Tomcat in Love

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A wildly funny, brilliantly inventive novel about a man torn between two the desperate need to win back his former wife and a craving to test his erotic charms on every woman he meets.

He is 6'6" tall, a cross between Ichabod Crane and Abe Lincoln. He is a professor of linguistics, bewitched by language, deluded about his ability to win the hearts of women with his erudition and physical appeal. He is Thomas H. Chippering, a.k.a. Tomcat, a masterly addition to the pantheon of unforgettable characters in American fiction.

And in his private dictionary of love, three entries stand out.

Tampa. Just the word makes Tom Chippering's blood curdle. That's where his ex-wife, the faithless Lorna Sue, now lives with a suntanned tycoon whose name Chippering refuses to utter.

Revenge. If Chippering can't get Lorna Sue back, at least he can wreak havoc with her new marriage. (How about some strategically placed lingerie in the tycoon's "ostentatiously upscale Mercedes"?) He also has plans for Lorna Sue's brother, Herbie, with whom she has always had an unnaturally close relationship.

Love. His ex-wife may have disapproved, but is Chippering's fondness for women--especially the nubile coeds who attend his classes--really so wrong? And now love finds a new Mrs. Robert Kooshof, the attractive, demanding, and, of course, already married woman who may at last satisfy Chippering's longing for intimacy.

Tim O'Brien--acclaimed for his fiction about the Vietnam War--has now taken on the battle between the sexes with astonishing results. By turns hilarious, outrageous, romantic, and deeply moving, Tomcat in Love gives us a blundering, modern-day Don Juan who embodies the desires and bewilderments of men everywhere.

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April 17,2025
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I balk at giving this novel the full four stars, but i don;t feel that it deserved only three. i think that much of the humor in the book was muddled and mired and played more to an audience of one, the writer himself, than anyone else. most of the time when it was supposed to be comedic it just seemed terribly pathetic (not the writing, but the actual happenings). this book is ridiculously self-indulgent and has none of the poignancy of his other books such as if i die in a combat zone and things we carried. this is however light years beyond his first novel, northern lights. i can see that this is supposed to be more of a black comedy but it comes off as an old man trying to make sense of his midlife crisis in a mocking and terribly self absorbed way. the only thing that really saved it for me and earned the four stars was that the writing, although choppy in its narrative, was perfect and once every hundred pages he floored me with some sentence or other about life or love or women or femenism or what have you.
April 17,2025
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did not like the character
had to keep reading, hoping it would redeem itself
but no
April 17,2025
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O'Brien always seems to dig into these nooks and crannies of the psyche that go unexplored by most authors. Here, the awful, awful titular character dwells on the unique characteristics words take on when coupled with experience. It's unnerving in a way that I'm having trouble describing (just like some parts of The Lake of the Woods chilled me in some fundamental way that I still can't unpack, years after reading it).

Anyway, this is a really well-written book, and as loathsome as Chippering is, I think O'Brien turns a mirror around a bit to point it back at the reader. The satire works, too, though I can't figure out how some reviewers pegged this as a straight-up ha-ha comedy. It's a comedy in the classic Greek sense, I guess....
April 17,2025
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Rare is the gem I rate 5 stars. This book is a brilliant tale of love, betrayal, dark academia, obsession, and a second chance. I plan to recommend it widely. Very well written, witty, and wise. Had an interesting twist or two at the end. RRAD IT!
April 17,2025
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This is a clever, often hilarious book, about a ridiculous and clueless misogynist. It was written well before #metoo movement, but the character seemed to be as unaware of his actions as a Harvey Weinstein. The difference is that this guy was so unselfaware as to be almost cute. The language and constructing of sentences with as many unique words as possible and it NOT a
Fast read! In fact, I soon tired of the verbiage. Still, I enjoyed the ending where he gained some awareness
April 17,2025
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I'm very divided about this book. It's definitely timely. It's also often funny, and sometimes horrific. But it does go on just a bit too long.
April 17,2025
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I was on a long-distance drive recently, and, not surprisingly, the idle time and the tedium of the drive got me to thinking about a lot of things, most of them incongruous and possibly hallucinatory. Including, inexplicably, a passage in this book where the narrator grudgingly recounts a card game he lost in which an eight-year-old girl (he petulantly says) cheated, and then mocked him. And the memory of that scene made me laugh hard, and I was able to focus on the road again for - I don’t know - like at least another a mile or so, and I’m grateful for that. It’s a small passage in my favorite book by Tim O’Brien, and while I know he’s written literary masterpieces, and I’ve read them and loved them, this is the only book of his I’d want to read again. And I have.
April 17,2025
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Sometimes good writers write bad books. It would have been a kindness if someone could have told O'Brien on about page 50 to give it up. By p200, I didn't see how this nonsense could continue, but somehow it did right up to p370.
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