Three Weeks with My Brother

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The day the brochure came was a typical one. With a wife and five small children, a hectic schedule, and a new book due to his publishers, Nicholas Sparks was busy with his usual routine. The colorful mailer, however, described something very different: a tour to some of the most exotic places on Earth. Slowly, an idea took hold in Nicholas's mind and heart. In January 2003, Nicholas Sparks and his brother, Micah, set off on a three-week trip around the globe. It was to mark a milestone in their lives, for at thirty-seven and thirty-eight respectively, they were now the only surviving members of their family. And as they voyaged to the lost city of Machu Picchu high in the Andes. . . to mysterious Easter Island. . . to Ayers Rock in the Australian outback. . . and across the vast Indian subcontinent, the ultimate story of their lives would unfold. Against the backdrop of the wonders of the world and often overtaken by their feelings, daredevil Micah and the more serious, introspective Nicholas recalled their rambunctious childhood adventures and the tragedies that tested their faith. And in the process, they discovered startling truths about loss, love and hope. Narrated with irrepressible humor and rare candor, and including personal photographs, Three Weeks with my Brother reminds us to embrace life with all its uncertainties. . . and most of all, to cherish the joyful times, both small and momentous, and the wonderful people who make them possible.

Did You Know?---

Three Weeks With My Brother is Nicholas's second work of non-fiction? (The first was Wokini, written with Olympic Gold Medalist Billy Mills.)

Nicholas and Micah Sparks wrote the book together from separate coasts by talking on the phone and faxing drafts back and forth?

The trip around the world was part of a Notre Dame alumni package?

368 pages, Paperback

First published April 5,2004

About the author

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Nicholas Sparks is one of the world's most beloved storytellers. All of his books have been New York Times bestsellers, with over 130 million copies sold worldwide, in more than 50 languages, including over 92 million copies in the United States alone.

Sparks wrote one of his best-known stories, The Notebook, over a period of six months at age 28. It was published in 1996 and he followed with the novels Message in a Bottle (1998), A Walk to Remember (1999), The Rescue (2000), A Bend in the Road (2001), Nights in Rodanthe (2002), The Guardian (2003), The Wedding (2003), True Believer (2005) and its sequel, At First Sight (2005), Dear John (2006), The Choice (2007), The Lucky One (2008), The Last Song (2009), Safe Haven (2010), The Best of Me (2011), The Longest Ride (2013), See Me (2015), Two by Two (2016), Every Breath (2018), The Return (2020), The Wish (2021), and Dreamland (2022), as well as the 2004 non-fiction memoir Three Weeks With My Brother, co-written with his brother Micah. His twenty-fourth novel, Counting Miracles, will be published on September 24, 2024.

Film adaptations of Nicholas Sparks novels, including The Choice, The Longest Ride, The Best of Me, Safe Haven (on all of which he served as a producer), The Lucky One, Message in a Bottle, A Walk to Remember, The Notebook, Nights in Rodanthe, Dear John and The Last Song, have had a cumulative worldwide gross of over three-quarters of a billion dollars. The Notebook has also been adapted into a Broadway musical, featuring music and lyrics by Ingrid Michaelson.

Sparks lives in North Carolina. He contributes to a variety of local and national charities, and is a major contributor to the Creative Writing Program (MFA) at the University of Notre Dame, where he provides scholarships, internships, and a fellowship annually. He co-founded The Epiphany School in New Bern, North Carolina in 2006. As a former full scholarship athlete (he still holds a track and field record at the University of Notre Dame) he also spent four years coaching track and field athletes at the local public high school. In 2009, the team he coached at New Bern High School set a World Junior Indoor Record in the 4×400 meters, as well as US High School National Records in the 800 Medley and 1600 Medley. Click to watch the Runner's World video with Nicholas.

The Nicholas Sparks Foundation, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, was founded in 2011, to provide scholarships and fund educational programs for underprivileged and disadvantaged youth. Between the foundation, and the personal gifts of the Sparks family, more than $15 million dollars have been distributed to deserving charities, scholarship programs, and projects. Because the Sparks family covers all operational expenses of the foundation, 100% of donations are devoted to programs.

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April 17,2025
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Part travelogue, part memoir, Three Weeks With My Brother gives us a fascinating glimpse into the world of international best-selling author Nicholas Sparks. Stalled during the writing of a novel, Sparks starts daydreaming about the possibility of a three week world trip he read about in a brochure. The more he contemplates it, the more excited he gets. Since he and his wife Cathy have five young children, she decides that the trip is not feasible for her, but encourages Nick to invite his brother Micah.

Intermingled with accounts of the exotic locales the brothers visit, Sparks relates the story of his life beginning with his childhood. The reader gets a true sense of the connection of the family. The deep relationship that Nicholas, Micah, their sister Dana, and their parents share survives tough times, marital discord, poverty and rebellion. The three weeks away gives both Micah and Nick the chance to look at their lives in the context of the places they visit. They are awed by what they see and hear, and are able to work through their grief at the losses they have endured.

I was especially appreciative and moved at how open Nicholas Sparks was to revealing his experiences of dealing with a son with autism. Nick and Cathy's long struggle for a diagnosis, the intensive therapy, and the joys and heartaches with their son's progress (and frustrating lack thereof) made me identify with them in a very real way. When the tendency is to put an author up on a pedestal, this real transparency can help us all to realize that famous people have difficulties just like the rest of the world.

The places Micah and Nick visit on their trip around the world - Roratonga, Easter Island, the Taj Mahal, and Machu Picchu (just to name a few) - are described with such vivid language that readers really don't need the beautiful pictures included with the novel. In fact, my first reading of this book was on audio, and I could imagine the places as if I were there with them. My second reading, of a print version, was enhanced by the photographs that allowed me to put faces to the names.

Although in many ways the Sparks lived in the typical American dysfunctional family, their experiences will allow readers to look at their own upbringing with fondness and wistful reminiscing. Many emotions are evoked during the reading of Three Weeks With My Brother - sadness, a good share of tears, joy, and loads of laughter. Heartache comes with life, but so does humor. When Nick explains about the brothers' obsession with weapons and the fact that it was a wonder they didn't kill themselves, I could see so much of my own family mirrored in their experience.

I cannot begin to describe how much this book has meant to me. The beauty of the portrayal of family, faith, and the love between two brothers, is touching. The main characters became familiar companions, and I was sad that this compelling tale had to come to an end.
April 17,2025
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Moving and inspirational, and more revealing than any interview. If you really want to know the person behind the romance novels he's written and a fan of Mr. sparks, you gotta read this one.
April 17,2025
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Three Weeks with My Brother is a heart-warming story about, well, two brothers. These two brothers, Nicholas and Micah, can not be more different. What I loved about Three Weeks with My Brother is that it had two plot lines. One was following the childhood of Nicholas and Micah. The other followed what the reader assumed to be "the present"- Micah and Nicholas's trip around the world. Threading two plot lines into one story can be a challenge to some writers because it is difficult to connect the two tales. In Three Weeks with My Brother, the connection is seamless. You flow in and out of each storyline effortlessly. Some of the transitions are very matter-of-fact and entertaining. It takes a lot of skill to pull this type of writing off, but Nicholas Sparks sticks it. When one writes a memoir, there is a personal touch to it. Throughout the book, Nicholas gives us a portal into his life and let's the reader know what he thinks about in everyday life. We get to know his kids and how much he adores his wife. The readers get to peek into the life of an author: the deadlines, the editors, the ideas. We get to witness all of the behind-the-scenes action that goes into writing a best seller. At the end of the book, Nicholas explains the other books he has written. Jamie Sullivan in A Walk to Remember was based off of his sister, who had several cancerous brain tumors. Like A Walk to Remember, a lot of Nicholas's books were based on one of his family members. We also get to see Nicholas change throughout the book-and not just in his childhood. Before going on the three week long trip with Micah, Nicholas is stressed out and worried about things he can control, and even some things he can not control. By the end of the trip, Nicholas is relaxed, open minded, and more appreciative of what is around him. As the book goes on, I became fond of some of his family members. They all played a different, but crucial role in Nicholas's life and helped make him the person he is today. One reader said that the story of Nicholas's life was a distraction from the main plot line of the story. I say that the story of Nicholas's life added more meaning to the story as a whole and gave a better understanding as to what made Nicholas and Micah the way they are. Another reviewer said they found themselves more indulged in the story of Nicholas's life than the story of the trip. I agree, Nicholas's life story had more content and more of a story than that of the trip. All in all, Three Weeks with My Brother was definitely a good read that kept me interested and curious as to what would happen next. It is a book that makes you take a step back and realize how important siblings are and how much you should value them.

April 17,2025
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What a great discovery. I was looking for something new to read at the library and ran across this book. I loved it.
Nicholas Sparks, author of The Notebook and numerous other novels wrote this book with his brother Micah. The book is about a three-week trip around the world they took together. I was hooked from the first few pages and couldn't put it down.
Their journey takes them to places like Easter Island, Cook's Island, Machu Picchu, India and and the Taj Mahal, Cambodia, Ethiopia, Norway.... Seeing the things they saw through their eyes and hearing about their experinece was really wonderful. I learned many interesting facts about all the things they saw and experienced. It was exciting.
The travel experiences, however, were only a portion of the book. Mixed in with all the travel experiences, Sparks tells us the story of his family. I always tend to think that famous and successful people live fairy tale lives. The Sparks borthers have had many, many hard times and many ups and downs in their lives. Through his memoir, you really get to know and love his family - mom, dad, Micah, sister, wife, children.
This isn't a book with only happy endings. There are real life experieces that will make your heart ach, make you cheer, make you laugh and most of all give you hope. I loved this book so much and finished it having so much respect and admiration for Nicholas Sparks that I now have a desire to read his books. (Many of them are based on people from his life and his family experiences.)
April 17,2025
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I wish I would have known that this is the dude that wrote the Notebook before I bought this book. Quite possibly the sappiest, corniest, shittiest book I've ever read. Don't waste your time.
April 17,2025
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April 17,2025
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Three Weeks With My Brother by Nicolas Sparks, Micah Sparks
April 17,2025
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I presume you know what the book is about. I'm letting you know what I liked or disliked about it.

How funny this is the first book I've read of Nicholas Sparks. I picked it up because it looked like a great true-story. He references being an author and all in this book but I had noooo clue who he was or what he'd written.

I liked the book very much. It made me laugh, it made me cry, and it made me glad I took the time to read it and to learn more about the relationship of two brothers in a family that was ordinary in an extraordinary way.

I wish I had a brother like Nicholas Sparks. One so aware, caring, feeling, and active in expressing all the thoughts and emotions he carries. I be he writes a hell of a romantic love letter to his wife. deep sigh.

It wasn't until almost a year or so later when I read "Dear John" that I made the connection. Can you imagine how surprised I was to find I knew a lot about his work I just hadn't made the connection.

Life can be funny that way.
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