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A beautifully presented, vulnerable treatise on the philosophy of loss, mourning, and honoring the dead. I’m a better person for having read this one.
272 pages, Paperback
First published January 1,2001
Two infidelities, an impossible choice: on the one hand, not to say anything that comes back to oneself, to one’s own voice, to remain silent […] But this excess of fidelity would end up saying and exchanging nothing. It returns to death. It points to death, sending death back to death. On the other hand, by avoiding all quotation, all identification, all rapprochement even, so that what is addressed to or spoken of Roland Barthes truly comes from the other, from the living friend, one risks making him disappear again, as if one could add more death to death and thus indecently pluralize it. We are left with having to do and not do both at once, with having to correct one infidelity with the other. (45)For Foucault, he writes that “one does not carry on a stormy discussion after the other has departed” (81), instead believing that “The only recourse left us in the solitude of questioning, to imagine the principle of the reply” (89). Death as the crafting of a monologic space.