I have had a significant amount of time to reflect after listening to various opinions at the book club. Regrettably, I still find myself as the outlier. Right from the first few pages, I knew that the writing style simply didn't appeal to me. Those who are familiar with my personality know that I am quite Type A, and my mind craves things to be nice, neat, and logical. There are a few writers who can manage to engage me even when their writing seems to jump around, as long as I can understand the reasoning behind it. However, for some inexplicable reason, this particular book was not one of those.
Another major issue that I just couldn't overlook was the concept that being a victim of a heinous wrong, as many of the girls and women are in the book, does not justify using equal or even lesser violence against others. All I could think was that in a place where people are downtrodden, feeling forgotten and neglected, resorting to violence only serves to perpetuate the cycle. This doesn't mean that one should passively accept rape and domestic abuse. It does mean that one has the right to protect oneself, but not to bring others down to the same extent that one has been. It concerns me that there may be those who will read a book like this and misinterpret it as the feminism that so many people are striving for, when in fact it isn't. Feminism is about all people being equal and no one being oppressed; it's not about women having the 'best seat at the table' simply because of their gender and oppressing men in the same way that men have oppressed women in the past.
I was wavering between giving this book 1 and 2 stars in my review. Despite my personal qualms with the book, I can see how it would have been an important piece when it was written. I can also understand that it really strikes a chord with others. However, in the end, I settled on one star because I simply wasn't engaged with this book throughout the reading process. In fact, I was slightly relieved once I was done and knew that I didn't have to pick it up again.