360 pages, Library Binding
First published January 1,1997
Having been raised in Saint Paul, Minnesota, where many of my friends were Hmong growing up, I was super intrigued when I heard about this book. There just aren't a lot of books available in English about Hmong culture, which I already knew to be exceedingly rich and one that has taught me a lot of lessons I carried into adulthood. So the excitement and anticipation was high for me.
I knew going into this book that the author was a white woman, but I was not prepared for just how white this book is. I do recognize that it was written in the 1990s, and that the 1990s had its own cultural context. However, the 1990s is also when I was living in St. Paul, and I had hoped that this book would center Hmong voice, avoid discussing Hmong culture in an exoticizing way, and avoid generalizing from a single family to a whole culture. Unfortunately, it failed on all these counts. From the first few pages, I wanted to skip to the Afterword and see if the author had any better insight into the cultural lens she brought to this narrative with 15 years of hindsight. I'm kind of glad I refrained, because if I had read the Afterword first, I would have set this book down and walked away.
There were also a great number of points in this book where the author makes subtle jabs at the broken English of the Hmong people, makes casual observations like "oh this person is actually really smart," elevates extremely offensive statements made by white doctors without commentary, and projects and speculates about what "a Hmong person" would think and about Hmong cultural beliefs from the role of an expert. It's constant and maddening. While she does take a favorable view of the Lee family over the doctors and talks to more Hmong people than just the Lee family, and rails against some of the bias and prejudice experienced by the Lees, it's really overshadowed by how she positions herself as the expert and accepts her worldview as neutral. I am very torn on recommending this one, especially in 2021 when there are other books about Hmong culture available in English by people who are actually Hmong.
With that enormous caveat aside, The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down was a really gripping read for me. It centers on a young girl named Lia Lee, who had a severe form of epilepsy, her family, and her medical team in Merced, California in the 1980s. Lia began having significant seizures as an infant, but her parents were unable to explain that to medical staff when they brought her to the hospital each time because they spoke no English and no interpreters were available. It took several seizures before they could get her to the hospital while she was still seizing and convey the actual reason for their visit. Once Lia was diagnosed, her plan of care quickly became complex, as her condition was severe and her seizures were difficult to control. Her parents struggled to follow the medication plan, not because they didn't understand it, but because they were very concerned about the side effects they were witnessing. Unable to convey this to the doctors effectively, and unable to get the doctors to value their perspective on their own daughter's care, Lia was forcibly removed from her parents' home and placed into foster care.
Luckily, Lia seems to have mostly had a positive experience in care, including a caregiver who took a co-parenting approach with her parents, valued her relationships with her full family, and supported reunification from early in the case. The family also seemed to have a very strong positive relationship with the social worker. Lia was indeed reunified ten months later. But once home, Lia continued to experience seizures, although at fewer intervals, even with her parents following the medication plan. Her doctor grew very concerned that it was more or less inevitable that Lia would have a severe sustained seizure from which she would likely not recover, and indeed that happened when Lia was four years old after she suffered septic shock. From that point on, Lia continued to live to the age of 30 in a persistent vegetative state, eventually dying from pneumonia. The author interviews many of Lia's doctors, Lia's parents, and some leaders in the Hmong community to get different perspectives on Lia's illness, Lia's treatment, and the cultural barriers that, if addressed differently, could have saved Lia's life.
In alternating chapters, the author also explores Hmong culture more broadly, beginning with the history of oppression the Hmong have faced for generations upon generations long before leaving Southeast Asia. She offers a vivid picture of what life was like in Laos, how extensively the US relied on the Hmong to fight a proxy war in Vietnam, and the experience of fleeing to refugee camps in Thailand when the communists prevailed and their lives and livelihood were threatened for rising up on behalf of the US. She also gets into the very poor approach the US government took to resettling Hmong refugees in the United States. She goes into a lot of detail around some very specific Hmong religious beliefs, but others she glosses over or ignores completely. For a lot of this information, she seems to rely heavily on the work of Christian missionaries in the region.
Like I said, I was definitely engaged in reading this book and found it hard to put down, and I did get better insight into some parts of Hmong culture. However, I also was really upset by the tone of a lot of it. So read with discretion.
The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down is the Hmong word for epilepsy. This story mainly follows a Hmong family who immigrated to the US and their conflict with the medical community. The cultural background of the Hmong people, including their history, world view, and self-identification, significantly contributes to understanding a people who are very different from western culture. There are so many people with the best of intentions trying to do the right thing, but so many cross-cultural misunderstandings lead to heartache. This book was written and took place in the 80s - 90s. The afterword by Hardiman in 2012 adds a message of healing and hope.
The Hmong people have a rich and unique cultural heritage that is deeply intertwined with their daily lives and beliefs. Their history of migration and settlement in different parts of the world has shaped their identity and influenced their approach to various aspects of life, including health and illness. In the context of the story, the Hmong family's understanding of epilepsy is based on their cultural beliefs and practices, which may conflict with the medical model used in the US.
The cross-cultural misunderstandings that occur between the Hmong family and the medical community highlight the importance of cultural competence in healthcare. It is essential for healthcare providers to understand the cultural background and beliefs of their patients in order to provide effective and respectful care. The afterword by Hardiman offers a glimmer of hope by suggesting that through dialogue, education, and mutual understanding, it is possible to bridge the gap between different cultures and promote healing and well-being.
It was indeed a fact that had the Lees remained in Laos, Lia would most likely have perished before she even reached the end of her infancy. This was due to a prolonged episode of untreated status epilepticus. In Laos, the lack of advanced medical facilities and resources would have made it extremely difficult, if not impossible, to provide the necessary treatment for such a serious condition.
However, in the United States, although Lia's life was preserved through the use of modern medicine, her condition was also compromised. The treatment she received may have had certain side effects or limitations, which could have had a negative impact on her quality of life and development.
I found myself in a state of uncertainty, wondering which of these two scenarios had hurt her family more. On one hand, if Lia had died in Laos, her family would have had to endure the pain of losing a child at a very young age. On the other hand, in the United States, her family had to deal with the challenges and uncertainties associated with her compromised condition. It was a difficult and complex situation, and I could not help but feel empathy for the Lees and the difficult choices they had to make.