The Stone Diaries

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From her calamitous 1905 birth in Manitoba to her journey with her father to Indiana, throughout her years as a wife, mother, and widow, Daisy Stone Goodwill struggles to understand her place in her own life. Now, in old age, Daisy attempts to tell her life story within a novel that is itself about the limitations of autobiography.

269 pages, Paperback

First published January 1,1993

About the author

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Carol Ann Shields was an American-born Canadian author. She is best known for her successful 1993 novel The Stone Diaries, which won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction as well as the Governor General's Award. Her novel Swann won the Best Novel Arthur Ellis Award in 1988.

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July 15,2025
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This book is one of the most widely read, photographed, discussed... in short, one of the most talked-about books. It seems that both the author and the publishers wanted to present it as very... a 20-page introduction, an initial dramatis personae/family tree consisting of dozens of names, and it seems that 80% of them just passed by and didn't really touch... These, as well as the opinions of some people whose judgment I highly trust, had created rather high expectations for me, which, however, were not met.

First of all, the central heroine, Daisy, was not a woman with whom I could identify. She is a woman who, even from her mother's womb, had to face a difficult life. A life marked by losses, difficulties, patriarchy, of course, but also the warmth of the family she built (mainly that of her children). Generally, it should have been a life full of emotions, both negative and positive. However, where were these emotions? I didn't see them anywhere. In such books that don't have an exceptionally original theme to offer, you expect it to create some deep emotions within you through the sufferings of the protagonists. Here, in my opinion, that didn't happen. Also, it seemed to me that the author's intention was to talk about very important themes such as the position of women and how it is determined by the people they meet in their lives (whether good or bad), but in the end, in my eyes, she didn't do it in such a strong way as to leave a deep impression on the reader.

On the positive side, it was a book that flowed very easily, as well as the author's undeniable ability to write with a very interesting technique and use of language. If these are enough for you to consider a book good, then everything is okay. Personally, it didn't win me over, which is why I give it the coldest rating there is...

July 15,2025
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This was what I consider to be a “quiet” novel.

It chronicles the life of Daisy Goodwill, starting from her birth in 1905 and culminating in her death. It is a fictional biography, with certain aspects giving the impression of being autobiographical, yet there is no clarification regarding the origin of any of the material.

In numerous aspects, Daisy leads a rather ordinary life for her era and location, notwithstanding its unique commencement. Not a great deal occurs to Daisy, and that precisely is the focal point of the story. This is because many women in the first half of the 20th century confronted a similar restricted range of choices. Life simply occurs to Daisy, rather than Daisy actively seizing life.

Daisy accepts whatever comes her way and does not seek more or better; she merely hopes for change.

Even when Daisy manages to establish a career at one stage in her life, it is snatched away from her, and she makes no attempt to pursue a replacement.

The question then arises: is the issue the limited opportunities that life presents to her, or is it her passive acceptance of only what comes along?

Is this a life well-lived? Or a life forfeited?

Is Daisy at peace, or does she harbor regrets?

These are the thought-provoking questions that the novel leaves lingering in the reader's mind.
July 15,2025
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Finishing this book, I thought to myself, "What a gloomy novel, what a futile life...". Shields crafted a sort of biography of Daisy Goodwill, spanning from her remarkable birth all the way up to her last fading moment of life, presented in 10 chapters, each with an interval of approximately 10 years. However, it's not a straightforward linear story. At times, we hear Daisy's own voice speaking, while at other times, an unknown narrator takes over. There are also instances when immediate family and friends share their perspectives, whether through letters or other means. This highly variegated approach creates a dynamic narrative that exposes the contradictions and differences between how we perceive ourselves, how others view us, and how, through life experiences, we change the way we look at both ourselves and others.

Daisy serves as the link between all the characters, but Shields frequently zooms in on the others. By doing so, she reveals the profound changes they underwent in their lives and how they interacted with one another.

Two key insights prevail. Firstly, in our lifetime, we are sometimes compelled to completely reinvent ourselves and give our lives a different direction, and most people are capable of managing this. Secondly, every life is essentially a life of its own, and in that sense, truly lonely. (In each chapter, the word "loneliness" appears as a pivotal characteristic of life.) All the characters, including fathers, wives, daughters, sons, and so on, live their lives side by side, almost exclusively from their own egocentric point of view.

Shields was indeed a remarkable writer (1935 - 2003), and this book can be qualified as "rich" in life-wisdom. In that sense, it reminded me a great deal of Penelope Lively (who wrote the introduction to this book), also sharing the same special sensitivity to gender issues. Personally, I think her final chapters are a bit too gloomy, and her portrayal of Daisy in her elder years is rather shocking. But perhaps I'm turning a blind eye to reality here? (rating 3.5 stars)
July 15,2025
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Stunning. This single word holds within it a world of power and impact. It has the ability to stop us in our tracks, to take our breath away, and to leave us in awe.

When we encounter something that is stunning, it is as if time stands still. Our eyes are drawn to the beauty or the magnificence before us, and we cannot help but be captivated.

It could be a breathtaking natural景观, such as a snow-capped mountain range or a crystal-clear lake. Or perhaps it is a work of art, a painting or a sculpture that speaks to our souls.

Even in the ordinary moments of life, we can find things that are stunning. A smile from a stranger, a kind gesture, or a moment of pure joy can all have the power to stun us and remind us of the beauty that exists in the world.

Stunning is a word that evokes strong emotions and leaves a lasting impression. It is a reminder to us to slow down, to look around, and to appreciate the beauty and wonder that surrounds us every day.
July 15,2025
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#2016-usa-geography-challenge: INDIANA
#2016-aty-reading-challenge--week-15: a book set in the past (100 years ago)

I have always had a special affinity for novels that delve into the lives of women in the past century. These stories offer me valuable insights into what the lives of my grandmother and mother might have been like. Some of my all-time favorite novels in this genre include So Big and A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.

Now, The Stone Diaries has joined the ranks of my favorites. Written as a combination of autobiography and biography by an omniscient narrator, it chronicles the life and times of Daisy Goodwill Flett, who was born in 1905 and passed away in 199_. The author states, \"Biography, even autobiography, is full of systemic error, of holes that connect like a tangle of underground streams.\" This is indeed true of Daisy's story, which is filled with gaps in the narrative, one-sided letters, and other omissions. These holes perhaps symbolize the large void in Daisy's life that should have been filled with her mother's love.

Daisy's mother, Mercy Stone Goodwill, died during childbirth. She was so obese that she didn't even realize she was pregnant. Poor baby Daisy was left alone in the world, laid on a cold stone table for her first breaths. The neighbor lady, Clarentine, takes in Daisy and raises her until she suddenly deserts her husband and moves to Winnipeg to live with her son, Barker, a professor. Daisy stays with them until Clarentine's death when she is eleven. Her father, who is a virtual stranger, finally takes charge of her, and they move to Indiana to start a new life together.

The novel poses the question: \"what is the story of a life? A chronicle of fact or a skillfully wrought impression? The bringing together of what she fears? Or the adding up of what has been off-handedly revealed, those tiny allotted increments of knowledge?\" The Stone Diaries masterfully answers this question by revealing Daisy's life through bits and pieces, through impressions. Shields' writing is both blunt and funny, often poignant. For example, she writes, \"Nor, though she knew she had been loved in her life, did she ever hear the words 'I love you, Daisy' uttered aloud (such a simple phrase), and only during the long, thin, uneventful sleep that preceded her death did she have the wit (and leisure) to ponder the injustice of this.\" This is definitely my kind of book!

July 15,2025
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I truly love this book. It has been a remarkable 14 years since I first delved into its pages, and yet, the profound meaning it holds for me remains crystal clear.

Life is an incredibly long journey, and within this extensive span, we experience a succession of mini-lives. In each of these "lives," we transform into different versions of ourselves. We are both fortunate to have the opportunity and, at times, compelled against our will to continuously reinvent ourselves. This process persists until the day when we find ourselves in our advanced years, perhaps residing in Florida, clad in polyester pantsuits. Could you have ever envisioned that this would be your reality?

The person we marry at a relatively young and mature age might eventually become someone from our past, seemingly as inconsequential as an old high school boyfriend. The job that holds such significance for us today may merely be a fleeting blip on the radar when we reach the age of 85. Will we even recall the name of the company?

This is something that I enjoy reflecting upon. Moreover, it operates in both directions. There are times when I hope that the "life" I am currently in will never come to an end, while my greatest fear is that one day its time will run out. During other phases of my life, I am reminded that nothing is eternal, and this present moment may not be remembered by me at all.

Very few books have managed to convey such a lasting and impactful message to me. I am determined to carry this wisdom with me throughout my entire long lifetime.

July 15,2025
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This has truly and completely devastated me.

The writing is amazingly beautiful. It is so profound and touching that it has reached deep into my soul.

I find myself thinking that perhaps I am not strong enough to handle something that is this heart breaking at the moment.

Now that it is all over, I feel a little bit empty inside.

It's as if a part of me has been taken away, leaving a void that is difficult to fill.

I am left with a sense of loss and a feeling of being adrift.

But I know that I will have to find a way to move forward, to pick up the pieces and try to rebuild.

Even though it may be hard, I will have to be brave and face whatever comes next.

For now, I will just have to let the emotions wash over me and hope that in time, I will find the strength to heal.

July 15,2025
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Reading this book is recommended as a guaranteed way to prevent suicide.

This is because it is so boring that it keeps you from doing any kind of work after reading it.

It seems that the author's intention was not to provide useful information or entertainment but rather to put the readers to sleep.

However, some people might argue that this kind of book can have a therapeutic effect on those who are feeling stressed or anxious.

By making them feel sleepy and relaxed, it can help them forget about their problems for a while.

But in my opinion, there are much better ways to deal with stress and anxiety than reading a boring book.

For example, you could do some exercise, listen to music, or spend time with friends and family.

These activities are not only more enjoyable but also more effective in improving your mental health.

So, if you are looking for a way to prevent suicide or deal with stress and anxiety, I would not recommend reading this book.

Instead, try to find something that you really enjoy doing and that makes you feel good about yourself.

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