\\"Writing and reading have a profound impact on our lives. They have the power to decrease our sense of isolation, deepen and widen our understanding of life, and nourish our souls. When writers use their prose with such exactness that it makes us nod in agreement or even laugh at ourselves or life, it restores our buoyancy. It's like being given the opportunity to dance or at least clap with the absurdity of life, rather than being constantly squashed by it. It's similar to singing on a boat during a terrible storm at sea. Although we can't stop the storm, singing can change the hearts and spirits of those on the ship.\\"
There may be some people who don't agree with this, those unfortunate souls who \\"hate\\" to read. But this summary is as good as it gets for those of us who love the written word, who value the lifelong learning opportunities that nonfiction books provide, who can get lost in a good book, relate to a character, event, or conveyed belief, and are sad to say goodbye to those we've come to love.
This was my second time reading Bird by Bird, perhaps twenty years after the first read. I remembered that it inspired me to believe I could write and gave me tips on how to cultivate that belief. I had forgotten many of the specifics in the meantime, but I retained the overall \\"feeling\\" and a few tips. This time around, after twenty years of experiences, it was a hilarious and much more relatable revisit. While it focuses on the task of writing, it offers so many vulnerable, humorous, and \\"human\\" anecdotes that one could apply them equally to most areas of life, areas where doubt becomes a noose and expectations beckon like a slip-and-slide.
Bird by Bird reminds me that the person behind those words is a complex human, filled with equal amounts of angst and courage. Humans with overactive \\"KFKD stations\\" playing in their heads as they struggle with their keyboards, trying to create something that the rest of us can enjoy, learn from, or at least not find repulsive.
\\"A big heart is both a clumsy and delicate thing; it doesn't protect itself and it doesn't hide. It stands out, like a baby's fontanel, where you can see the soul pulse through.\\"
If you do any kind of writing at all, this book is a wonderful blend of advice, reassurance, and caution, seasoned with self-deprecating humor. This is a woman I can identify with. If you are a reader, this book offers an inside look at the hard, hard work that goes into creating those few hours of enjoyment that you cherish so much.