The Wicked Son: Anti-Semitism, Self-Hatred, and the Jews

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Part of the Jewish Encounter series

As might be expected from this fiercely provocative writer, David Mamet’s interest in anti-Semitism is not limited to the modern face of an ancient hatred but encompasses as well the ways in which many Jews have themselves internalized that hatred. Using the metaphor of the Wicked Son at the Passover seder—the child who asks, “What does this story mean to you?”—Mamet confronts what he sees as an insidious predilection among some Jews to seek truth and meaning anywhere—in other religions, in political movements, in mindless entertainment—but in Judaism itself. At the same time, he explores the ways in which the Jewish tradition has long been and still remains the Wicked Son in the eyes of the world.

Written with the searing honesty and verbal brilliance that is the hallmark of Mamet’s work, The Wicked Son is a scathing look at one of the most destructive and tenacious forces in contemporary life, a powerfully thought-provoking and important book.

208 pages, Hardcover

First published October 10,2006

About the author

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David Alan Mamet is an American author, essayist, playwright, screenwriter and film director. His works are known for their clever, terse, sometimes vulgar dialogue and arcane stylized phrasing, as well as for his exploration of masculinity.

As a playwright, he received Tony nominations for Glengarry Glen Ross (1984) and Speed-the-Plow (1988). As a screenwriter, he received Oscar nominations for The Verdict (1982) and Wag the Dog (1997).

Mamet's recent books include The Old Religion (1997), a novel about the lynching of Leo Frank; Five Cities of Refuge: Weekly Reflections on Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy (2004), a Torah commentary, with Rabbi Lawrence Kushner; The Wicked Son (2006), a study of Jewish self-hatred and antisemitism; and Bambi vs. Godzilla, an acerbic commentary on the movie business.

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July 15,2025
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As thrilling as it is annoying,

the book reads like a rant, and is clearly intended to shock. It's not fair to judge it for not being more coherently argued, just as it would be absurd to complain that Bach keyboard music is bad because it can't fill the dance floor. This work is meant to have a powerful impact, to unsettle, to upset, and to hold up a series of very uncomfortable mirrors to a mostly Jewish readership. There is a great deal of criticism aimed at so-called "self-hating Jews," and I believe Mamet does a better job than many in explaining why this oxymoronic epithet might actually be appropriate.

The writing here most reminds me of Rieff's late work, such as "My Life among the Deathworks: Illustrations of the Aesthetics of Authority." Both works are fragmented and filled with rage at a culture that seems unable to avoid hating Jews. They both offer stunning reinterpretations of cultural texts, but they are also a bit too consistent to be completely convincing. Mamet is more focused on the Jewish "race traitors," at least in this book.

Don't misunderstand me. I think Mamet has more or less accurately captured a lot of anti-Judaism, with a psychological depth that is truly remarkable and a refreshing departure from the unconvincing everyday rationalizations. However, like much literary analysis, it is open to the criticism that "Yes, that's a very nice way of putting it, but it's simply not the case." In the end, with him attacking from all directions at once, I don't even think David Mamet agrees with everything he writes in this book.

Even though I did enjoy it, I do think the book would have been improved by better editing. There are quite a few typos and many phrasings that are unnecessarily difficult to understand. I actually like the fact that the book has the feel of a brilliant, rambling, raging series of orations. It's a suitable style for the subject matter. But since it is a book, there's no harm in modifying the phrasing of the orations until they are more accessible.

At the end of the day, given Mamet's scathing critique of "I'm Jewish but..." Jews and his continued deep loyalty to the Reform movement, I can't help but wonder, who does he talk to at kiddush?
July 15,2025
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Mamet has an extraordinary way with words. Whether I'm deeply engrossed in reading his plays or a book such as this one, he never fails to keep me thoroughly entertained. His writing style is so captivating that it draws me in and holds my attention from start to finish.


Although I might not necessarily concur with every single thing that he has to say, I must admit that he is extremely thought-provoking. His ideas and perspectives make me stop and really examine my own thinking. He presents a myriad of thoughts and concepts that force me to consider different viewpoints and make choices within the vast landscape of my own mind.


In my opinion, that is precisely what a good book should do. It should challenge our preconceived notions, make us think deeply, and inspire us to grow and evolve intellectually. Mamet's work undoubtedly achieves this, and for that, I am truly grateful.

July 15,2025
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A total waste of time. Such a disappointment. This is my proper view coming after my finals. I had put in so much effort and hard work, but the results were far from what I had expected. It felt as if all my time and energy had been flushed down the drain. I was left with a sense of frustration and dissatisfaction.


I had studied day and night, memorized countless facts and figures, and practiced numerous sample questions. But it seemed that none of it mattered in the end. The questions on the exam were either too difficult or not what I had prepared for. I felt completely unprepared and caught off guard.


As I walked out of the exam hall, I knew that I had failed. I was disappointed in myself for not being able to perform better. I had let myself down and all those who had believed in me. But I also knew that I had to pick myself up and move on. There would be other opportunities and I would do better next time.

July 15,2025
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Pretty interesting read and I really appreciated the bold wording. It caught my attention right away and added an extra emphasis to certain points. At times, it might have seemed a bit redundant, but that didn't really detract from the overall quality of the piece. In fact, I quite liked the way the author wrote. His style was engaging and easy to follow, which made it a pleasure to read. I found myself getting lost in the story and really enjoying the experience. Overall, I would say that it was a good read and I would recommend it to others who are looking for something interesting and well-written.

July 15,2025
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This book is crafted as a sort of open letter addressed to David Mamet's coreligionist brothers and sisters who have strayed from their faith. It is segmented into several concise snippets, with each one handling a distinct dilemma. (This is the same format he employed for The Secret Knowledge.)

Coming from an evangelical background, I discovered that some of his arguments were hard to fathom. Many (nonetheless) were universal; especially when it comes to human longing. I felt that Mamet ascribed too much of the anti-Semitism he perceives in the world to the outdated prejudices of Christians, particularly in relation to the crucifixion of Jesus. I am a 41-year-old male who has attended some form of Christian worship at least 50% of all the Sundays in my life. I have been to Catholic Mass and Lutheran, Methodist, Apostolic, Baptist, and countless other non-denominational and denominational Christian services, and never once have I heard a pastor, priest, etc. blame the Jews for the death of Jesus! He also made a significant error in asserting that Jesus was condemned on the Sabbath, after Good Friday. (See page 34 – A Hot Hen’s Kiss) This is simply untrue as Jesus was crucified BEFORE the Sabbath, early on Good Friday.

Some things you ought to know. David Mamet is astonishingly intelligent. I would have profited from having a dictionary on hand. I mostly trudged forward in the hope that the context of the paragraph would assist in defining a difficult word. Sometimes it did, sometimes it didn't. I suspect I will need to read this book several more times to fully appreciate the author's insights. He is brilliant. Although many arguments would sink in, I am incapable of beginning to express them to others. Read this book during that time of the day when you are the sharpest.
July 15,2025
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Powerful, poignant, well thought out, well argued. These are the words that come to mind when I think about DM.

Before, I may have had a somewhat limited perception of DM. But now, after experiencing and understanding it more deeply, I hold it in a whole new light.

DM has the power to move people, to touch their hearts and make them think. It presents ideas and arguments in a way that is both engaging and convincing.

It is not just a form of communication, but a means of expressing complex emotions and thoughts.

Whether it is through its powerful imagery, its poignant storytelling, or its well-constructed arguments, DM has the ability to leave a lasting impression.

I am now truly amazed by the depth and breadth of DM, and I look forward to exploring it further and seeing what new insights and perspectives it can offer.
July 15,2025
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This is a dense, at times impenetrable book that delves into the curse of the modern liberal Jew. It is extremely apropos at this moment in time, especially with Israel on the ground in Gaza. The author's perspective has truly made me think twice about my usual wussy liberal response.

Often, we liberals tend to approach complex issues with a certain set of assumptions and knee-jerk reactions. However, this book challenges those very assumptions and forces us to reevaluate our stance.

It makes us question whether our liberal ideals are truly being served in all situations or if we are simply being too soft and not taking into account the full complexity of the issues at hand.

As I read through the pages, I found myself confronted with ideas that I had never considered before. It has opened my eyes to a new way of thinking and has made me more aware of the need to approach these issues with a more critical and open mind.

Overall, this book has been a thought-provoking read that has had a profound impact on my views and beliefs. It is a must-read for anyone who is interested in understanding the complex relationship between modern liberalism and Judaism in the context of the current geopolitical situation.
July 15,2025
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So, let me get this straight: thinking critically about Israel is anti-Semitic?

I have a real problem with the idea that simply because I embrace my religious and cultural identity as a Jew, it means I must blindly support the political agenda of a country like Israel, with which I have no real personal connection. Israel, which has been known to routinely violate human rights in the name of "defending itself."

While I don't deny that anti-Semitism is a very real and serious issue (and let's be clear, when we talk about anti-Semitism, it should also include anti-Arab sentiment as Arabs are also technically Semitic), it is by no means an excuse to persecute others.

If, as Mamet seems to suggest, all Jews should embrace Israel as an integral part of their religion, then it follows that we, as Jews, should be prepared to grapple with the moral and political implications that come with it. We shouldn't simply fall back on a hysterical persecution complex. This struggle is, in fact, an essential part of being Jewish, just like those who "wrestle" with God in our religious traditions.

This guy, Mamet, seems to be nothing more than a chauvinistic windbag who has a thesaurus at his disposal but perhaps lacks a deeper understanding of the complex issues at hand.
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