A lot of insight. I Learnt a lot from Kim and choose what worked for me

This is another self-help book that I, the the anti-self-help book person, has on her shelf. I flipped through it on a whim and ended up buying it. I refer back to it often. The whole first half of the book is about loving yourself, becoming confident about yourself and identifying Good Men. I was with a Bad Man when I bought the book, and forever trying to please him. Talk about having what you already know thrown in your face! While there are some sex 'tips' in the book, it's mostly relationship and confidence based.

I use it now when I feel my married routine needs a kick in the pants. It's not manipulation, it's using your resources. My overly-bookmarked copy has served me very, very well.

Not a Secret Any More!

Sex Secrets of an American Geisha is an informative read. It is about "discovering and experiencing your beauty, femininity and sexuality while on a journey to love and marriage with a Good Man..." Her introduction should not be overlooked. Do not be mislead and think this book is stiff or boring. Kim interestingly as a woman discusses topics many men actually discuss and have strong feeling about; such as Chap 3: Geisha attractiveness: Beauty and Sexy Femininity -What makes a Woman Sexy and Feminine? -First Be Yourself, Then Be Feminine -Becoming More Beautiful, Sexy and Feminine in Three Areas, Chap 4: Give Away Credit for Your Orgasm...to Him! Chap 6: Worship His Manhood, MY personal favorite! Chap 7: Define Your "Good Man" -You Get to Do the Choosing -You Are a Good Woman Chap 12: Love Is More than Just Good Sex. This book is more than a 'how to...' it is a book which openly discusses numerous topics which should not be ignored. Don't short change yourself or the one you love and abandon your femininity and ability to please your lover/husband. Learning these so called secrets can assist you on your journey or in mine and others’ case validate as well as serve as a written reminder keep up the good work!

Quite possibly the worst book I've ever read, and I've read "Twilight."

If you read this book with an air of fun and ironic tinge, it's much easier to like. However, if you take it with any credibility, you see the obvious underlying sexism and oppression being shoved into the laps of the women who have 'turned their backs' on the correct ways to please the men-folk... gag. My diversity professor would tear this thing to shreds.

It was published in 2006.

It's kind of sexist and not relevent to today context. Please try to find a more pertinent book to read instead of this one

i think it's awesome.

This is a good book but not very good.If you are single and looking for a man,you should read it but you will have to read more.
The author is of the opinion that if you are sexy and beautiful it is easier to find a man but there are many beautiful and sexy women who struggle to find and keep a man.Ms.Conant also stresses the importance being feminine which seems to be a good point but she does not properly instruct how you can be very feminine or how you can make a man feel good about himself (in a nonsexual way).

Anyway,If you don't have a weight problem and you are good looking skip the chapter related to weight maintenance (Chapter 9).Chapter 2 and 5 seem useless too.Definitely read chapter 11.
the book is long so skipping 3 chapters(9,2&5) should make it easier for you to read.
You should read this book

Interesting, but not for me. Some tips were good, but I found others a bit demeaning. That being said, give it a shot if you are interested in the topic. I just couldn't relate to it. :)