Rochester's actions towards his mentally ill wife are truly abhorrent. He shows little to no compassion or understanding, instead subjecting her to what can only be described as abuse. This behavior not only causes great distress to his wife but also has a significant impact on those around him, particularly Jane.
Jane, on the other hand, finds herself constantly complaining about Rochester's treatment of his wife. She is appalled by his lack of empathy and the way he seems to disregard her feelings and well-being. Jane feels that Rochester's actions are unjust and cruel, and she cannot help but voice her concerns.
However, despite her complaints, Jane also finds herself in a difficult position. She is attracted to Rochester and cannot help but feel a certain degree of sympathy for him. She understands that his situation is complex and that he may be dealing with his own demons. Nevertheless, she cannot overlook the fact that his treatment of his wife is unacceptable and that something must be done to address the situation.
Women are supposed to be very calm generally: but women feel just as men feel; they need exercise for their faculties, and a field for their efforts as much as their brothers do; they suffer from too rigid a restraint, too absolute a stagnation, precisely as men would suffer; and it is narrow-minded in their more privileged fellow-creatures to say that they ought to confine themselves to making puddings and knitting stockings, to playing on the piano and embroidering bags. It is thoughtless to condemn them, or laugh at them, if they seek to do more or learn more than custom has pronounced necessary for their sex.