Cómo líder tu mayor desafío son las relaciones

Éste libro es un libro que todo líder debe de leer porque viene implícito uno de los secretos más importantes del éxito: las relaciones.

Very gentle approach to friendly, kind ways to interact with others. Discusses 5 central concerns: readiness, connection, trust, investment and synergy. Lots of examples and questions bring points home.

Readiness - who we are determines how we see others, know yourself first, hurting people hurt people, never hammer someone, we can lift up or take people down

Connection - entire world, except 1, is composed of others; put ourselves in our place not others; each person has potential to teach us something; people are interested in others who are interested in them; believing the best of others usually brings out the best of people; caring precedes confronting others

Trust - foundation of any relationship; never let situation mean more than relationship; when bob has a problem with everyone, bob is usually the problem; being at ease with self helps other be at ease with us; when preparing for battle, dig a hole big enough for a friend

Investment - all relationships need cultivation; find 1% we agree on and focus 100% on it; journey with others is slower than journey alone; celebrate success of friends; take higher road when interacting with others

Synergy - when we help others, we help ourselves; people work well with others they like; working together increases odds of winning together; joy of being together as bottomline

Me parece que aborda ciertos conceptos de la obra de Dale Carnegie pero al estilo de Maxwell; considero que nos habla de temas que deberían ser instintivos para la mayoría de las personas pero no lo son; por lo que es un libro que recomendaría a las personas que aprecio

Even if you don't work directly with people, this can help you in every facet of your life

بعد قراءة هذا الكتاب..
أجد أنوار أضيأت..
وعلامات اتضحت..
ومشاعر مختلطة اضطربت..

آمال وآلام..
فرحة وفخر بمعرفة وامتلاك كثير مما كتب
وحزن وأسى على واقع ضيعت كثير مما كسب

والعبرة بغد قادم نعوض فيه عظيماً مما تعلمنا.. وأيقنا..

✨ يستحق بحق القراءة مئات المرات ✨

Felt a little repetitive on the types of approaches & even though Maxwell has a religious background, more varied applications/reflections outside the religious realm may have helped to connect to a wider audience

Good book if you’re a married, American, white male. This book would probably be helpful for some people, I learned a bit from it. Just wait until you’re married and have kids, then I’m sure you’ll enjoy it way more than I did.

Has some incredible insight but really starts to drag after awhile. Maxwell made this so much longer than it needed to be.

John C. Maxwell's Winning with People or in Spanish (Como Ganarse a la Gente) is an extraordinary book of self-growth, that impacted me so much in my life, I first read it when I was a kid. Struggling at that time with building better relationships, and this book gave me awesome tools to improve my confidence, kindness, and respect for others. Maxwell explains great principles such as perspective, exchange, charisma, and confrontation, and each one gets more detailed examples and powerful teaching.
One of my favorite phrases from this book is: "En vez de poner a otros en nuestro lugar, debemos ponernos nosotros en el lugar de ellos"(Insted of putting others in our place, we must put ourselves in theirs). This principal is very empathy, and help me to have personal growth and understanding of others. Another concept that I like it (The principle of Pain): “Hurt people hurt others easily”. Reflecting on this give me compassion for those who unintentionally cause harm to others.
This book is structured by key factors willingness, connection, trust, investment and synergy. All of this factors provide valuable information and guidance for improving relationships in business, family, friends, and for everyday of your life. I really recommend this book to anyone who is looking for personal growth, or better connections with others.

Great book on how to become a people person. My main takeaways were the mirror principle, who you are is how you see others and the world!!!....SO TRUE. This is simple yet profound. Also hurting people usually hurt others another simple truth.

Lo recomiendo

Este libro me ayudó a comprender más sobre las personas, corregí mis ideas, comportamientos, pensamientos por tener mejores buenas amistades.

John C Maxwell has really good bite-size principles in every book! This book really helped me when I started taking on more leadership roles in life.