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Of all of Lamott's essay collections, I have found Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith to be the most enjoyable. Written in the early 2000s, it offers a unique perspective in the context of today's world. Lamott often refers to the president and the "preemptive" war in Iraq, which, in hindsight, seems like a relatively mild phase of angst in US history. Her discussions about her son's upbringing are both poignant and honest. She openly shares her experiences of learning to foster a relationship between her son and his father, her deep love for her child as an individual, and yet, at the same time, her regular annoyance and challenges in parenting. What I appreciate most about Lamott is her unapologetic attitude towards her human tendencies and her attempts at faith. She writes,
\n ... Jesus kept harping on forgiveness and loving one's enemies, so I decided to try. Why couldn't Jesus command us to obsess about everything, to try to control and manipulate people, to try not to breathe at all, or to pay attention, stomp away to brood when people annoy us, and then eat a big bag of Hershey's Kisses in bed?\nLamott's concept of "the next right thing" has been mimicked by many others, including Glennon Doyle. Overall, Plan B is a great read that I highly recommend.