Good stuff indeed. I read it within our small group, and as a result, there was some really good conversation as well. The basic premise questions, which our kids are constantly asking, truly spoke to me. The first question is: "Do you love me?" This simple yet profound query lies at the heart of our relationships with our children. It's a question that they seek reassurance for, a question that tests the depth of our love. The second question, "Can I have my own way?" also holds great significance. It reflects the natural desire of children to assert their independence and make their own choices. These two questions serve as a reminder of the complex and beautiful nature of parenting. They make us think about how we communicate our love and how we balance our children's need for autonomy with our responsibility to guide and protect them.
One of my absolute favorite parenting books! It truly stands out as an invaluable resource. What makes it so special is its emphasis on having a long-term vision, which is of utmost importance in the parenting journey. Parenting is not a short-term endeavor; it's a continuous process that requires careful planning and a forward-thinking approach. This book provides practical advice and strategies that help parents develop and maintain that long-term perspective. It offers insights into various aspects of a child's growth and development, from infancy to adolescence. By reading this book, parents can gain a better understanding of how their actions and decisions today can have a significant impact on their child's future. It equips them with the tools they need to make informed choices and guide their children towards a successful and fulfilling life.
Still one of the best books I've read on parenting. It's not a typical "how to be the best parent" book. Instead, it offers encouragement and teaches how to learn, enjoy, live, and love freely. Reading this book made me grateful once more that God has bestowed the gift of our boys upon us. Parenting is indeed HARD. There are countless challenges and moments of self-doubt. But it is also oh so RICH. The joy of seeing our children grow, learn, and develop their unique personalities is indescribable. It's in those precious moments that we realize the true value of parenting. This book has reminded me to cherish every step of the journey and to approach parenting with love, patience, and an open heart.