It’s nothing to be ashamed of. When it comes to performing oral sex, most people fall somewhere between fumbling and clueless. But now, in The Lowdown on Going Down you’ll find practical, easy-to-master techniques that will give you the confidence and skills you need to become an expert in the delicate art of cunnilingus.
Inside you’ll
• Exercises to whip your tongue, lips, and jaw into shape so you can perform with exquisite control • An anatomy class you need to pass • Sensual kisses to get you both ready for the main event • Sure-fire methods for getting her to climax again and again • Advice on how to keep your mind from spoiling your head • Advanced techniques to wake up the neighbors • Positions that will make her purr
Read The Lowdown on Going Down alone or with the companion edition, Blow Him Away for mind-blowing oral sex—every time.
One of my favorite fascinations is books on "sexuality AND" a divergent topic one wouldn't expect to overlap with this basic human performance. This book seemed promising, with its crossover between human sexuality and vocal performance and voice training. But with its long digression into myofascial muscle work, it was less informative, speculative or titillating, and more physical therapy.
Read this book years ago, and enjoyed it. I found it to have some real handy information that I've had the pleasure and luck to implement a few times. Never enough! haha.
I had forgotten about it, until going through an old shelf the other day I found it. Decided I had better get it up onto Goodreads.
This book provides some valid pointers and tips on performing oral sex, though, at times, it reads like the author did very little research in writing the book aside from documenting her own personal experience with men.
Best book on the subject is still Kerner's She Comes First (literary style and references, fun to read, sensible approach, gentle guidance; Gone With the Wind quote: "You need to be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how"—priceless in the context). This is a solid second (being the 4th or 5th book I've studied on the matter at tongue).
It's a unabashedly nuts-and-bolts tech manual full of specific physical exercises and a roster of illustrated positions and techniques. The core chapter of the book, to which I'll certainly be returning, is Chapter 11.
Although Kerner's Gone With the Wind quote is better, the one from Shakespeare selected for this book is also a winner: "That man that hath a tongue, I say, is no man, if with his tongue he cannot win a woman."
And after that, what can I possibly add? Happy licking!?