Practice makes Perfect

One of my favorite fascinations is books on "sexuality AND" a divergent topic one wouldn't expect to overlap with this basic human performance. This book seemed promising, with its crossover between human sexuality and vocal performance and voice training. But with its long digression into myofascial muscle work, it was less informative, speculative or titillating, and more physical therapy.

Read this book years ago, and enjoyed it. I found it to have some real handy information that I've had the pleasure and luck to implement a few times. Never enough! haha.

I had forgotten about it, until going through an old shelf the other day I found it. Decided I had better get it up onto Goodreads.

This book provides some valid pointers and tips on performing oral sex, though, at times, it reads like the author did very little research in writing the book aside from documenting her own personal experience with men.

This was a tough read for me but once I completed the book I realized it just may have been worth it!

An excellent investment

Best book on the subject is still Kerner's She Comes First (literary style and references, fun to read, sensible approach, gentle guidance; Gone With the Wind quote: "You need to be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how"—priceless in the context). This is a solid second (being the 4th or 5th book I've studied on the matter at tongue).

It's a unabashedly nuts-and-bolts tech manual full of specific physical exercises and a roster of illustrated positions and techniques. The core chapter of the book, to which I'll certainly be returning, is Chapter 11.

Although Kerner's Gone With the Wind quote is better, the one from Shakespeare selected for this book is also a winner: "That man that hath a tongue, I say, is no man, if with his tongue he cannot win a woman."

And after that, what can I possibly add? Happy licking!?

Interesting.

I don’t think the tongue exercises in this book were actually that important or useful. I mean the only thing that I got from it was to use the softer inner lips more and also think about the different shapes the tongue can make and thus different sensations but that’s about it.

A+

Some great exercises for your tongue

Great information in an easily understandable format.