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Some essays I loved and a couple I was less compelled by. That said, all of David Rakoff's words make me sad that we have a finite amount left to consume in this world. I suppose that is the way for all words, but with David Rakoff's I feel lucky every time I get to experience every little symbol, every relic that is evidence of his existence. Listening to the audiobook of this essay collection, his singular, sardonic humor made him feel simultaneously terribly alive and painfully absent. In his words,"What remains of your past if you didn't allow yourself to feel it when it happened? If you don't have your experiences in the moment, if you gloss them over with jokes or zoom past them, you end up with curiously dispassionate memories, procedural and depopulated. It's as if a neutron bomb went off and all you're left with are hospital corridors where you're scanning the walls for familiar photographs. Sometimes in the absence of emotion, your only recourse is to surround yourself with objects. The symbol, the relics about you. Wagner was wrong when he said joy is not in things, it is in us. One can find joy in things, but it is a particular kind of joy. The joy of corroboration..." Isn't it wonderful that his words, finite though they may be, are anything but procedural or depopulated? They elicit the pure and brutal delight of life corroborated.