The desire to be near the beloved object initially stems not from the idea of possessing it. Instead, it is simply to allow the two experiences to compare themselves, much like reflections in different mirrors. This comparison enriches the understanding of both the self and the beloved. However, as time passes, there is a risk that love may degenerate. It can turn into a mere habit, where the once passionate connection fades into routine. Then, it may further transform into a sense of possession, as if the beloved is something to be owned. But this path often leads back to loneliness. The true essence of love, which was initially about connection and comparison, gets lost along the way. We must be vigilant to ensure that love does not follow this downward spiral and instead remains a source of growth and fulfillment.
It's entirely possible that this book might be construed as a touch self-indulgent. However, from my personal perspective, I found the language to be truly astonishing. It contains some of the most poetic writing I have ever encountered in my life. What's equally astonishing is the way that each of the four books delves into some of the same territory, yet does so from different vantage points and offers distinct insights. Reading this book, in part due to its grand scale, has been one of the most rewarding experiences I've had with any literary work. I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone with a passion for literature and a desire to be transported to another world through the power of words.
Quel pavé ptn! This book is really a thick one. The reading experience was sometimes a bit dry. And those metaphysical passages about art or love were so lofty (or maybe I'm just stupid, which is also possible) that I almost wanted to give up.
However, Lawrence writes divinely well (after all). He managed to tell the same story four times from four different perspectives, and each book adds a new layer. It's subtle, it's poetic, and it really touched my heart. I just think it could have been a little simpler and with less metaphysical blah-blah (but that's just my humble opinion).
Plus, the time constraint was a bit annoying. This book cost me 10 cents, which means two days of delay at the library.