“I want you always to remember me. Will you remember that I existed, and that I stood next to you here like this?”
Memories fade but constantly haunt Toru Watanabe, the narrator of Haruki Murakami’s renowned novel, Norwegian Wood. The more the memories recede, the stronger the haunting feels:
“Even so, my memory has grown increasingly distant, and I have already forgotten any number of things. Writing from memory like this, I often feel a pang of dread. What if I've forgotten the most important thing? ... Naoko herself knew, of course. She knew that my memories of her would fade. Which is precisely why she begged me never to forget her, to remember that she had existed. The thought fills me with an almost unbearable sorrow. Because Naoko never loved me.”
Twenty years after the events of Norwegian Wood, Toru looks back on his first year of college in 1969. It's essentially the Summer of Love, with a Japanese twist.
On the surface, Norwegian Wood is a simple coming-of-age story and love tale. It's one of the few novels by Haruki Murakami without any elements of magical realism.
Toru falls deeply in love with Naoko, a young woman who has been emotionally scarred by the suicides of two people closest to her. To her credit, Naoko realizes she needs psychological help and moves to a hippie-style sanatorium in the hope of healing.
Toru loves Naoko and wishes he could assist her. But he has to learn the hard truth that he can't control another person's emotions.
Of course, Norwegian Wood has a love triangle. Naoko's depressive state is contrasted with the lively Midori, who is full of life and tries to bring out the best in Toru. Midori is like Venus to Naoko's Saturn. But Toru can't let go of Naoko and move on, even as he sets his own life on a path of regret and unhappiness.
Toru is so fixated on Naoko that he doesn't pay attention to his own emotional health. He doesn't recognize when he gets into a very unhealthy relationship, and no amount of love and longing will make it better.
Norwegian Wood is emotionally overwhelming, shattering me every time I read it. I'm actually a bit afraid to pick it up because of the inevitable emotional impact. It always takes my resilient spirit some time to recover after closing its back cover.
Norwegian Wood is one of my all-time favorite novels. It's almost too excellent, just like the Beatles song it's named after.