Bird by Bird

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"Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. [It] was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said. 'Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.'"

With this basic instruction always in mind, Anne Lamott returns to offer us a new gift: a step-by-step guide on how to write and on how to manage the writer's life. From "Getting Started,' with "Short Assignments," through "Shitty First Drafts," "Character," "Plot," "Dialogue." all the way from "False Starts" to "How Do You Know When You're Done?" Lamott encourages, instructs, and inspires. She discusses "Writers Block," "Writing Groups," and "Publication." Bracingly honest, she is also one of the funniest people alive.

If you have ever wondered what it takes to be a writer, what it means to be a writer, what the contents of your school lunches said about what your parents were really like, this book is for you. From faith, love, and grace to pain, jealousy, and fear, Lamott insists that you keep your eyes open, and then shows you how to survive. And always, from the life of the artist she turns to the art of life.

238 pages, Paperback

First published May 5,1994

About the author

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Anne Lamott is an author of several novels and works of non-fiction. Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, her non-fiction works are largely autobiographical, with strong doses of self-deprecating humor and covering such subjects as alcoholism, single motherhood, and Christianity. She appeals to her fans because of her sense of humor, her deeply felt insights, and her outspoken views on topics such as her left-of-center politics and her unconventional Christian faith. She is a graduate of Drew College Preparatory School in San Francisco, California. Her father, Kenneth Lamott, was also a writer and was the basis of her first novel Hard Laughter.

Lamott's life is documented in Freida Lee Mock's 1999 documentary Bird by Bird: A Film Portrait of Writer Anne Lamott.

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July 15,2025
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I read it in three sittings, and in each of the three sittings, I cried a lot. For various reasons.

The footnote. Thanks to Melika:* Seeing her underlines and annotations added a transparent and brilliant personal layer to the text of the book and made me think if so-and-so read it, where would they mark it and if they were empathetic, what would it be like, and the quality of her experience was ten out of ten.
July 15,2025
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I gave up on this book after 51 pages. I truly enjoy reading what great writers have to say about writing. However, Anne Lamott fails to meet the mark of being a great writer in my opinion. Here is the passage that ultimately made me decide I'd had enough:

"Novels ought to have hope; at least American novels ought to have hope. French novels don't need to. We mostly win wars, they lose them. Of course, they did hide more Jews than many other countries and this is a form of winning. Although as my friend Jane points out, if you or I had been there speaking really bad French, they would have turned us in in a hot second--bank on it. In general, though, there's no point in writing hopeless novels. We all know we're going to die; what's important is the kind of men and women we are in the face of this."

This passage appears just 3 pages after she recounts teaching her 2-year-old son peace chants. "It was during the war in the Persian Gulf; I was a little angry."

I'm angry too, Ann--for purchasing your book.

If you want to read a book about writing by a writer who truly has the talent to write, I highly recommend checking out Haruki Murakami's "What I talk about when I talk about Running": https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2...
July 15,2025
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Anne Lamott's book "Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life" has just ended. With each page I turned, I became more eager, reading with a smile on my face and with appreciation.

It's wonderful that such an author, who laughs at herself, in her author's manifesto, tells every topic, emotion, fall and rise that her candidates will experience without hesitation, sincerely, and gives examples from her own small life with an open heart. I highly recommend it to those who are new to writing.

I have been buying "everything about writing (script/play/story/novel/essay, etc.), books about literature" for years. Some books really stand out. This work has become one that I can rely on as someone in the struggle of writing. I took a lot of notes on productivity, creativity, work and writing techniques. Like Ursula Le Guin's book "Steering the Craft", "Bird by Bird" also carries the mark of Hep Kitap. Congratulations. They are publishing very nice books about writing.

Now I will continue with the third book of the series, also published by the same publisher, "The Subtleties of Fiction & Personal Approaches to Storytelling" edited by Hakan Bıçakcı. I will end my words with two quotes;
“The only truth is this: If you do your daily practice of grief, if you start working on the harder pieces as you go along, if you listen to great musicians who play the music you love, you will get better too. Sometimes when you're working, you'll sit there and you'll feel the exhaustion and fatigue from the night before; it's not clear whether you'll be able to free yourself from this state of mind that day. But it's an illusion to think that successful writers don't have such tired, defeated hours, that they haven't experienced these deep moments of insecurity when a person feels as small and cowardly as an insect.” But the example of "Bird by Bird" that gave the book its name is wonderful; “Thirty years ago, my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to write a report on birds that was due the next day; even though he had a full three months to write it. We were in our summer house in Bolinas, and he was sitting at the kitchen table with his eyes full, surrounded by piles of paper, pens, and unopened books about birds on all sides; he was petrified in the face of the enormity of the task waiting for him. Then my father sat down next to him, put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said, "Bird by bird, buddy. Start with one bird, move on to the next.”
July 15,2025
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Well, I am not a great expert in writing. I am learning how to write better, more appealing, and more convincing. That's why I gave a chance to this "Bird by Bird".


Six or seven months ago, I read "On Writing" by Stephen King. Naturally, when you read two books on the same topic, you are bound to compare them.


The similarities are that both are Americans, both are autobiographical while teaching through the book, and both accept that writing is just a process of knowing yourself better and getting delighted. Rarely is it about name and fame. And, I must confess that I haven't read any other book of both except this one on the artistic-cum-technical topic of "How to write better."


Before "writing better", you should know basically how to write. For this purpose, Stephen King has mentioned about the basic tools of language while Anne Lamott presumes that you already know this. Besides "How to write", Anne Lamott focuses on "What to write".


She insists on writing about your childhood, no matter how bad or good it might be. Writing about your childhood (because this is your first draft) will lead you to the highest peak of expression. You don't need to research anywhere, just play with the memories.


She advises you to be a conscious, observing, and note-taking animal. She advises finding your characters near you. And yes, don't crave for perfectionism because "Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life, and it is the main obstacle between you and your shitty first draft."


Like King, Anne Lamott also prefers characters more than the plot. King has already said that plot is the resort of weak writers. Even Lamott suggests that if you observe the conversation between two people, record it, and then apply your artistic way to develop a story, you will surely come to a realistic end.


"Writing a novel is like driving a car in the night. Though you can't see very far away, but at last you will reach your destination." Originally, this is not by Lamott, but she has mentioned it in the book and I liked it the most.


The book is divided into three parts and contains small chapters that make it an easy and fast read. Take a chance, you will like it.
July 15,2025
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Writing has been a complex journey for the author. Starting with a significant period of writer's block in youth, where school papers were a nightmare, the process gradually became easier but never ceased to be challenging. In working life, writing found outlets in letters, journaling, and newsletters for sports teams. The past fifteen years have seen the author crank out reviews on Goodreads, developing a rhythm but still facing the effort and uncertainty that comes with each piece.


The author has aspirations to take on larger writing projects but is hindered by anxiety, fear, ignorance, and self-doubt. To address the ignorance, advice is sought, and Anne Lamott's "Bird by Bird" becomes a valuable resource. The book offers a wealth of wisdom, techniques, and humor to help writers move from not-writing to writing in manageable steps. It covers various aspects such as getting unstuck, dealing with the creative process, and provides insights into plot, character, and dialogue.


The author reflects on personal concerns about writing, such as the fear that everything has already been done better. Lamott's quotes offer reassurance, highlighting the importance of one's own sensibility and the unique renditions that can be brought to any story. Whether one has specific writing projects in mind or is more generally interested in writing, "Bird by Bird" has something to offer. It can be a helpful guide for those aspiring to write, an entertaining look into the writing process for others, and a source of inspiration and support for all.



  E.L. Doctorow once said that “writing a novel is like driving a car at night. You can see only as far as your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.”


   Mark Twain said that Adam was the only man who, when he said a good thing, knew that nobody had said it before. Life is like a recycling center, where all the concerns and dramas of humankind get recycled back and forth across the universe. But what you have to offer is your own sensibility, maybe your own sense of humor or insider pathos or meaning. All of us can sing the same song, and there will still be four billion different renditions.
July 15,2025
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Not new-agey, hippie-esque or nearly as self-help guide-like as I feared it would be when I started listening to the audiobook version as read by its author.

Anne Lamott's monotone voice initially set off the "OH NO! SHE'S TRYING TO HYPNOTIZE ME!" alarms in my head. Moreover, her occasional allusions to faith had me prepared with my own form of holy water (urine) to dash upon any self-righteous pulpits.

However, Lamott is more down-to-earth than that. Her dry delivery serves as the perfect medium for her Tina Fey-styled, kooky sense of humor. The core content of Bird by Bird doesn't really offer much that hasn't already been said about writing and how to accomplish it. Nevertheless, her advice is sound, and she enhances it with some highly personal stories.

So, I rate this a strong Much better than expected.5! It's a pleasant surprise that Lamott's work manages to be both practical and entertaining, offering valuable insights into the writing process while also making me laugh along the way.

I'm glad I gave this audiobook a chance, despite my initial misgivings. It has shown me that sometimes, appearances can be deceiving, and there's often more to a book than meets the eye (or ear, in this case).

I would highly recommend Bird by Bird to anyone who is interested in writing or simply looking for an engaging and thought-provoking read.
July 15,2025
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When I completed my undergraduate studies, I was in possession of 5 copies of this particular book.

At that time, I didn't see much value in keeping all of them. I considered various options, but in the end, I decided to sell them all for what I thought was a relatively small amount.

Looking back now, I sometimes wonder if I made the right decision. Maybe those books could have been useful in some other way. However, at that moment, it seemed like the most practical choice.

I don't know what happened to those books after I sold them. Perhaps they ended up in the hands of someone who truly appreciated them and found great value in their contents. Or maybe they were simply discarded and forgotten.

Either way, it's just another small chapter in my life that I can look back on and reflect upon.
July 15,2025
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Such an amazing book on writing! It truly feels like being a student in Professor Lamott's class. The author's insights and teachings are presented in a way that is both engaging and accessible. Each chapter offers valuable tips and techniques for improving one's writing skills. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced writer, this book has something to offer. It covers a wide range of topics, from generating ideas to editing and revising. The author's writing style is warm and inviting, making it a pleasure to read. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in improving their writing. It is a must-read for all writers!

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