As the author convincingly argues, there is a distinct pattern. When you progress from having no choices at all to having a few choices, your sense of well-being experiences an upward trend. However, as you transition from having a few choices to an abundance of choices, your happiness typically takes a downward turn. Why is this the case? It's because the process of choosing between all those numerous alternatives is not only time-consuming but also highly stressful. You find yourself becoming fearful of making a mistake, of not arriving at the absolute best choice. And often, the more time you invest in striving for that perfect choice, the more unhappy you end up being when you second-guess yourself after the fact. The question "Did I make a mistake?" keeps萦绕 in your mind.
So, how can one extricate oneself from this dilemma? The answer lies in limiting your choices to a select handful that meet your specific criteria. Then, firmly resist the temptation to add more alternatives. Make your selection as promptly as possible, taking into account the available information and the significance of the decision. For example, buying a house undoubtedly warrants careful consideration and a substantial amount of time. On the other hand, buying a coffee-maker does not require the same level of scrutiny.
This may seem rather self-evident on the surface, but in reality, it can be extraordinarily challenging to put into practice, regardless of whether it pertains to choosing a life partner or selecting a university to attend. The book is richly supported by a plethora of experimental evidence, which further validates its claims. It is truly well worth reading and comes highly recommended.