I really enjoy this author. She's so REAL. The author, Lisa Whelchel, was Blair in The Facts Of Life, the 90's sitcom. She's awesome!! One of my new favorite 'parenting' authors.
It had some good suggestions and humerous stories. I didn't 100% agree with all her methods, but she said they wouldn't all work for everyone. I found it encouraging, not pointing out all my faults as some parenting books can tend to do. I like that there are tips, Bible verses, prayers, etc, that I can look up quickly for reference.
This book gave me fabulous ideas that I would not have imagined on my own. There are LOTS of options for discipline. I used a few immediately, and definitely saw results. Well worth every penny.
my parents owned this book long ago and didn’t use it. I read it at some point, and had some key takeaways: (Note that I may not be remembering this right) • welchel punished her son, diagnosed with adhd, for being “rowdy,” and she furthermore insisted that his adhd was actually just “allergies.” I can’t imagine insisting that a child who had a documented, diagnosed disability actually had “allergies” that made them “sin.” I have seen elsewhere that she eventually admitted he had adhd, though
• hot sauce on a kid’s tongue? How is that better than time out?
• would tell her kids “no” when they asked to go to the bathroom as a “joke” but also a “lesson”