Love the Life You Live: 3 Secrets to Feeling Good--Deep Down in Your Soul

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We all want healthy relationships. But first we need to become whole and healthy ourselves, since a relationship can only be as healthy as the least healthy person in it. With a candid and realistic approach, Love the Life You Life guides each of us to becoming a more complete person in Christ by helping us recognize our blind spots, learn to be more authentic, strengthen our social skills, put the past into perspective, and more. Chapters include self-tests and practical suggested activities.

288 pages, Hardcover

First published October 1,2003

About the author

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#1 New York Times best-selling authors, Les and Leslie. A husband-and-wife team who not only share the same name, but the same passion for helping others build healthy relationships. In 1991, the Parrotts founded the Center for Relationship Development on the campus of Seattle Pacific University - a groundbreaking program dedicated to teaching the basics of good relationships.

Married in 1984, the Parrotts bring real-life examples to their speaking platform. Their professional training - Leslie as a marriage and family therapist, and Les as a clinical psychologist - ensures a presentation that is grounded, insightful and cutting-edge.

The Parrotts are New York Times #1 Best Selling Authors. Their books include the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, Love Talk, Real Relationships, The Parent You Want to Be, The Hour That Matters Most and Crazy Good Sex.

Each year Les and Leslie speak in over 40 cities. Their audiences include a wide array of venues, from churches to Fortune 500 company board rooms. Their books have sold over two million copies in more than two dozen languages.

The Parrotts have been guests on many national TV and radio programs such as CNN, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, The View with Barbara Walters, NBC Nightly News, and Oprah. Their work has been featured in USA Today and The New York Times.

Visit their website for lots of free resources at www.LesandLeslie.com

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April 17,2025
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One to re-read every year after memorizing the main points to continually apply it to your life and then help others learn the lessons to apply to their lives!
April 17,2025
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This book is just far to general and repetitive. The stories used for examples are often incongruent or outlandish and the hype at the beginning to solve all you problems leads to very disappointing actual content. Also, the online link you are told to go to for a self-assessment leads you to a website I'm sure they didn't intend on sending their readers to.
April 17,2025
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This is excellent practical advice with just the right mix of an easy read and thoughtful analysis. The manner and depth of presentation reflects the best the authors have to offer from their combined talents as both highly trained professionals engaged in individual counseling, and mass consumption authors. One of the authors is the founder of eHarmony.com – you must have seen the incessant ads on T.V.

The book starts with the deep and simple plan that you need to have “profound significance, unswerving authenticity, and self-giving love to achieve happiness. One thing I really liked were the “tests” it offers to see how well you rate on different dimensions that can have an impact on your happiness. You answer a series of multiple choice questions and then look at the answer key to see how you rate. These are good tools for judging the areas you are doing well in, or the areas that need improvement, in the safety and comfort of your home. If you are brave enough the text also offers several exercises you can engage in with others to see the difference between how you perceive yourself, and how others perceive you. Remember we can never see our own dark spots. .

It does not offer any one “Secret” that can change your life, but it does offer good discussions of key areas you can focus on to improve things. I liked how it talked about moving past your past, tuning into your self-talk, discovering you blind spots, and harnessing your wild side/passions. I enjoyed the discussion of the need to not simply destroying or choose not to act on our passions. We need to harness them, recognize they can be used for both good and bad, and learn to direct them towards the good that can bring us happiness.
April 17,2025
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Inspiring book with alot of real life experiences from two great Christian psychologists.
April 17,2025
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Great book with really insightful assessments to help you understand where you are at and where you want to be headed. I found this book exceptionally useful to change my thinking in positive ways. A must read for anyone who wants to make the transition from good to great living.
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