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I truly find it quite challenging to rate this book. Technically speaking, it is outstanding. Anne Lammot is an extremely talented writer, without a doubt. I'm certain that there are better modern writers out there, but at the moment, I can't recall any. Especially not any who write about religion, and I have a fair amount of knowledge when it comes to Christian theism.
I really did like her. However, based on her reaction to every single conservative Christian mentioned in the book, I suspect she wouldn't have had much patience for someone like me. I liked that she has dreadlocks and has all sorts of interesting friends. I love her alternative lifestyle and I'm completely envious of her freedom. I had a somewhat similar upbringing, although not as much on the drugs-with-my-parents side but more on the intellectual-demands-of-liberal-parents side. The way she wove her relationship with her childhood best friend throughout the book was beautiful and deeply touching. By all literary standards, it was a very good book.
Nevertheless, the book nearly broke my heart as I was reading it. This is a woman who clearly and desperately needs salvation. I mean that in the most immediate sense. She is so深陷于自己的世界 that she can't even see beyond it. She knows she is extremely narcissistic, mentions it several times, but can't pull herself out by the sheer force of her own will, which is the only way she knows how to do it. Judging from this book, which was all about her - every detail was about her, every character was related to some aspect of herself, every event was about her reaction. Even the prayer she offered up when her young son was facing cancer was for herself, not for the boy. She has never even considered turning to God and submitting herself to him for relief. That's the gospel - Jesus has promised to take our burdens upon himself and give us rest. He is offering to reconcile us with himself - as he truly is, not as we in our sin and misery want him to be. The point is that really, truly, we don't know what's best for ourselves, but Almighty God does and he loves us enough to tell us. She seems to understand bits and pieces of that truth, but she is still completely overwhelmed by the weight of her own self-importance.
For comparison, if you liked this book, you might want to try Kathleen Norris' Cloister Walk, or even Donald Miller's Blue Like Jazz. Both are spiritual memoirs in the same genre as Traveling Mercies, but without the excessive focus on the personality. Both are written by liberal Christians who truly and deeply love God and love their brothers and sisters unconditionally. They both reach beyond themselves in their writings in a way that Anne Lammot just can't.
I really did like her. However, based on her reaction to every single conservative Christian mentioned in the book, I suspect she wouldn't have had much patience for someone like me. I liked that she has dreadlocks and has all sorts of interesting friends. I love her alternative lifestyle and I'm completely envious of her freedom. I had a somewhat similar upbringing, although not as much on the drugs-with-my-parents side but more on the intellectual-demands-of-liberal-parents side. The way she wove her relationship with her childhood best friend throughout the book was beautiful and deeply touching. By all literary standards, it was a very good book.
Nevertheless, the book nearly broke my heart as I was reading it. This is a woman who clearly and desperately needs salvation. I mean that in the most immediate sense. She is so深陷于自己的世界 that she can't even see beyond it. She knows she is extremely narcissistic, mentions it several times, but can't pull herself out by the sheer force of her own will, which is the only way she knows how to do it. Judging from this book, which was all about her - every detail was about her, every character was related to some aspect of herself, every event was about her reaction. Even the prayer she offered up when her young son was facing cancer was for herself, not for the boy. She has never even considered turning to God and submitting herself to him for relief. That's the gospel - Jesus has promised to take our burdens upon himself and give us rest. He is offering to reconcile us with himself - as he truly is, not as we in our sin and misery want him to be. The point is that really, truly, we don't know what's best for ourselves, but Almighty God does and he loves us enough to tell us. She seems to understand bits and pieces of that truth, but she is still completely overwhelmed by the weight of her own self-importance.
For comparison, if you liked this book, you might want to try Kathleen Norris' Cloister Walk, or even Donald Miller's Blue Like Jazz. Both are spiritual memoirs in the same genre as Traveling Mercies, but without the excessive focus on the personality. Both are written by liberal Christians who truly and deeply love God and love their brothers and sisters unconditionally. They both reach beyond themselves in their writings in a way that Anne Lammot just can't.