This’s my first time reading one of Dale Carnegie books and It won’t be the last. I loved the book, the advices in it was very honest and purchase, also enjoyed the stories of the book so much.
This book was obtained from Carnegie's two most popular books. It's a summary of sorts.
My major takeaway from this book is to prioritize to avoid procrastination, to enjoy what I've achieved, and to avoid criticism. Sometimes, I fail to realize that I've already achieved a lot by becoming a medical doctor. This book definitely puts things into perspective.
Along the process of reding this book changes me without me realizes about it. It gives me the core value of human being. The fact that we all are different and each of us has different reasons in trying to talk or act in an in-understanding approaches. This is the most important first thing to remind yourself before you are going to judge someone. I feel that I am more slower in interact with people. It doesn’t mean in negative way but more in the way that I pause myself first trying to listen and not to give the offensive words to them just only to protect myself but hurting someone.
Well, please read the book and you will see the world different than you are nowadays!
Nice way to review some content from "How to win friends and influence people" which was one of the most influencial books that shaped my social interactions.
It's a very light read and it's probably worth coming back to it every 5-10 years to check the progress on some of the advice there.
Every once in a while, I resort to Dale Carnegie after a long streak of reading books on various topics. I do this because as a man who lived in the 1890s - 1950s he produced the clearest good-old-fashioned values, which fittingly feels at home after a long journey outside. And this book is no different.
Published in 1970, the book is a some kind of summary of his 2 most famous books, "How to win friends and influence people" and "How to stop worrying and start living", which are then catered to the particular subject displayed as the title of this book. While the book is published posthumously, it has the familiar Dale Carnegie's style of writing, the endearing pop references from his time, complete with his template of heart-warming examples to illustrate the points that he's trying to make.
And similar with his previous 2 magnificent best-sellers, and a 3rd one about public speaking (equally excellent), this book also teased me into highlighting every single paragraph, because they all seem to be important. But that's how home should feel like, wouldn’t you agree? It's that feeling of ease and security when you're inside the house, where nobody is judging you, where there's nothing but love, where every single item in the house is important and valuable for you. And that is what this book is for me.
या पुस्तकात डेल कार्नेगी यांनी जीवनाकडे सकारात्मक दृष्टिकोन ठेऊन कसे बघावे व आनंदी जीवन कसे जगावे याचे उत्तम मार्गदर्शन केले आहे. पुस्तक थोडे कालबाह्य असले तरी त्यातील संदर्भ आजही आपल्याला लागू पडतात. फक्त हेमंत सामंत याचे प्रभावी भाषांतर करण्यात अपयशी ठरले आहेत त्यामुळे एक स्टार कमी दिला आहे. आजकाल कॉम्प्युटर सॉफ्टवेअर चा वापर करून भाषांतर करण्याचा ट्रेंड वाढत चालल्यामुळे भाषांतराचा दर्जा बराच खालावला आहे.
This is selections from How to Win Friends and Influence People and How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Basically the condensed versions in order to cash in on Dale Carnegie's popularity and as a quick introduction to some of the concepts. A bit dated in some of the ways things are presented, I'm more used to less verbiage from this sort of book, but otherwise quite readable.
Interesting view of how teaching other people well can reflect well on your work and home life.
Bu kitab haqqında düşüncələrimi, nəhayət ki, bu gün bölüşmə imkanı tapdım. Deməli, Dale Carnegie-ni tanımayanlar üçün qısaca bir məqamı vurğulamaq istərdim: İnsan münasibətləri adına, düzgün əlaqə yaratmaq, münasibətlərdə qaçınmalı olduğumuz məqamlar və ya tam tərsi diqqət etməli olduğumuz pointlər və s. adına çox yaxşı yazardır! Carnegie yaradıcılığı ilə tanış olmağınız məsləhətlidir.
Bu kitabın adına baxanda insan elə bilir, iş həyatının incəliklərindən, iş mühitindən, ümumi həyatdan söhbət gedəcək. Fəqət heç elə olmadı. Əksinə kitab insanın əvvəlcə özünü, daha sonra isə başqa insanları anlamağına bələdçilik edirdi. Münasibət qurmaqda daha düzgün yanaşma tərzinə sahib olmağın incəliklərini öyrədirdi. Və daha çox başqalarından asılı olan istəklərimizi hansı şəkildə həyata keçirə bildirə biləcəyimizi nümunələrlə göstərirdi. Ümumi olaraq, kitabı çox sevdim və mənim üçün həqiqətən də dəyərli qeydlər qazandım.
डेल आपको खुद को जानने के लिए प्रेरित करते हैं और बताते हैं कि संतुष्ट होने के लिए आपको क्या करना चाहिए.... यह एक अच्छी शुरुआत है.....किस तरह दुनिया में बदलाव करने के लिए सही स्वाभिमान होना चाहिए या हम जो है या करते हैं उससे खुश रहना चाहिए.....व्यक्ति को अपना नज़रिया रखना चाहिए और किसी और की नकल नहीं करनी चाहिए, किसी को क्यों महत्वपूर्ण महसूस कराया जाना चाहिए , उसकी भावनाएं क्यों मायने रखती हैं....ये सब इस बुक में बहुत अच्छे से बताया गया है... मानवीय संबंधों पर प्रकाश डाला जाए है...
Maybe if you don't like your job, you should change it! (smile) We all have those days, where we don't like the situation we are in. If we are in the right place as far as our job or circumstances, than maybe we need to look at the bright side of things, create a positive attitude, and go from there.