Дуже хороша книжка, причому корисна незалежно від того чи перебуваєте ви в стосунках чи ні. Безвідносно до вашого сімейного стану, вона може дати можливість подивитися на себе та своє життя трішечки інакше, проаналізувати свої стосунки з оточуючими людьми, та навчитися краще турбуватися про себе. Корисна книжка, шкода, що не потрабпила мені до рук раніше.
This book changed my life. I've never believed in self-help books, but this book is just unbelievable! It makes you feel as if someone just entered your mind, read every word and then put it down in a way that almost makes you shiver.
It's so perceptive, it's almost uncanny. If you are or ever have been in a relationship that's meant more pain than love, more tears than joy and more giving than what you're getting in return, this book is for you. It's the biggest wake up call you'll ever get. I cannot recommend it enough!
I picked this up on the way out of my sons' head start during a separation with my husband. I didn't think I would get very far into it but thought I should try considering my situation. The first 60+ pages flew by and I had learned an incredible amount. Sometimes God sends us little signs, like the lonely old book sitting on the table next to the door!
Este libro fue como un despertar que me permitió ver que hay muchas cosas que aprender, desaprender y sanar en la vida para poder avanzar. Muy buena guía para observar patrones de dependencia emocional que es necesario trabajar para vivir sin ataduras. 5/5
"La clave radica en aprender a vivir una vida sana, satisfactoria y serena sin depender de otra persona para ser feliz"
Šioje knygoje leis labiau suvokti kodėl žmogus yra toks koks yra, kodėl jis gyvena tokį gyvenima kokį gyvena, to ko dažniausiai nesuprantame iš šalies žiūrint. Daug moterų daro klaidą ieškodamos vyro, su kuriuo plėtotų santykius, pirmiau neišplėtoję santykių pačios su savimi ; jos bėga nuo vyro prie vyro, ieškodamos to, ko trūksta jų pačių viduje. Ieškoti reikia pradėti namie, savo viduje. Niekas nemylės tiek, kad pripildytų mus, jei nemylėsime savęs, nes eidamos ieškoti meilės tuščios, galime rasti tik dar labiau tuštumos. Mūsų gyvenime atsispindi tai, kas glūdi giliai mumyse: įsitikinimai savo pačių verte, teise į laimę, ko mes nusipelnome gyvenime. Kai šie įsitikinimai kinta, keičiasi ir mūsų gyvenimai.
I think this book is a necessary to be read by all women not because we are in same situation with women mentioned in this book, but because the nature of all women is to be kind and pleasing others. Then we can understand how much kindness is logical in relationships. For me my mom is the God of kindness but even in our relationship I always ask her to be kind to herself first then others and I think this is the best and healthier way to connect others by a woman.
Yes, Women Who Love Too Much is the quintessential self-help book. It fits every stereotype given to this genre. That being written, I read this at a time when I needed the help and to understand relationships. It was after a particularly devastating relationship and I was in a dark place. I don't remember if anything impacted me when I read the book, but years later I find myself flashing back to it from time to time, remembering something small from the book and being able to make some sense of things or relate certain issues in the present back to the information that seeped through. There have been many "Ohhhhh...yeah, I remember reading that" moments for me.
It's not going to change your life or save you from falling into your darkest places, but it's a good book for women to read if only to understand certain patterns of behavior that either we, individually or collectively, put into our relationships. While I don't remember it to be preachy, it does a good job of explaining why we may do certain things and why we shouldn't.
Yes, it's kitschy and you might be embarrassed if someone sees that you're reading it, but I'd recommend this for all women.
For many years this book was suggested to me, until I finally read it, ... again and again. It holds the key to a completely new self, to a better, a satisfactory and healthy life. Wheras the main content of the book simpy is ¨be more selfish¨, ¨make yourself happy, and every one else will be¨; it shows relationship structures and the origin of certain behaviours. You deserve to be loved for who you are, and not for your sacrifices. For some it takes a book (this book) to understand this.