The Group

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The Group is the most outspoken of Mary McCarthy's highly unconventional novels. America's great bestseller, it is a daring and brilliant story about the lives -- and loves -- of eight Vassar graduates ...
"Brilliantly contrived, extremely funny and totally adult -- by far her best book" -- Cyril Connolly, London Sunday Times
"Clearly one of the best novels of the decade." -- David Boroff, National Review
"Miss McCarthy has once more achieved the continuing aim of her dazzling literary career." -- Charles Poore, New York Times

397 pages, Mass Market Paperback

First published January 1,1963

About the author

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People note American writer Mary Therese McCarthy for her sharp literary criticism and satirical fiction, including the novels The Groves of Academe (1952) and The Group (1963).

McCarthy studied at Vassar college in Poughkeepsie, New York and graduated in 1933. McCarthy moved to city of New York and incisively wrote as a known contributor to publications such as the Nation, the New Republic, and the New York Review of Books. Her debut novel, The Company She Keeps (1942), initiated her ascent to the most celebrated writers of her generation; the publication of her autobiography Memories of a Catholic Girlhood in 1957 bolstered this reputation.

This literary critic authored more than two dozen books, including the now-classic novel The Group, the New York Times bestseller in 1963.

Librarian Note: There is more than one author in the GoodReads database with this name.

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July 15,2025
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I don't know how I had never read Mary McCarthy's most famous novel. For most of my adult life, I had known about it and always thought I would get to it someday. Well, now I am reading it, and it's 1963, the year it stayed on the bestseller list for months and months, ending up as the #2 bestselling novel. And that someday is finally here.


The group in the novel consists of eight women who formed an exclusive clique at Vassar College. They roomed in four double rooms and spent most of their time together, being smart and snarky. This is very much a women's book. It opens at the wedding of Kay, just a few weeks after their graduation as part of the Class of 1933. At the wedding, we are introduced to all of them, their backgrounds, their quirks, and the tensions between them.


I suppose a reader could see the novel as dated. After all, it was 84 years ago that these women were embarking on adulthood. It was only three and a half years into the Great Depression, and it was before WWII.


While Vassar was a prestigious female college, not all of the group are privileged. Some come from wealthy families, but they are all quite conscious of a huge shift in the country, economically, politically, and socially. Each one is figuring out how to take her place in such a world. FDR is an unknown quantity whom most of their parents abhor. Communism and socialism (almost equated in those times) are rearing up as viable political stances. Sexual mores are just beginning to shift. The couple getting married have already been sexually active and living together.


The story follows these women through marriages, adulteries, separations, and divorces, through careers, and even a death. The Spanish Civil War, the rise of Hitler, and the attack on Pearl Harbor all occur. At the end, the United States is about to enter WWII.


As I read, it seemed less and less dated. Mary McCarthy, of course, was mid her career as a public intellectual while writing this novel, just as the so-called sexual revolution was about to erupt. But I thought that even up until today, women continue to face the same issues. Except for one of the eight, who comes out as a lesbian near the end, there is little diversity among the characters besides middle class vs upper class. Yet, we are as much today in the midst of tremendous upheaval economically, politically, and socially, as well as sexually.


So I decided that "dated" is not the correct epithet. Perhaps the novel is historical, but in fact, I found it part of the stream of history for American women, a history that is ongoing. Reading it gave me a sense of relief from the particular stress of our times. Every generation faces change and upheaval, from our great grandmothers flowing on to our great granddaughters. Mary McCarthy was a contentious, sometimes bitter and catty woman possessed of fierce intelligence and sensitive feelings. She preceded our fierce female intellectuals of today, and some of them even admit her influence on them. I should say so!
July 15,2025
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I can't recall the last occasion when I relished a novel to such an extent. The Group, in its narration of the lives of a cluster of young women in 1930s New York, held my attention firmly, evoked my sympathy, entertained me thoroughly, and touched my heart throughout. McCarthy has truly ingeniously constructed her novel. She deftly weaves in and out of the lives of these vastly different women, examining them from diverse angles and at various distances. How I wish more writers would adopt this approach! It was incredibly refreshing to be immersed in and then withdrawn from these women's lives, and to learn to perceive them in novel ways each time. There is also an outstanding exploration of what were undoubtedly the crucial tensions in life during that era - namely, how we reconcile our private and public lives and what it means to be a woman in a male-dominated society. This is a beautiful, witty, and deeply moving novel. I'm certain that I'll pick it up and read it again one day.

July 15,2025
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I read this book over forty years ago.

At that time, I was living in a room that Mary McCarthy might have stayed in. She had visited the house of her Vassar '33 classmate, Rhoda Wheeler (Sheehan).

Rhoda, a German major in college, had an interesting encounter. She saw Hitler after curfew in Berlin, sitting in his car.

Later, Rhoda became my colleague at Bristol Community College in Fall River, MA. In the late 70s, for several years in a row, she brought her other famous author friend, Eiizabeth Bishop, to read at the college. Bishop had just returned from Brazil after her Brazilian friend died.

Bishop completed her poem about that loss, "The art of losing isn't hard to master," in Rhoda's Hurricane House. I even had the opportunity to interview Bishop on prosody there.

A few years later, I also had a unique experience. I cleaned a fish--a bluefish--for the author of "The Fish."

When I read "The Group," I was quite certain that I knew who the compulsive reader character was and the one who traveled around the world. So, I read it with more than just a strictly literary interest.

However, after forty years, what I mainly recall is a skilled narrative that balanced the five principle characters and included dramatic scenes such as the loss of virginity.

I believe "The Group" was unprecedented as a novel. It was the first feminist novel that prioritized women themselves, with relationships being secondary.

Italian feminist novels have done something similar, but more recently, in the last twenty years. And they are more grim, perhaps reflecting the more sexist situation they find themselves in.

July 15,2025
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This novel offers a detailed portrayal of a specific era and society, namely, the New York of the 1930s. Through a group of friends who have just graduated from Vassar College, it describes in detail the ideas, concerns, and problems of the upper bourgeoisie at that time, inevitably influenced by the Great Depression.

The story begins with a wedding and ends with a funeral. In that seven-year interval, we discover a generation of women who want to distinguish themselves from their mothers because they have received an exquisite education and consider themselves intellectuals, but who are equally limited by the prevailing male chauvinism and ultimately see their aspirations hampered by marriage and motherhood. Relationships with men, sexuality, motherhood, religion, family, politics, homosexuality, mental problems, and many other themes are analyzed with the sharp eye of Mary McCarthy, whose prose exudes intelligence. The author exposes, but does not seem to denounce, the reality of that moment, where most male characters manipulate, undervalue, and/or mistreat the protagonists.

Once I read that great writers allow us to travel in time, and this work is a good example of that. Although the narration may seem somewhat cold and distant, it is worth delving into its pages to observe the evident contrast between the expectations and the real possibilities of those first women who prepared to play a different role in the world but who, nevertheless, had to conform to repeating the destiny of their predecessors. And it's not at all bad to take a look at the neighborhoods of New York in the early 20th century; to contemplate its shops and businesses, the everyday objects, and the neuroses of its inhabitants.
July 15,2025
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Speriamo che sia femmina


In the 1930s in America, eight girls graduated from the same university and shared their diverse stories. Despite a rather rigid and conservative education befitting the best of American bourgeoisie, they all imagined and desired an existence different from that of their mothers. They dreamed of an interesting job, travels, achieving economic independence, and an interesting emotional life.


However, things don't always go as we would like. And all of them, to a greater or lesser extent, encounter problematic relationships, sexual misadventures with selfish and unlucky men, and difficulties in emerging in the workplace. But the greatest conflicts are within them. On one hand, they long for independence, on the other hand, they are continuously bombarded by calls to the existing conventions.


There is work on one side and the need to find a man and "settle down" on the other. Economic independence here and "because dear, why don't you have a child yet?" there. "I would like to choose a man who loves me and makes me feel really good"/"well, even if he abuses me and doesn't even kiss me, it's still okay." Evidently, self-esteem is flagging, alas...


The book surely talks about avant-garde things for the era in which it was written. In 1933, talking about sex, contraceptives, gynecologists, natural or artificial breastfeeding was not taken for granted. However, the book is far from perfect. More than a novel, it seemed to me a collection of stories (undoubtedly written brilliantly) that lack continuity and homogeneity. The transition between one "story" and the other is rather tedious, and I often had difficulty following the thread of the discourse.


Nevertheless, it remains a very interesting snapshot of the female way of thinking of that era, but also in some ways current (I must say I learned quite a lot). What struck me a lot were the male/female relationships. Two isolated and separate worlds with a big absence: communication. How many problems could have been solved (and can still be solved today) simply by talking more?
July 15,2025
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[contains spoilers] 2.5 stars. I found myself volleying between thinking 'it was okay' and 'I liked it' throughout the entire book. I really wanted to like this much more than I actually did. I do understand and appreciate its cultural significance, especially at the time of publication. However, I think I also understand why this isn't a more well-known and widely read classic. Others have simply done it better. Despite many of the issues being timeless, this book doesn't quite transcend time.

My biggest gripe is that I never once understood or felt a connection among any of the characters in The Group. There were so many girls, and we never got to delve deeply into any of them. I understand that each is supposed to represent a certain aspect of being a woman during that era (it would be quite a hefty tome if it explored everyone in-depth), but I felt completely unconnected to any of them. I would have preferred a smaller "Group."

**SPOILERS AHEAD**

I felt worse for Kay when she ended up in the hospital, but I felt nothing when she died. I thought the final ten or so pages, mostly those following Lakey and Harald's car ride, were some of the most insightful and engaging of the book. (I also enjoyed Dottie's encounter with Dick Brown and her pessary acquisition, but I felt she was built up a great deal only to be left as a dangling thread by the end.) And why was there that entire, dry chapter on Hatton? It seemed like a terrible waste of space when there were better ways to learn about a character and her family. I also kept losing track of who was who, which is normally not a problem for me.

And yet... I read this in about a week. It was still somehow engaging. I liken it to a cloudy day, where little bursts of sun break through a dense layer of clouds. When the sun comes out, it's brilliant, but unfortunately, it just doesn't happen often enough.
July 15,2025
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Mary McCarthy's "The Group" is not only a captivating tale of friendship but also a profound exploration of the social mores prevalent among the "privileged" in Prohibition-era America.

The book delves into the lives of seven Vassar graduates who initially "grouped together" in a college dormitory. Their lives intersect sporadically throughout the narrative as they navigate the complex web of love affairs, careers, marriage, and motherhood in New York.

Some of the girls remain close, while others drift apart as they leave the sheltered world of Vassar behind. Certain parts of the book, such as Dottie's first encounter with a man, Kay's husband's infidelity, Priss's challenges with motherhood, and Lakey's return, were considered extremely scandalous upon publication and still hold a certain allure today.

I envision the women of the 1950s, clad in their sweater sets, sharing the book and identifying strongly with the characters, proclaiming "I'm a Kay" or "I'm a Helena" or "I'm a Polly," much like the girls of my generation who say "I'm a Carrie" or "I'm a Charlotte" or "I'm a Miranda."

If we approach the book for what it truly is, a story of friendship in pre-war America, we can gain insights into the motivations and insecurities that might have influenced our grandmothers. And I firmly believe that, even in the present day, we can find ourselves identifying with one or more of the characters. Personally, I resonate deeply with Priss.

July 15,2025
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I'm making a guess as to when I read this, and 1969 seems like a reasonable estimate. I recalled it when I received an e-mail from The Library of America stating that Mary McCarthy's complete works were going to be published in two volumes.

Should I reread it? I have my doubts. I'm not sure if it will be as depressing as it was back in 1969. Aging has a dual effect on books. Some books improve with age, becoming more profound and enjoyable. Their themes and messages may resonate more strongly with readers as time passes.

On the other hand, some books decline in the enjoyment they deliver. The language may seem outdated, or the ideas may no longer be relevant. It's interesting to see how books change over time and how our perception of them can also vary.

I'm curious to see if Mary McCarthy's works will hold up after all these years. Will they still have the same impact on me? Only time will tell.
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