Tutoring can be quite challenging. Often, those who seek a tutor are the ones having the most difficulty grasping the subject matter. The interesting thing about literature is that students who resist reading it are often the ones most capable of understanding it. Any eyebrows raised yet?
Who are writers, after all? Aren't they those who choose to search for additional meanings and interpretations of this world? Those who are not satisfied with it? Those who are ready to rebel? Don't give me that 'Caesar-ordered-this-book-to-praise-the-Romans-so-the-writer-must-have-been-a-sell-out' argument. I couldn't care less, and I think it's irrelevant. A book is either a success or not. This has nothing to do with whether it was commissioned or not. It depends on the person who wrote it. If the author is an artist determined to create art, then the book usually ends up being art.
If you ask me, the fact that Aeneid is supposed to be written to praise ancient Romans is not important at all. It doesn't subtract or add anything to/from the work. Don't use it as an excuse for giving up on reading it. If you don't like it because it didn't move you, that's fine, but I think this epic deserves a fair chance. I believe it should be read with an open mind and heart.
Sometimes with classics, we forget to truly read them. We read about them, and by the time we get to reading them, we're so engrossed in all that background information that we forget the fundamental joy of reading, which is reading for the love of reading. What matters is that it is an amazing epic poem written by a talented writer. In other words, the writer matters.
Speaking of writers, I imagine many of them were rebellious teens. Those straight A students will read the book cover to cover and learn the basic historical facts about it, but will they be moved? Will they cry when Aeneid leaves a woman who loves him to fulfill what he sees as his duty? Will they offer new interpretations? Those that are truly new and fresh, not just a sum of what critically acclaimed literature professors recently shared?
Perhaps it's an appropriate irony that intelligent but rebellious students often avoid reading assignments just because they find it hard to connect to the subject matter. They're put off by the fact that it's a classic. That's really understandable because when one is fifteen, Aeneid may seem boring. That's why a good teacher must be prepared to invest a bit more time to get their students into reading it. Let's take Aeneid, for example. Yes, we could discuss all kinds of literary interpretations, its background, and its historical context, but wouldn't it be nice to talk about it like readers? Like people who were genuinely moved by it?
I must have read Aeneid at least twice that Summer. Surprisingly, trying hard to focus on every important aspect of it didn't take away from the joy of reading it. That's the wonderful thing about literature. It really doesn't matter how long ago it was written; great literature always makes us feel a certain way. Time is the greatest distance between two places, said Tennessee Williams, and while that's certainly true when it comes to our daily lives and human relationships, such rules don't apply to literature. You know you won't be any less of an intellectual if you admit that you were actually moved by a literary classic. If you don't open up emotionally (and not just intellectually) to some piece of writing, you're bound to miss out.
I'm not going to say that every single verse in Aeneid left me in awe. The poetry is certainly beautiful, but the narrative, the characters, and the overall story might feel a bit alien to a modern reader. Nevertheless, if one is willing to just forget about all that and READ it, I'm sure that one will find that the praise Aeneid has received is well-deserved. Sure, there are events in it that aren't terribly interesting and parts that were an obvious praise of 'you-know-who' and so on... That being said, it is a book I enjoyed reading. It is a book I've read numerous times, and that's the most honest of recommendations.
Don't take my word for it. Go on and read it yourself if you haven't already. If you have, consider rereading it. Aren't you curious why it's such a brilliant piece of writing? Why it inspired so many writers? Why it has been considered one of the most important works of European literature? Don't be afraid to take on this one. Find a good translation and enjoy. And if you happen to be able to read it in the original (for there are people who can read in Latin), lucky you.