يتساءل العديد من البشر عن طريق الفوز مع الناس والتعامل معهم، وهل هي مهارة مكتسبة أم فطرة يمتاز بها بعض الأشخاص دونًا عن غيرهم، ولذا قام المؤلف في كتابه الفوز مع الناس بشرح مبادئ الفوز مع الناس، وكيف تجعل أي موقف ينقلب لصالحك، معتمدًا على عدة خطوات لمساعدة الجميع، وهذه الخطوات هي: 1- الاستعداد لبناء العلاقات، والتركيز على الآخرين. 2- بناء الثقة المتبادلة. 3- الاستثمار في الآخرين. ومن ثمَّ ستنال ما ترغب به، وهو الفوز مع الناس.
كتاب سهل بسيط مفيد جدًا خاصة للانطوائيين، ومن يعانون من مشاكل في التعامل مع الآخرين، فلقد خلقنا على الكوكب لنعيش ونندمج سويًا، ومن واجبنا القراءة والتعرف على كيفية تحقيق ذلك بنجاح، وامتاز الكتاب بسهولة أسلوبه واحتوائه على الكثير من الامثلة التي تخدم غرض الكتاب.
I really enjoy John Maxwell's books and his style. He does not come from a place of superiority, but rather one of full disclosure, which includes the mistakes he's made along the way - even the embarrassing ones.
This book encourages respect, kindness, service, others-focus and is appropriate for all to read.
Typical Maxwell :) All advice is good and sound, but not much new to take away. I did like a new phrase though, that I haven’t heard others using: “Emotional fitness”. FITNESS! It is never enough to reach a high emotional/mental level, but you have to keep on practicing it, exercising. If not, You will slide back and get emotionally/mentally “Fat” again. Let’s keep ourselves fit, people! :) Oh, and another thing - adding to others peoples lives can not be done by accident. We can damage relationships by accident easily, but adding is deliberate practice with the specific aim. You can not build a nice sand-castle by accident. But you sure can destroy one by accident. So if You don’t know if you add to other peoples lives, then you probably aren’t doing it! It’s a deliberate effort. Get at it!
I feel like this book will be nearly invaluable if I am actually able to put the principles into practices. When coupled with How to Win Friends and Influence People, I feel like the 2 are a perfect foundation for developing people skills.
I just couldn't like this book. The stuff is quite obvious and the author's principles of the lens and mirror are similar. And his principles of hammer and pain are also similar.
If you want to be the Mr/Ms nice guy/girl, read this book!
Dr John Maxwell's books are always a great read.Principles outlined in this book are universal and can be applied in any situation work, marriage,social set ups etc. Really enjoyed this one next will be Leadershift.
Es un tesoro el aprender a cultivar relaciones con nuestra pareja, esposa, amigos o colegas de trabajo. Lo recomiendo ya que podrás encontrar principios para ganarse a la gente.