Inspirational! It's both sad and touching to read this book :’(
For One More Day is a story about a mother and her son, the eternal love of a mother, and the following question: What would you do if you were given one more day with the person you love who is no longer there?
When he was young, Charley Benetto was asked by his father to choose, to be "either mom's child or dad's child, but not both." So he chose his father, admired him—but his father left just like that when Charley was on the verge of adolescence. And Charley was raised by his mother, alone, even though he often felt ashamed of his mother's situation and longed for a complete family.
Years later, when his life was ruined by alcohol and regret, Charley intended to commit suicide. But he failed. Instead, he was brought back to his old home and found something astonishing. His mother—who passed away eight years ago—was still living there and welcomed his return as if nothing had ever happened.
This book is really worth a thumbs up as it can draw tears from the reader. This is the second time I have read a novel by Mitch Albom after The Five People You Meet In Heaven. These two novels by Mitch Albom both tell about the journey of delving into the stories told by people who are no longer there to the main character, which has become a characteristic of the author in each of his works. Charley Benetto is a boy who grew up in a divorced family. His father and mother separated badly. He lived with his mother while his father went nowhere. He became a boy who grew up without the陪伴 of his father. In his life, Charley had to be a figure of a child who represented the wishes of both his parents. Education and baseball were two different things that he had to pursue. His mother always reminded him that education was the most important thing, while his father always demanded that Charley excel and become a successful baseball athlete. Until finally Charley decided to choose one of the two.
"Education is everything, Charley. Education is the way for you to do something for your life" (p. 153).
When Charley already had a family and children, it was time to celebrate his mother's 70th birthday. During the celebration, his mother looked very happy and energetic. But the smile on his mother's face disappeared because his son suddenly had to leave for a matter that could not be explained. Again, Charley had to follow his father's will to play baseball at an age when he was no longer young. But during the game, something unexpected happened to him.
Something had changed. One day can change the direction of your life, and that day seemed to have changed my life, turning it downwards and unable to be reversed again (p. 12).
His mother passed away. And when that happened, Charley was not by her side.
Charley's life is now in a mess. All the people he loved left him because of his bad behavior. He often got drunk. Until something happened to him. He had an accident. His whole body hurt unbearably, but he forced himself to walk towards his old home. The house where he, his sister, and his mother lived when he was a child.
When he entered the house, something strange happened to him. The house looked the same as when he was a child. The house was so clean and well-kept, and even the aroma of cooking could be smelled inside. Although the house had not been taken care of and was neglected by him. When he entered, something astonishing happened to him. Someone called his name from the direction of the kitchen, and indeed he knew that voice very well. The voice of his mother.
Charley's life at that time was also reversed so dramatically when he saw the figure of his mother—who had passed away eight years ago—was in the kitchen cooking and talking to him. The figure he had longed for so much and who had become the only motivation for his life at that moment was in front of him. He spent one day with his mother and met people who were able to change his view of his mother's figure and able to know his mother more deeply. A mother who had been struggling alone to raise her two children. A mother who always endured and hid the pain she felt so that her son would not know. A mother who always took care of and loved her two children wholeheartedly. Charley regretted never spending time with his mother.
Here are some quotes that were able to catch my attention when reading this book:
"She loved me when I came and went, in the worst and best of times. She had a bottomless well of love for me" (p. 44).
"I saw from the expression on her face the same unchanging lump of attention as before. And I realized that every time you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you have ever known" (p. 218).
She put one hand on top of mine. "If someone is in your heart, they never really leave. They can come back to you, even at unexpected times" (p. 178).
This book is highly recommended for anyone who is missing the figure of their mother. The story is really moving and inspiring. But for some reason, the language used in some parts is a bit 'complicated', which makes the pleasure of reading a little reduced. But overall, this book will feel smooth when you start reading it.
Four full medals for the story of Charley and his mother with their pure and touching love^^
"Count the hours that you should have been able to spend with your mother. The span of a whole lifetime" (p. 184).