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July 14,2025
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My initial rating of this book was 3 stars.

I felt that the book was repetitive, and the "tips" in Part 3 seemed like an afterthought and lacked thorough exploration.

However, upon further reflection, I realized how much the ideas in this book had stuck with me.

It had actually changed my perspective on shopping, making choices, advertising, and my general outlook on day-to-day tasks.

This is where the book gained another star from me.

While the book is repetitive and the author does belabor his points at times, it is effective in making the material memorable.

The book is more like a textbook than a light, fun read.

But just when it becomes too much, the author moves on to the next point.

The edition I read was from 2005, so there were some outdated references.

However, it amazed me how many of the issues are still happening and have even grown since the book was published.

I especially enjoyed the psychological breakdown of why people make decisions the way they do and why some people feel regret while others don't.

As a "maximizer", this was eye-opening and explained a lot about how I feel before and after making decisions.

I appreciate that the author spent a little time at the end with some tips on how to be happier with your choices and not fall into the trap of regret and comparison.

If you are a "maximizer" and feel the need to always research and find the best choice (even for small decisions like what to eat for dinner), I highly recommend this book for its helpful insights.

I hope to become more of a "satisficer" and be happy with "good enough" more often!
July 14,2025
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I first heard of this book from a friend, who described it in the context of dating.

Between her first date with her husband and the day they got married, she had been married and divorced someone else. Why? Because when he first met her, he couldn't decide. There were so many other women, and he was afraid of missing out on "the right one," so he wanted to explore more options. This is the paradox of choice. The more options there are, the harder it is to make a decision.

All of this seemed perfectly logical to me, but until I read this book, I didn't think it applied to me. I don't consider myself indecisive. However, after reflecting on what I learned from this book, I realized that I'm a decision avoider. Unlike my friend's husband, I'm not likely to try out many options. I don't shop around. In fact, I hardly shop at all. While this simplifies things, it's not a balanced approach either.

The book distinguishes between maximizers, who search for the best possible option, and satisficers, who are content with "good enough." It's better to be a satisficer than a maximizer, and I did score closer to satisficer on the quiz (what good self-help book doesn't have at least one?). But because regret over past decisions, a maximizer trait, looms large in my life, I've had to conclude that I'm a satisficer when it comes to food, clothing, and entertainment, but a maximizer when it comes to the big decisions in my life: education, career, relationships, and child-rearing. As I've said in other reviews, one of the main reasons I want to go to graduate school is that I want a second chance at the college dream I botched the first time. I don't enroll because I can't afford it, but as a result, my job seems even more boring because I keep thinking that graduate school would be a better use of my time and talents. Goodreads is my continuing education, of course, but it doesn't fully satisfy me while I'm at work. I'd rather be reading or writing for Goodreads.

The book does offer advice on how to become more of a satisficer, and although it's sound advice, it wasn't anything I didn't already know. Basically, the advice is twofold. First, cultivate an "attitude of gratitude" so that you can see the good in what you have. Second, since the idea that you're missing out on a better option is a product of the imagination, imagine options that could be worse than the one you're in. After all, those things happen too.

But you know what? I just can't give up hope that there's something better out there. Imagining worse scenarios keeps me from seeking change, but that's fear. I'm as paralyzed as my friend's husband was. This, the book says, is regret aversion. I have it in a big way.

So overall, this wasn't a "feel good" self-help book. It made me see my flaws more clearly, and at the moment, anyway, it didn't give me any new skills. Still, the points rang true, so if awareness is the first step, hopefully, I'm on the right track. May Hashem send solutions to us all.
July 14,2025
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This book truly delved deep into the way I conduct myself.

I am a complete maximizer. What this implies is that whenever I am faced with a decision to make, I invariably strive for the absolute best alternative. Even if the process of researching to uncover the optimal option is arduous and consumes a significant amount of time, I still坚持追求.

Conversely, I could choose to be a satisficer. A satisficer is an individual who selects the option that meets all of their requirements, without fretting over whether there might be something superior available.

Schwartz persuasively demonstrates that maximizers are less content than satisficers. This book has been of great assistance in helping me gain a better understanding of myself. It holds the potential to aid me in becoming a more joyous person in the future by causing me to focus less on the matters that are inconsequential.

Overall, this book has provided valuable insights that I believe will have a positive impact on my life.
July 14,2025
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I wholeheartedly agree with the fundamental premise presented in the book.

Nonetheless, I cannot overlook the fact that despite its relatively modest length of around 200 pages, the book has a tendency to ramble on.

This excessive verbosity detracts from the overall reading experience and ultimately holds it back from receiving a higher rating.

The author could have been more concise and focused in presenting their ideas, thereby making the book more engaging and impactful.

Despite this drawback, the core concept of the book still has merit and could potentially offer valuable insights to those who are willing to wade through the sometimes meandering text.

Perhaps with a bit of pruning and tightening, the book could have been a more polished and highly regarded piece of work.
July 14,2025
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I listened to the audio book "The Dilemma of Choice" by Mohammad Reza Shabanali through the Matmm website.

Perhaps some readers had higher expectations of this book, but for me, this book was very good. Because I felt that if I could follow the guidance in the book, I would be able to make decisions more easily.

The content of the book is rich and practical. It provides many useful methods and strategies for dealing with various choices in life. By listening to this book, I have learned a lot and gained a deeper understanding of the art of making choices.

I am very grateful to my good teacher, Mr. Shabanali, for preparing this audio book. His efforts and dedication have made it possible for more people to benefit from this valuable knowledge.

I believe that this book will be helpful to many people and will become a guide for them to make better decisions in life.
July 14,2025
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In The Paradox of Choice, Schwartz delves into two fundamental methods of decision-making: maximizing, which involves striving to make the absolute best choice possible, and satisficing, which means making a choice that is good enough considering all factors.

Previously, I had considered these two approaches in relation to the decisions themselves rather than the individuals making them. For instance, when choosing a spouse or a house, one might be inclined to spend a significant amount of time and make the optimal decision. However, when it comes to selecting a restaurant or an item of clothing, satisficing is often the more practical approach.

Schwartz categorizes the world into "maximizers" and "satisficers," a concept that I found truly fascinating. One of his main ideas is that "maximizers" can potentially drive themselves insane by constantly attempting to make the "best" decision in every situation. Consequently, "satisficers" tend to be in a healthier state of mind.

As a natural satisficer and friend to several "maximizers," I was convinced by the argument presented in the book. I believe it offers valuable insights into the pressures of modern life, and I wholeheartedly recommend it to those who enjoy reflecting on their own thought processes.
July 14,2025
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The original article seems to be a bit short and needs to be expanded. Here is the rewritten and expanded version:

260 pages is an extremely long length. It can be quite overwhelming to deal with such a large number of pages. Whether it's a book, a report, or a document, 260 pages requires a significant amount of time and effort to read, understand, and analyze.



It might seem like an insurmountable task at first glance. However, with proper planning and organization, it is possible to approach this lengthy material more effectively. One could break it down into smaller sections or chapters and set aside specific time intervals to focus on each part.



Moreover, taking notes and highlighting important points can also help in better comprehension and retention. Additionally, it might be beneficial to discuss the content with others or seek additional resources for further clarification.



In conclusion, while 260 pages may be too long, it doesn't mean it can't be managed. With the right strategies and a determined mindset, one can successfully navigate through this extensive material and gain valuable knowledge and insights.

July 14,2025
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This book truly had a profound impact on me as it arrived at precisely the right moment.

It vividly describes how the path of happiness follows a U-curve in relation to the number of options one has. At the beginning, having more options seems like a great thing. It fuels competition and often leads to better outcomes. However, as the number of options continues to increase, there comes a point where it can become extremely overwhelming.

Trying to sift through and find the absolute best option can cause an excessive amount of stress that far outweighs any potential benefits.

The takeaway, in short, is to opt for a suboptimal choice - one that you can be content with and then firmly stick with it. There is no need to constantly strive for 'the best' because, in reality, there is no such thing that suits everyone.

We should learn to be satisfied with what we have and not get lost in the never-ending pursuit of an elusive perfect option.

This simple yet powerful message has really made me reevaluate my approach to decision-making and happiness.
July 14,2025
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As societies progress, the number of choices available to us also multiplies. Whether it's selecting a shampoo or choosing a career path, we are constantly confronted with an ever-increasing array of options. However, as we invest more energy and time into making even the simplest of choices, we often end up sacrificing far more.


Factors such as tradeoffs, guilt, regret, social comparisons, and expectations can only lead to a diminution of happiness, regardless of how seemingly good the choice may be.


What we perceive as an upgrade in our lives in this era often only serves to make us more stressed than we were in previous years.


In a world brimming with limitless choices, it is advisable to be a satisficer rather than a maximizer. It is better to find a good apple and be content when you discover it, rather than attempting to explore every single option and ultimately regretting not choosing the next red apple, and failing to enjoy the one that was clearly suitable for you.


I was particularly fond of the last paragraph of the book, which features a caricature of a fish and its son in a fishbowl. It presents a simple yet perfect illustration of the paradox of choice.


The myopic parent fish tells its offspring, "You can be anything you want to be—no limits," without realizing the restricted nature of the existence within the fishbowl. But is the parent truly short-sighted? Living in the confined, protective world of the fishbowl allows the young fish to experiment, explore, create, and write its life story without the fear of starvation or being devoured. Without the fishbowl, there would indeed be no limits. However, the fish would have to spend all its time simply struggling to survive. Choice within constraints and freedom within limits are what enable the little fish to envision a host of marvelous possibilities.


Ps: I made the incorrect choice of listening to the audiobook instead of reading it, and at times, I found it difficult to concentrate. Nevertheless, I managed to find a way to read it, and I am enjoying it. In the manner of a satisficer, this was sufficient
July 14,2025
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In short, Decision Paralysis occurs when there are too many choices, and this isn't always a good thing.

For example, in America, consumers are faced with an overwhelming number of choices when it comes to breakfast cereals. However, when it comes to voting for a President, the options seem relatively limited.

The verdict on this topic is a 2.8 stars, which has been bumped up to 3. The topic is interesting, but it can feel repetitive after a while. It is likely to be more appealing to those who are fascinated by statistics or consumerism. The latter parts of the discussion, where some strategies for minimizing choice and maximizing satisfaction are explored, are quite liked.

Of interest are the few quick self-quizzes included inside. However, one of them was missing the scoring. Perhaps this has been corrected in a later eBook edition.

So, are you a "maximizer" or a "satisficer"? Which one is better? Read on to find out.
July 14,2025
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"More is less. Definitely.

The book presents a compelling argument, supported by research, regarding the side-effects of living in a world filled with an abundance of choices.

Traditionally, having more choices and options seemed like a desirable thing to strive for.

However, when we consider the cumulative effect of the continuous and absurd proliferation of choices in all aspects of life, the consequences are truly alarming.

It is essential to recognize that while more choices may initially seem appealing, they can often lead to decision paralysis, stress, and dissatisfaction.

The sheer volume of options can overwhelm us, making it difficult to make a decision that we are truly confident in.

Moreover, the constant pursuit of more choices can prevent us from fully appreciating and enjoying the things we already have.

We may become so focused on the next best option that we fail to find contentment in the present.

Therefore, it is crucial to approach the concept of choice with a more discerning eye and to consider the potential drawbacks before succumbing to the allure of more."
July 14,2025
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Shwartz’s anecdotes initially seemed rather dull, causing me to wonder why I had embarked on reading this book.

The ordinary experiences and tiresome decisions we make daily, which按理说 should have minimal impact on our lives, have, for many people including myself, become all-encompassing. This was not a surprise to me.

Choices like what to watch on TV, what to eat, or what to wear should be instinctive, but for maximisers, which we all are in some aspects of decision-making, they often aren't.

His remarks on decision-making are not only enlightening but also somewhat liberating. While reading this book, I had to pause and reflect on situations where I had clearly overanalyzed my options for things that now seem so insignificant.

Has this book made me rely solely on my instincts when making decisions? No, and I'm quite glad about that. However, it has made me much more aware of which decisions merit a second thought and where I should focus my time. It has made me more at ease with settling for good enough.

What intrigued me the most was the impact that capitalism and consumerism have had on our choices, and I don't just mean in terms of clothing and technology, but on a broader scale.

Although I thoroughly enjoyed most of what was discussed throughout, I must admit that I had to laugh at the statement “I know that employment prospects and possibilities are not equally available to everyone... but not as many as in the past.” I almost stopped reading right there. I believe social class could have been explored in much greater depth. Throughout the book, there were many offhand comments about how some may not be able to afford new things and keep up-to-date, but these comments lacked any real substance. Class plays a significant role in the choices and opportunities available to an individual. And while I can understand that this may be less of an issue for the working class nowadays, that statement angered me because some people really don't have much choice in certain areas, even when it comes to food shopping.

Overall, I liked the book, but other factors in decision-making or the lack thereof should have been better addressed, even if it was just with an additional sentence.
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