Bold Love

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A NavPress Audio Cassette series read by the author. Four 45-minute sessions on two cassettes.

null pages, Audio Cassette

First published January 1,1991

About the author

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Dan B. Allender, Ph.D, is a fly fisherman who also serves as president and professor of counseling at Mars Hill Graduate School near Seattle, Washington. He is a therapist in private practice, and a frequent speaker and seminar leader. Dan received his M.Div. from Westminster Theological Seminary and his Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from Michigan State University. He is the author of To Be Told: Know Your Story / Shape Your Future, How Children Raise Parents, and The Healing Path, as well as The Wounded Heart, Bold Love, and Intimate Allies. He and his wife, Rebecca, are the parents of three children.


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July 14,2025
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Surprisingly good.

This simple phrase holds a world of meaning. It implies that something has exceeded our expectations, perhaps in a way that we never thought possible.

It could refer to a product, a service, an experience, or even a person. When we encounter something that is surprisingly good, it often leaves us feeling pleasantly surprised and satisfied.

It might make us smile, or even give us a sense of excitement.

We might find ourselves recommending it to others, eager to share the joy of our discovery.

In a world where so many things can disappoint, finding something that is surprisingly good is truly a cause for celebration.

It reminds us that there are still pleasant surprises waiting for us around every corner, if only we keep our eyes and ears open.

So the next time you come across something that is surprisingly good, take a moment to savor it and appreciate the unexpected pleasure it has brought you.

July 14,2025
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People often get extremely angry when you read and then act upon the contents of this book.

It seems that the ideas or actions presented within its pages have the power to incite strong emotions.

Maybe it challenges their beliefs or goes against the norms they are accustomed to.

However, it is important to note that just because others get mad doesn't mean that what is in the book is necessarily wrong.

Sometimes, new and different perspectives can be uncomfortable, but they may also lead to growth and change.

It is up to each individual to decide how they will respond to the information in the book and whether they will let the anger of others deter them from exploring its ideas further.

In the end, the decision to read and act on the book is a personal one that should be made with careful consideration and an open mind.

July 14,2025
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This book serves as a remarkable source of encouragement for pondering upon the true meaning of loving someone well. It doesn't matter if that individual is your friend or even your enemy.

It delves deep into the concept of love and challenges our preconceived notions. At the conclusion of the book, it meticulously details strategies for loving three distinct categories of people. Firstly, there is the evil person, someone who may seem unlovable at first glance. However, the book presents ways to approach and show love to such an individual.

Secondly, it explores how to love a fool, someone who may make unwise decisions or act in a way that is not in their best interest.

Finally, it focuses on loving a normal sinner, which is perhaps the most relatable category for many of us. The book provides practical insights and examples of what it truly looks like to love these different types of people, inspiring us to be more open-hearted and compassionate in our relationships.

Overall, this book offers a profound and thought-provoking exploration of love that has the potential to transform the way we interact with others.
July 14,2025
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So far, it is quite excellent.

This book seems to be specifically designed for Christians, aiming to assist them in comprehending how to love others while simultaneously safeguarding themselves from those who are "hard to love" or of a "toxic" nature.

Striking such a balance is indeed a challenging task.

I intend to read this book slowly over the next couple of months, and I will surely let you know my thoughts once I have completed it.

I am eager to explore the insights and teachings it may offer, as I believe it could potentially have a profound impact on my understanding of love and self-protection within the context of my Christian faith.

Hopefully, it will provide practical guidance and inspiration to help me navigate the complex relationships that we encounter in our daily lives.
July 14,2025
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An Endless Gold Mine of Healing and Hope

This is truly an amazing dance of grace, hope, and love. It is like a magical choreography that unfolds before our eyes, captivating our hearts and souls. In many ways, it serves as a guidebook on how to love boldly. It shows us that by having a relationship with a God and Father, and His loving Son, we can be led on a path of true fulfillment. It allows us to drink deeply from the wellspring of their love and grace, finding healing and hope in the most unexpected places. This dance of love is not just a fleeting moment, but an endless gold mine of blessings that we can tap into at any time. It gives us the strength and courage to face life's challenges with a smile, knowing that we are never alone.

July 14,2025
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It took me an incredibly long time to complete this book. There were two main reasons for this.

Firstly, it didn't match what I had anticipated based on the information provided on the back cover. Secondly, I set it aside for a period to focus on finishing other tasks.

Despite this, the book does contain some excellent and significant ideas. However, the structure is rather unclear, and it seems to take an eternity for the authors to get to the core point.

I believe this book is primarily targeted at those who have an interest in counseling or therapy, or for individuals who are grappling with challenging relationships. This is precisely why it didn't really resonate with me.

I found myself often getting lost in the convoluted explanations and struggling to connect with the content on a personal level.

Perhaps if I had a different background or a more specific interest in the subject matter, I might have found more value in it.

Nevertheless, I can still appreciate the efforts that went into writing it and the potential benefits it could offer to the intended audience.
July 14,2025
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Love is a powerful and essential aspect of our lives.

It has the ability to bring people together, heal wounds, and create a sense of unity.

But how are we truly meant to love one another?

This is an amazing question that delves deep into the core of our humanity.

Love is not just about saying kind words or doing nice deeds.

It requires patience, understanding, and acceptance.

We must be willing to overlook the flaws and mistakes of others and see the good within them.

Love also means being there for someone in their time of need, offering a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on.

It is about showing empathy and compassion, and treating others with the respect and dignity they deserve.

When we learn to love one another in this way, we can create a more harmonious and beautiful world.

July 14,2025
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This was a good book.

However, I must admit that I did find it hard to read. The content was based on the Bible, which was interesting in itself. But it was the writing style that really posed a challenge for me. It was not straightforward and I often had to reread passages to fully understand what was being said.

Despite the difficulty in reading, I did find the book to be quite helpful. It provided valuable insights into the difficult relationships in my life. It made me reflect on how I interact with others and how I can improve those interactions. Additionally, it helped me to identify those areas where my perception of what Christ-like love looks like was skewed. It made me realize that I need to work on myself and my understanding of love in order to better love others as Christ would.

Overall, although the book was a bit of a struggle to read, I am glad that I persevered as it has had a positive impact on my life.
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