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*Calm-assertive leadership projected through body language and energy; you should always be the leader or the dog will feel they need to fill the void; need leadership, not sympathy; too much emotional energy is seen as weak - p. 68, 107, 118-9
Calm-submissive behavior from the dog - p. 73
Greetings: let dog approach/come to you; don't make eye contact or touch or verbalize at first - p. 78, 90
Treat dogs like dogs, not people; different ways of being and thinking; recognize as animal first, dog second, breed third, individual last - p. 84, 94
Importance of dog senses (in order): nose, eyes, ears
Don't nurture negative/insecure behaviors - p. 123
*Need consistent rules, boundaries, and limitations - p. 126
Love and affection to reward stability and calm submission; should be earned and given after exercise and discipline - p . 151
Violent aggression isn't a natural behavior but outcome of instability - p. 182
Correct, don't punish - p. 184
*Need exercise, discipline, and affection - in that order!! p. 199
1. The walk: short, non-flexible leash; don't put on until the dog is calm submissive; you walk out first; dog walks beside or behind you; don't let them stop until you say it's okay a few minutes into the walk (think if migrating wolves); project calm assertive energy - p. 205-7
2. Corrections should be given with the appropriate energy, mindset, and timing, which are more important than the method; use eye contact, energy, body language, forward motion toward the dog, and sound/touch correction; never correct out of anger, though - p. 219
Behaviors you should never allow: jumping, separation whining, possessiveness, nipping/biting, aggressiveness, incessant barking; have to re-direct or replace negative behaviors - p. 224, 8
3. Share affection after a dog has exercised, eaten, and become calm submissive OR after corrected a behavior/responded to a rule or command; NOT when fearful, anxious, possessive, dominant, aggressive, whining, begging, barking, or breaking any household rule - p. 229
Should you get a dog? Questions to ask yourself p. 234-6:
Can you commit to at least an hour and a half of walking every day, becoming a calm-assertive pack leader, setting clear rules/boundaries/limitations, providing regular food and water, taking to the vet regularly, socializing the dog, cleaning up after him or her, educating myself on dog psychology, and putting money away in case of an animal-related emergency?
Look for a dog with compatible energy - p. 236
Sample routine p. 240: start off with little attention (touch or talk) - walk first! feed calmly and quietly, once calm submissive give some affection; don't make a big deal about leaving and restrain from giving affection when you first return (repeat AM ritual first); every human in the house should be a pack leader; add in extra physical exercise with playtime; regularly bathe your dog; socializing as mental stimulation for dog rather than replacement for exercise
Excitement is NOT the same as happiness - p. 253
In summary (p. 273-5):
1. Be a calm assertive pack leader all of the time for your dog and assure that they are a calm submissive follower.
2. Give them exercise (minimum of 1 hour of walking correctly), discipline (non-abusive rules, boundaries, and limitations), and affection (reward for calm submission) in that order.
3. Remember that dogs do not see the world as and are not people (nose, eyes, ears for them - reverse for us); don't humanize them but do treat them with the deserved respect of a fellow living creature with their own unique psychology.
Calm-submissive behavior from the dog - p. 73
Greetings: let dog approach/come to you; don't make eye contact or touch or verbalize at first - p. 78, 90
Treat dogs like dogs, not people; different ways of being and thinking; recognize as animal first, dog second, breed third, individual last - p. 84, 94
Importance of dog senses (in order): nose, eyes, ears
Don't nurture negative/insecure behaviors - p. 123
*Need consistent rules, boundaries, and limitations - p. 126
Love and affection to reward stability and calm submission; should be earned and given after exercise and discipline - p . 151
Violent aggression isn't a natural behavior but outcome of instability - p. 182
Correct, don't punish - p. 184
*Need exercise, discipline, and affection - in that order!! p. 199
1. The walk: short, non-flexible leash; don't put on until the dog is calm submissive; you walk out first; dog walks beside or behind you; don't let them stop until you say it's okay a few minutes into the walk (think if migrating wolves); project calm assertive energy - p. 205-7
2. Corrections should be given with the appropriate energy, mindset, and timing, which are more important than the method; use eye contact, energy, body language, forward motion toward the dog, and sound/touch correction; never correct out of anger, though - p. 219
Behaviors you should never allow: jumping, separation whining, possessiveness, nipping/biting, aggressiveness, incessant barking; have to re-direct or replace negative behaviors - p. 224, 8
3. Share affection after a dog has exercised, eaten, and become calm submissive OR after corrected a behavior/responded to a rule or command; NOT when fearful, anxious, possessive, dominant, aggressive, whining, begging, barking, or breaking any household rule - p. 229
Should you get a dog? Questions to ask yourself p. 234-6:
Can you commit to at least an hour and a half of walking every day, becoming a calm-assertive pack leader, setting clear rules/boundaries/limitations, providing regular food and water, taking to the vet regularly, socializing the dog, cleaning up after him or her, educating myself on dog psychology, and putting money away in case of an animal-related emergency?
Look for a dog with compatible energy - p. 236
Sample routine p. 240: start off with little attention (touch or talk) - walk first! feed calmly and quietly, once calm submissive give some affection; don't make a big deal about leaving and restrain from giving affection when you first return (repeat AM ritual first); every human in the house should be a pack leader; add in extra physical exercise with playtime; regularly bathe your dog; socializing as mental stimulation for dog rather than replacement for exercise
Excitement is NOT the same as happiness - p. 253
In summary (p. 273-5):
1. Be a calm assertive pack leader all of the time for your dog and assure that they are a calm submissive follower.
2. Give them exercise (minimum of 1 hour of walking correctly), discipline (non-abusive rules, boundaries, and limitations), and affection (reward for calm submission) in that order.
3. Remember that dogs do not see the world as and are not people (nose, eyes, ears for them - reverse for us); don't humanize them but do treat them with the deserved respect of a fellow living creature with their own unique psychology.