How to Be Alone

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For Selected Essays from: How to be Alone ISBN 0007153589 click here.

Passionate, independent-minded nonfiction from the international bestselling author of THE CORRECTIONS. Jonathan Franzen's THE CORRECTIONS was the best-loved and most written-about novel of 2001. Nearly every in-depth review of it discussed what became known as 'The Harper's Essay, ' Franzen's controversial 1996 look at the fate of the novel. This essay is reprinted for the first time in HOW TO BE ALONE, alongside the personal essays and painstaking, often funny reportage that earned Franzen a wide readership before the success of THE CORRECTIONS. Although his subjects range from the sex-advice industry to the way a supermax prison works, each piece wrestles with familiar themes of Franzen's writing: the erosion of civic life and private dignity, and the hidden persistence of loneliness, in postmodern, imperial America. Alzheimer's disease and a rueful account of Franzen's brief tenure as an Oprah Winfrey author. As a collection, these essays record what Franzen calls 'a movement away from an angry and frightened isolation toward an acceptance -- even a celebration -- of being a reader and a writer. ' At the same time they show the wry distrust of the claims of technology and psychology, the love-hate relationship with consumerism, and the subversive belief in the tragic shape of the individual life that help make Franzen one of the sharpest, toughest-minded, and most entertaining social critics at work today.

306 pages, Paperback

First published October 1,2002

About the author

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Jonathan Earl Franzen is an American novelist and essayist. His 2001 novel The Corrections drew widespread critical acclaim, earned Franzen a National Book Award, was a Pulitzer Prize for Fiction finalist, earned a James Tait Black Memorial Prize, and was shortlisted for the International Dublin Literary Award. His novel Freedom (2010) garnered similar praise and led to an appearance on the cover of Time magazine alongside the headline "Great American Novelist". Franzen's latest novel Crossroads was published in 2021, and is the first in a projected trilogy.
Franzen has contributed to The New Yorker magazine since 1994. His 1996 Harper's essay "Perchance to Dream" bemoaned the state of contemporary literature. Oprah Winfrey's book club selection in 2001 of The Corrections led to a much publicized feud with the talk show host.

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July 15,2025
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I really like the way Franzen tells stories, especially when he portrays people and their relationships with each other. That's why I really enjoyed both "The Corrections" and "Crossroads".

In the essays he has collected here, there are flashes of this storytelling talent from time to time, but overall the texts tend to get lost in long-winded meandering.

And although sometimes it seemed to me as if the author was texting me non-stop without a period or a comma, I still found some of the essays interesting and the reading as a whole, although in some places it is already outdated, still worth reading.

Franzen's writing style is unique, and even in these essays, there are moments that make you stop and think. However, the length and sometimes convoluted nature of the texts can make it a bit of a challenge to get through. Nevertheless, for those who are interested in his work and want to explore his thoughts and ideas further, these essays are definitely worth a look.
July 15,2025
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**Subtitle: YOU KIDS AND YOUR VAN HALEN RECORDS. GET OFF MY LAWN! (by Jonathan Franzen)**

In today's world, the music preferences of the younger generation often seem baffling to the older one. It's as if there's a huge gap between what they consider good music and what we grew up with.

Take Van Halen records, for example. The kids these days seem to be crazy about them, while some of us might look at it with a certain degree of confusion or even annoyance.

We remember the music of our own era, the sounds that defined our youth, and it can be hard to understand why the new generation is so into something that might not resonate with us.

But perhaps we should try to be a little more open-minded. Maybe there's something in Van Halen's music that speaks to the kids on a level we can't quite grasp.

After all, music is a powerful form of expression, and different generations will always have their own unique tastes and interpretations.

So, instead of yelling "Get off my lawn!" maybe we should take a moment to listen and try to understand what it is that makes the kids love their Van Halen records so much.

Who knows, we might just discover something new and exciting in the process.
July 15,2025
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Honestly, I liked this book probably more than his novel that I read.

He begins with a short story about his father's Alzheimer's, which immediately grabs the reader's attention. There are also several other engaging stories about reading and writing that I truly enjoyed.

One of his stories focuses on the postal service, which, curiously enough, made me think of the Crying of Lot 49. However, it should be noted that Franzen's story and Pynchon's novel have little in common aside from the topic. Franzen had mentioned Pynchon in an earlier essay, so perhaps that's why I was primed to think of him and his work.

Additionally, the book contains stories about smoking cigarettes, life in NYC, prisons, going back to his childhood home, and the 2001 inauguration.

One particular quote that made me stop and think was: "How could I have thought I needed to cure myself to fit into the real world. I didn't need curing and the world didn't either. The only thing that needed curing was my understanding of my place in it."

What I will say, though, is that I don't think the title quite fits the book and vice versa. There is one line about how reading and writing is a way to not feel alone, but I was hoping Franzen would more comprehensively address the title inquiry. Overall, while the book has its strengths, the misalignment between the title and the content is a bit of a drawback.

July 15,2025
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I truly relished this. Franzen's more personal essays, such as "My Father's Brain", "Why Bother?", and "Meet Me in St. Louis", had a profound impact on me.

I experienced the reader-author connection that Franzen extols in a great book, and I repeatedly found myself reaching for my pen.

These essays also enabled me, in 2021, to engage with a 1999 perspective on the increasing concerns that technology and consumerism would infiltrate every facet of American lives.

These essays are both poignant and relevant, presented with a powerful voice and by a talented writer.

I would highly recommend them to anyone seeking thought-provoking and engaging reading material.

They offer valuable insights into the human condition and the challenges and changes of our times.

Franzen's ability to convey complex emotions and ideas in a clear and accessible manner is truly remarkable.

His essays are not only a pleasure to read but also a source of inspiration and reflection.

I look forward to exploring more of his work in the future.
July 15,2025
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I understand my life through the prism of literary characters like Raskolnikov and Quentin Compson, rather than those from the world of late-night talk shows such as David Letterman or Jerry Seinfeld. However, the life I perceive via books is starting to feel increasingly solitary. It has little connection to the media landscape that shapes the present for so many others. With each passing day, for every reader who fades away, a viewer is born. And here, in the anxious mid-nineties, we seem to be witnessing the final tilting of a balance. For critics prone to alarmism, the transition from a print-based culture to a virtual image-based culture - a shift that commenced with television and is now being finalized with computers - feels like the end of the world. [1995]


And I thought I was being overly alarmist, constantly complaining about our modern obsession (and dependence) on smartphones, Netflix, and Twitter news updates and knee-jerk reactions. Thanks, Jonathan, for making me feel more reasonable!


I relished my alone time with this book. It made me feel as if I had a deeper understanding of the mind of an author I greatly revere.


On a side note, having just finished reading The Corrections, the essay My Father's Brain was a perfect complement, especially considering the character who I now know was clearly the author's dad. My parents also adored this essay. If you wish to see the tree dedicated to Earl Franzen, as well as Jonathan's childhood home that was undoubtedly the model for the novel, simply look no further.

July 15,2025
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Having read Franzen's two major works, I have made up my mind to take on the rest of his oeuvre, commencing with this volume of essays. I am a great admirer of the essay tradition, and thus I anticipated that it would be thrilling to witness Franzen's remarkable writing style being applied to nonfiction. My expectations were not in vain. His facility with words and his capacity to pen clear and beautiful sentences are evident throughout this collection.


Some of the outstanding pieces in this particular collection include "My Father's Brain," which delves into his father's Alzheimer's, "Meet Me In St. Louis," which details his appearance on the Oprah Winfrey Book Club, and "Mr. Difficult," which combines his experiences of reading Gaddis's "The Recognitions" with a defense of reading serious literary fiction.


The latter, serious literary fiction, holds great significance for Franzen, and this is truly palpable. However, this gives rise to one of the few irksome aspects of the collection, namely that Franzen can come across as a bit pompous at times. I am aware that other readers have voiced numerous complaints about this, and I find myself in agreement with them. Nevertheless, I also feel a certain degree of sympathy for him. Perhaps this is a warning sign. But in any case.


Franzen is at his absolute best when he writes about his personal experiences and his own neuroses. He remains proficient when he expands upon the former to muse about the state of the modern world. However, some individuals might believe that he has an overly high opinion of himself.


(Also, a side note: it is truly fascinating to observe how much of Franzen's fiction is semi-autobiographical. From simply reading this collection, it is evident that Chip from "The Corrections" and Walter from "Freedom" are clearly based on Franzen himself. But perhaps I was just naïve for not realizing this earlier.)

July 15,2025
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Although Franzen's flowery and pretentious writing style could be a bit overwhelming at times, and the topics of some of his essays, such as prisons in Colorado, might seem rather strange. However, in the end, they all neatly fit under the overarching theme of being alone. The new prison designs that instill 100% solitary confinement, for example, add a unique perspective to this theme. And of course, it must be said that Franzen's essays are well-researched and well-written. Nevertheless, I do have a wish. I wish he had toned it down a few times to make the essays feel more relatable and less overly literary. Additionally, I absolutely loathed the Harper's essay and his attitude towards the "social novel." It seemed more like a self-pitying display rather than an intellectual take on the country's reading habits or the lack thereof. Overall, while Franzen's work has its merits, there are also areas where it could be improved.

July 15,2025
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Thank God.

Violently tiresome.

This is an EDITED anthology compiled by the author.

So why does he say the same thing in every single essay?

Completely lacking in compelling vulnerability, Franzen makes some sympathetic observations seemingly in spite of himself.

Caveat lector.

It's truly exasperating to encounter such a situation.

The author's repetitiveness in the essays makes it a rather dull read.

One would expect more variety and depth from an anthology.

However, Franzen's lack of vulnerability perhaps hinders his ability to present a more engaging and nuanced perspective.

Despite this, there are still some sympathetic observations that manage to shine through, almost against his will.

But readers should be cautious and approach this work with a discerning eye.

It remains to be seen if Franzen will be able to break free from this pattern and offer something more refreshing and thought-provoking in future works.

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