Yes, I understand that Cathy felt she couldn't marry Heathcliff due to his low birth and lack of education. But considering their isolated location in Yorkshire, did it really matter that much? Was that Bronte's point - that disobeying one's heart in order to follow the courtship rules of one's social class could lead to suicidal and homicidal ravings? I found myself in agreement with Heathcliff when he later scolded Cathy for her decision:
I've no more business to marry Edgar Linton than I have to be in heaven; and if the wicked man in there had not brought Heathcliff so low, I shouldn't have thought of it. It would degrade me to marry Heatchliff now; so he shall never know how I love him: and that, not because he's handsome, Nelly, but because he's more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same; and Linton's is as different as a moonbeam from lightning, or frost from fire.
There is such violence in this book! Women are beaten and locked up, children are bullied and abused, punches are thrown, shots are fired, and even dogs are kicked and hung. Egad! I can only imagine how shocking it must have been to the good people of England when it was first published in 1847, learning that not only was it written by a woman, but that she was a clergyman's daughter, and the story involved a married woman having an affair with another man. Wowsers! Despite not enjoying the darkness of the novel, I have to admit that the writing is good and the structure is interesting. The servant Nelly Dean relates the history of the doomed love affair to an outsider. The servant is an interloper who keeps informed about events in both houses. I can't think of a more effective way to tell the story of this love triangle. I wouldn't trust either Heathcliff or Cathy or one of the children as a narrator, as they might only present their own side of the story. Of course, it's also interesting to note that Nelly Dean may not be a reliable narrator either. She often edits and omits what she tells the master, so why should we believe she would tell an outsider the whole truth? It took me twice as long to get through this novel as it should have, simply because it was so bleak that I was hesitant to pick it up. The only other Bronte sister book I've read was Jane Eyre, which I liked very much. But that love story at least had some warmth in it. In contrast, Wuthering Heights left me feeling cold and bitter. I'm glad I've read it, but I don't think it's one I'll be rereading anytime soon.
You teach me now how cruel you've been -- cruel and false. Why did you despise me? Why did you betray your own heart, Cathy? I have not one word of comfort. You deserve this. You have killed yourself. Yes, you may kiss me, and cry; and wring out my kisses and tears: they'll blight you -- they'll damn you. You loved me -- then what right had you to leave me? What right -- answer me -- for the poor fancy you felt for Linton? Because misery and degradation, and death, and nothing that God or Satan could inflict would have parted us, you, of your own will, did it. I have not broken your heart -- you have broken it; and in breaking it, you have broken mine.
How to win over a girl??
There are various ways that people might think could help them win over a girl. One rather bold approach is to go down on your knees and say "BE MINE". This can be a very direct and passionate way to express one's feelings. However, if that doesn't seem to work, there is another option, although it is a rather extreme and perhaps not so advisable one. (Heathcliff style)
**Spoilers**
Another way, as shown in some fictional stories like that of Heathcliff, is to wait for both of your spouses to die. Then, as part of a decade long revenge plan, force both of your kids to marry each other. This way, you can gain control over everything. But this method comes with a lot of emotional turmoil and consequences. It's important to note that in real life, such extreme measures are not the way to go. We should focus on building healthy and genuine relationships based on mutual respect and love. Rest in peace Catherine.
First book for 2023, and it’s a classic, gothic fiction. It's my first read by a Brontë sister since reading 'Jane Eyre'. It's also the first and only novel by Emily Brontë. This is my second buddy read with Marge Moen. I can't wait to read Marge's insights. Emily, along with her two sisters, initially had to publish their novels under male pseudonyms. This speaks volumes about the repression and societal norms of the time. I understand why people either love or hate ‘Wuthering Heights’, or are at the very least perplexed by it. It's not an easy, pleasant read, and that's probably its appeal for me. I firmly sit in the 'love' camp. There is so much meanness, violence, and ugliness. Many characters suffer from fragile health. There is such a contrast between strong (aggressive) and weak (sickly) characters. Revenge is a major aspect of the tortured love storyline. It can be described as a warped love story. It is dark, broody, and harsh, at times excruciatingly cruel. How did Emily Brontë think up these characters and themes? Surely she drew from some of her own experiences? I must do some post-read research. A few takeaways: My expectations were met. I also responded well to the symbolism. Ellen, the devoted, long-term nanny, endured so much. The old religious-fanatic Joseph, another servant, spoke in a Yorkshire dialect. I couldn't understand a lot of it. At times, I got a little confused who was who. Brontë switches from Christian names to titles or surnames. I was a little bewildered how Heathcliff turned out so badly. I wanted to like him more. But I'm glad Brontë didn't give us stereotypical characters. Kate Bush’s hit by the same name makes more sense to me now. An expected 5-star rating just falls short, but I still loved it! 4.5 stars from me.