavior. While I definitely feel as a parent I do have a lot of power and influence on my child, ultimately how he/she acts is not entirely up to me or within my control and the child makes the final decision as to how he/she behaves. It was helpful to add this info to my parenting arsenal, I just don't think life is as tidy as the book suggests.

There are some real problems with this book. I finished it, because there were a few helpful nuggets I could take away, but in general, I have some serious objections.

First, maybe I live under a rock, but it's not immediately apparent from the front cover, back blurb, or early chapters that this book has religious undertones. Religious nonfiction is great for some people and has an important place, but, as I've said with novels that try to sneak a message in in the last quarter, be upfront about it. No mention of religion in the first four chapters, then one mention in chapter five, and three in chapter seven strikes me as dishonest.

Second, like many self-help books, this presents a one-perfect-solution sell. If we only love our children hard enough, problems will miraculously vanish. The "scenarios" presented are patently ridiculous: children are instantly repentant and apparently change their ways when presented with loving correction.

Third, the book fails to mention that there might be something actually wrong with your child. Every parenting book should include, regularly throughout the book, that if your child doesn't respond within a few weeks, that you should request a referral or further medical observation.

For example: "The mishandling of anger is related to every present and future problem your child may have-- from poor grades to damaged relationships to possible suicide... Most of life's problems will be averted and your child will be more able to use anger to his advantage, rather than have it work against him" (p. 160). It is my uneducated opinion as his parent that my child's problems are almost exclusively related to his anxiety, his ADHD, his hearing deficiency, and his vision problems. All of these affect his schooling to a much greater degree.

If this book is to be of any value, it would be to first-time parents of very young children who are expected to be neurotypical.

If you follow the Nas Daily page on Facebook, you might have seen a video he recently posted on various love languages. Unfortunately, the source of his idea was this book which he only showed for barely a second on the screen and didn't even mention by name.
I very rarely read self-help books. I can't digest the platitudes being thrown around. One big exception to this rule has been the 'The Five Love Languages' series. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell have worked a simple idea in such a brilliant way, I wonder why this book is not more popularly known. I have read The Five Love Languages of Children, and am now midway through the first book, 'The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts'. (Yeah, I know, I'm going the other way around: pehle bacchhe, phir patidev!

كتاب مهم لكل أب وأم لبناء علاقة حب قوية ومتينة مع أبنائهم .

It was okay. It's showing its age, it was probably revolutionary for its time, but the "multiple intelligences/loves/conversation styles" thing is just a model; don't get too attracted to it. I read the previous book Five Love Languages - this sort of feels like a cash grab after the success of the earlier book.

Eventually I got tired of the "Junior was acting out and was terrible and was burning orphanages down, but then I started saying nice things to him and now he's an A student". Real kids aren't this easy.