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I think the first book is amazing. I don't think the series ended as well as it began but I did like the third installment much more than the second. The second focused mostly on Erlend's political scheming and his deteriorating relationship with Kristin. This book reminded me more of the first because of its impressive world building and atmosphere. It drew me in a lot more into the honor/shame society and customs, and the character development of most of the main characters redeemed a lot for me.
Simon was intriguing to follow. He does everything right on the outside but on the inside he's a mess and doesn't believe he has any agency to choose differently. He looks down on Erlend because of his licentiousness but are they really that different? I would love to think through these 2 characters more.
Erlend makes horrible decisions but somehow you still like spending time with him which is confusing but a sign of good writing.
I think the overarching feeling I'm left with is frustration. There is so much focus on piety and doing things to pacify God that seem exhausting and ineffectual. One of the biggest examples of this was when Kristin called in the priest to reprimand her sons for using the painted crosses for target practice. The priest came to talk sternly to them and require them to say prayers. So, there is external piety but there is no internal integrity. Kristin and Erlend do not talk openly with each other or their sons, they don't practice repentance and forgiveness with each other, and it leaves me wondering which part of all this is the author's personal viewpoint and which part is trying to accurately represent the cultural landscape of medieval Norway? On the other hand, this book has really made me think and process through my own viewpoint of God and religion and motherhood and isn't that why I like reading in the first place?
"Often you speak so gently and sweetly, as if your mouth were full of honey, I fear that you're thinking mostly about old wrongs, and God will have to judge whether you're as pious in your heart as you are in your words." (Erlend speaking to Kristin)
"But when she stood before the cross...then she would feel her heart harden, the way a hand clenches into a fist to strike. No!...she could not make herself do it." (Kristin thinking of forgiving Erlend)
"Her mother had once said. Now she realized that her mother's heart had been deeply etched with memories of her daughter, memories of her thoughts about the child from before she was born and from all the years the child could not remember, memories of fears and hopes and dreams that children would never know had been dreamed on their behalf, before it was their own turn to fear and hope and dream in secret." (Kristin thinking about her mother and the role of mothers)
Simon was intriguing to follow. He does everything right on the outside but on the inside he's a mess and doesn't believe he has any agency to choose differently. He looks down on Erlend because of his licentiousness but are they really that different? I would love to think through these 2 characters more.
Erlend makes horrible decisions but somehow you still like spending time with him which is confusing but a sign of good writing.
I think the overarching feeling I'm left with is frustration. There is so much focus on piety and doing things to pacify God that seem exhausting and ineffectual. One of the biggest examples of this was when Kristin called in the priest to reprimand her sons for using the painted crosses for target practice. The priest came to talk sternly to them and require them to say prayers. So, there is external piety but there is no internal integrity. Kristin and Erlend do not talk openly with each other or their sons, they don't practice repentance and forgiveness with each other, and it leaves me wondering which part of all this is the author's personal viewpoint and which part is trying to accurately represent the cultural landscape of medieval Norway? On the other hand, this book has really made me think and process through my own viewpoint of God and religion and motherhood and isn't that why I like reading in the first place?
"Often you speak so gently and sweetly, as if your mouth were full of honey, I fear that you're thinking mostly about old wrongs, and God will have to judge whether you're as pious in your heart as you are in your words." (Erlend speaking to Kristin)
"But when she stood before the cross...then she would feel her heart harden, the way a hand clenches into a fist to strike. No!...she could not make herself do it." (Kristin thinking of forgiving Erlend)
"Her mother had once said. Now she realized that her mother's heart had been deeply etched with memories of her daughter, memories of her thoughts about the child from before she was born and from all the years the child could not remember, memories of fears and hopes and dreams that children would never know had been dreamed on their behalf, before it was their own turn to fear and hope and dream in secret." (Kristin thinking about her mother and the role of mothers)