Freaks, Geeks and Aspergers Syndrome: A User Guide to Adolescence

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Have you ever been called a freak or a geek? Have you ever felt like one? Luke Jackson is 13 years old and has Asperger Syndrome. Over the years Luke has learned to laugh at such names but there are other aspects of life which are more difficult. Adolescence and the teenage years are a minefield of emotions, transitions and decisions and when a child has Asperger Syndrome, the result is often explosive.

Luke has three sisters and one brother in various stages of their adolescent and teenage years but he is acutely aware of just how different he is and how little information is available for adolescents like himself.

Drawing from his own experiences and gaining information from his teenage brother and sisters, he wrote this enlightening, honest and witty book in an attempt to address difficult topics such as bullying, friendships, when and how to tell others about AS, school problems, dating and relationships, and morality.

Luke writes briefly about his younger autistic and AD/HD brothers, providing amusing insights into the antics of his younger years and advice for parents, carers and teachers of younger AS children. However, his main reason for writing was because "so many books are written about us, but none are written directly to adolescents with Asperger Syndrome. I thought I would write one in the hope that we could all learn together."


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April 26,2025
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This should be on every educator's reading list. We don't all think alike, and this book, written by a 13-year old AS (Asperger Syndrome) boy helped me understand how he is "wired" differently. Excerpt:
Luke Jackson, author, narrator describes a scene wherein he is daydreaming in math class...

"I glance up and see the formidable form of the teacher. He towers over me, arms folded, the pungent mixture of sweat and after-shave filling my nostrils [extra sensitivity to sensory input is common among AS people]. I await the moment when he pounces. 'Jackson,' he suddenly booms, 'Would you care to tell us exactly where you are?'
'Class E2, Sir,' I respond as quickly and politely as possible.
'Are you trying to be smart?' he snarls, his face reddening with anger.
'Yes, Sir,' I reply, 'of course I'm trying to be smart.' I think to myself, 'Surely that is why we are at school?' I breathe an inward sigh of relief, presuming he will now leave me alone, but when I look up, I see I am wrong.
His eyes are bulging, he is breathing fast and hard and his face is the colour of a beetroot [yes, Jackson is British]. 'Jackson, I will not, repeat not, tolerate such insolence. You can pull your socks up or get to the headmaster's office.'
Now when I was younger I would have bent down and done just that, pulled my socks up. However, I smile to myself inwardly.'Ha,' I think, 'I know this one -- it means get on with your work, not pull your socks up.' Grinning with delight at the fact that I finally understood, I pick up my pen and start to write. Well you would have thought that that was the end but it seems not!
'This is no laughing matter and how dare you ignore me when I am speaking to you?'"

The "teacher" further goes on to assign and hour's detention for Jackson's behavior.
April 26,2025
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Started on Saturday, finished on Sunday (and now't to do with Solomon Grundy).

So, here is another memoir from someone with Asperger's Syndrome (or Asperger Syndrome (AS) as it is referred to here).

This one is written by a thirteen year old boy that seems to come from a family with multiple autists (is that a word?) including his mother.

I suppose that this gives him a unique opportunity to write this book for other teenagers that have difficulty adjusting to a world largely composed of people who do not have AS.

He has plenty of examples to give - mainly drawn from his own experience and that of his family, and his entertaining (for a geeky teenager) style makes for an interesting book.

Paradoxically, his writing style is harder to read than the previous 2 books I read about AS (Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's and Born on a Blue Day: Inside the Extraordinary Mind of an Autistic Savant). Probably because I'm not thirteen anymore and so just cannot get my head around that teen vernacular. Either that or the author isn't as good a writer as the other two (yet).

Here's another paradoxicality for you - the very thing that makes the author well placed to write this book (closeness to himself and to his family) make him ill placed to write this book (distance from non-AS people).

This is demonstrated in one chapter entitled 'Dating', where Luke tries to give tips on how to have a successful date and relationship with someone. Fact is - he hasn't done this himself, and so it makes it difficult to believe that he is qualified to give advice.

Actually, the advice is credited to his three sisters - so I guess that makes it ok in this case; but the point still stands. It is obvious that Luke is a young man with huge amounts of potential, and yet at the age he writes this book, his life is still ahead of him, as well as all the experiences and triumphs that would make this book even better than it already is.

Still - eleven out of ten for effort. He's written and published a book by his early teens, which is more than I've done in four times that amount of time.

I'm going to stop now before I seriously depress the heck out of myself.
April 26,2025
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I was not too impressed by the book. It had been recommended to me, but did not hold through. I think I was not well fitted as a target audience. I still liked some extra information I was able to extract about asperger syndrome.
April 26,2025
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I gained insight into my own daughter's feeliings by reading this book written by a thirteen year old boy who is dealing with Asperger's Disorder.
April 26,2025
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I LOVED this book. I gained a lot of insight into what might be happening in the minds of some students and think every teacher should read this book. There were so many passages that I thought, "Oh, such and such teacher should read this" or "parents who are reluctant to 'label' their kid should see this." I also learned why families may pursue a gluten-free/casein-free diet for their kids with autism spectrum disorders. I just really enjoyed this book. How many non-fiction books make you laugh out loud (in a good way!) and keep you wanting to pick up the book until you're done. Highly recommend!!!
April 26,2025
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If I had had a book like this one when I was thirteen, it would have changed my life.

That's not to say that I think the book is perfect - I think it could have stood a little bit of gentle editorial help to smooth out some of the rough edges. I think Luke could have dispensed with the self-depreciating stuff like "After all, I'm only thirteen" and "I don't know how it is in other countries, but..." and just communicated what life is like for him and what he does know. Then again, maybe his way of expressing himself tells the reader something about Asperger's Syndrome that they need to know: talking with someone with AS can be an awkward experience for everyone involved.

That said, I like the book. I think Luke has compiled a lot of useful information (clearly he has done some research and knows his stuff pretty well) and the presentation is friendly and easy to read. I may try to get a copy to a teenager I know who has all the earmarks of AS and see if it helps.
April 26,2025
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Startling in clarity, wit, and honesty. Hard to believe book was written by a 13-year-old. Straight-on images of how a child with Asperger Syndrome experiences the world, and, by these insights, how to make their life and the lives of those around them less stress filled.
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