Any single or married woman can find success in the pursuit of love, marriage, and happiness with these sensible, sexy, realistic tips from Py Kim Conant, who used them to find her own American husband. More practical than politically correct, her advice covers every aspect of landing and keeping a man. Developing “Geisha Consciousness,” she says, helps maximize a woman’s femininity. The author invites readers to become a “Younger Sister,” a geisha-in-training, and then proceeds into the four parts of this lively, provocative book: getting started as an American Geisha; sex secrets to bond him to you; planning for marriage; and keeping the marriage fresh and sexy. She suggests specific strategies for women including creating a bedroom shrine of worship to hubby’s manhood; learning to express femininity and sexuality; identifying and then dating their “Good Man.” An afterword on "Geisha Power," a glossary of terms, recommended reading, and resources help readers expand the experience.
"S. Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man" is my first English language book (published by Hunter House). I position myself as an interpreter of the Japanese Geisha's way to a Western/American audience. I find that I exist in three distinct cultures living in the US: my original Korean culture, the American culture into which I moved, and the stereotyped 'Asian' culture that people apply to me when I meet them. My secrets that I share in my book come out that three-part cultural background, and out of my own experiences to attract and marry the right man for me. I have published three books in Korean and have written a bi-weekly column for the Korea Daily in Southern California. Since November 2006, I have appeared more than hundred TV and radio shows, including the Tyra Banks Show. I became a TV and radio personality.
This is another self-help book that I, the the anti-self-help book person, has on her shelf. I flipped through it on a whim and ended up buying it. I refer back to it often. The whole first half of the book is about loving yourself, becoming confident about yourself and identifying Good Men. I was with a Bad Man when I bought the book, and forever trying to please him. Talk about having what you already know thrown in your face! While there are some sex 'tips' in the book, it's mostly relationship and confidence based.
I use it now when I feel my married routine needs a kick in the pants. It's not manipulation, it's using your resources. My overly-bookmarked copy has served me very, very well.
Sex Secrets of an American Geisha is an informative read. It is about "discovering and experiencing your beauty, femininity and sexuality while on a journey to love and marriage with a Good Man..." Her introduction should not be overlooked. Do not be mislead and think this book is stiff or boring. Kim interestingly as a woman discusses topics many men actually discuss and have strong feeling about; such as Chap 3: Geisha attractiveness: Beauty and Sexy Femininity -What makes a Woman Sexy and Feminine? -First Be Yourself, Then Be Feminine -Becoming More Beautiful, Sexy and Feminine in Three Areas, Chap 4: Give Away Credit for Your Orgasm...to Him! Chap 6: Worship His Manhood, MY personal favorite! Chap 7: Define Your "Good Man" -You Get to Do the Choosing -You Are a Good Woman Chap 12: Love Is More than Just Good Sex. This book is more than a 'how to...' it is a book which openly discusses numerous topics which should not be ignored. Don't short change yourself or the one you love and abandon your femininity and ability to please your lover/husband. Learning these so called secrets can assist you on your journey or in mine and others’ case validate as well as serve as a written reminder keep up the good work!
If you read this book with an air of fun and ironic tinge, it's much easier to like. However, if you take it with any credibility, you see the obvious underlying sexism and oppression being shoved into the laps of the women who have 'turned their backs' on the correct ways to please the men-folk... gag. My diversity professor would tear this thing to shreds.
This is a good book but not very good.If you are single and looking for a man,you should read it but you will have to read more. The author is of the opinion that if you are sexy and beautiful it is easier to find a man but there are many beautiful and sexy women who struggle to find and keep a man.Ms.Conant also stresses the importance being feminine which seems to be a good point but she does not properly instruct how you can be very feminine or how you can make a man feel good about himself (in a nonsexual way).
Anyway,If you don't have a weight problem and you are good looking skip the chapter related to weight maintenance (Chapter 9).Chapter 2 and 5 seem useless too.Definitely read chapter 11. the book is long so skipping 3 chapters(9,2&5) should make it easier for you to read. You should read this book