\\n Our two boys brought us more joy than we ever thought anyone or anything possibly could. They defined our life now, and while parts of us missed the leisurely vacations, lazy Saturdays reading novels, and romantic dinners that lingered late into the night, we had come to find our pleasures in new ways – in spilled applesauce and tiny nose prints on window-panes and the soft symphony of bare feet padding down the hallway at dawn. Even on the worst days, we usually managed to find something to smile over, knowing by now what every parent sooner or later figures out, that these wondrous days of early parenthood – of diapered bottoms and first teeth and incomprehensible jabber – are but a brilliant, brief flash in the vastness of an otherwise ordinary lifetime.\\n
In a world filled with bosses, it's refreshing to know that you can be your own master. This sentiment seems to echo through the pages of "Marley & Me". I'm not one to easily give a 5/5 rating, especially not for a memoir. But if I'm being brutally honest, "Marley & Me" truly deserves every bit of it. In fact, if I could rate it higher than 5 stars, I most definitely would.
This is the first non-fiction book that has truly delighted me. It was an absolute joyride from start to finish. I found myself laughing out loud, snickering at the antics, making strange *squeeeeeee* noises, and even shedding a tear or two towards the end. I'm the most dramatic and soppy reader you'll ever meet, and this review will be no exception. It'll be dramatic, perhaps a bit soppy, and maybe even a little nonsensical because there's just so much gushing to do. I think I scared my mum while reading this because she threatened to lock me up in a mental hospital if I didn't stop flailing around with the book and making weird cooing sounds. That's how much "Marley the Dog" affected me.
I've read a few memoirs in the past, and they were depressingly gritty. When I was only eleven, I read about the real-life accounts of a Yakuza's daughter and then another memoir about a girl living with an alcoholic mother. After finishing those, I vowed never to pick up another non-fiction book. So when my sister bought "Marley & Me" a few years ago, I blatantly ignored it. I didn't even want to look at it, thinking it would be uninteresting, depressing, and boring. But now, fast forward to the present, and boy was I wrong about this book.
John and Jenny were happily married, but their lives changed forever when they brought home a Labrador retriever puppy named Marley (after the celebrated singer Bob Marley). What started as a little furball quickly grew into a hyperactive 97-pound dog. Marley caused chaos in their house, breaking furniture, crashing screen doors, tearing cushions, gobbling up receipts, bottle caps, and even figuring out how to dig a hole in the wall. He humped strangers, stole food from unsuspecting kids, stuck his nose into poodle dogs' asses, and not even tranquilizer pills could stop him. Heck, he even failed obedience school. He was an unstoppable machine.
To others, he may have seemed like a wild, ferocious, and uncontrollable thing, but to John and his family - and to his readers - Marley was anything but. As the author wrote, "..... a big, loving dope of a dog whose defense strategy against intruders would surely have been to lick them to death. But the prowlers and predators out there didn't need to know that. To them he was big, he was powerful, and he was unpredictably crazy. And that is how we like it." Marley reminded me that life is finite, and that soon our mortality will catch up with us and death will be inevitable. So why not try to enjoy every precious moment in life?
I've never owned a dog or a pet for that matter. I couldn't even take care of a fish. So I had no idea how the loss of a pet could affect me. I had never known that bond, but when I read this book, I felt the connection between man and dog. The scene where Marley passed away tugged at my heartstrings, and before I knew it, I was crying like a river. Put aside Marley's awesomeness, and you still have John Grogan's excellent writing. Plus, his humor is simply gold. Two thumbs up!
I would highly recommend this book to those who love dogs, own dogs as pets, or even those who want to have a dog of their own. Read it, laugh out loud, and join the ride.
So my mom sent me this book. She thought I was all down after a stupid break up and wanted to cheer me up. But the truth is, I wasn't really down. I was totally fucking pissed off. I went into reading this book seeing red. Maybe that's affected how I interpreted it, but I really think this John Grogan guy and his wife are complete idiots.
There is no reason to ever buy a dog, ever. Ever. There are dogs dying all over the country because people abandon their animals or neglect to have them spayed/neutered. And these two roll up to a backyard breeder to pick out (and pay for) a puppy? Total bullshit. I am so against the mentality that a certain breed "has the traits" someone is looking for or is the kind of dog they grew up with and have fond memories of, and therefore has to be bred, sold and paid for. Go through a rescue group if you INSIST on being a breedist.
Also, there are no bad dogs, only bad dog owners. World's worst dog? World's worst dog owners.
That being said, I don't think these two abused their dog or anything. They were completely unprepared, ignorant and arrogant and I can not respect that at all. If they weren't sure about having a dog and wanted to practice "keeping something alive" they should have fostered. At least then they could have either backed out or adopted, and had help/advice along the way.
I didn't totally hate it, though. I am just awfully adamant about animal rights, and buying/selling dogs is pretty much similar to buying/selling people to me. It's a cruel and unnecessary practice that needs to be stopped. We should all be more responsible and ethical when it comes to our furry friends.
Hands down, this has become a new favorite. I read it out loud at dinner to my Grammy, Boppy, and dad, and then again while snuggled up on a bed with my mom. These stories are truly worth sharing, and I firmly believe that everyone ought to experience them.
Disclaimer: If you have a soft spot for dogs (or really any animal), you will shed tears. I sobbed during the last 20 pages because I couldn't help but think of our own little Sawyer. We don't deserve dogs; that's just the way it is. They love us selflessly and unconditionally until the day they pass away and teach us how to do the same. That is truly something special.
UGH! IT WAS SO GOOD!! I can't recommend this highly enough. It has touched my heart in ways I never expected. I will definitely be reading it again and sharing it with more people.