Ok, ugh. I had seen the movie, and when I came across this book at a Little Free Library, I eagerly seized the opportunity to read it, firmly believing that books are typically better than their movie adaptations.
The author's wife decided that they needed a dog to assist them in preparing for having a baby. This is an extremely poor reason to purchase a pet. A pet is not a toy or a 'trainer'. So, instead of going to an animal shelter, they opted for a backyard breeder (at least the author and his wife were aware of puppy mills and managed to avoid those). However, the author was not immediately deterred by the breeder's suspicious behavior when inquiring about the sire of the litter.
I was not charmed in the slightest by Marley's behavior. On the very first night, when Marley whined about being left in the garage, the author gave in. THE FIRST NIGHT! Discipline and setting boundaries are crucial in pet ownership, and the author failed miserably on that front from the very beginning. It wasn't just the first night; on the first day when he took Marley home, he placed the dog in the seat (instead of using a crate), allowing Marley to crawl to the dashboard and cause chaos. He made no attempt to discipline the dog or buckle him into his seat, which set a negative tone for the rest of Marley's life (not to mention the extreme danger it posed not only to the driver but also to other motorists).
Marley may have been somewhat daft to start with, but a significant portion of his misbehavior can be directly attributed to John and Jenny. Marley kept eating random objects around the house? Well, they should have put those items out of his reach! Marley continued to steal food from the counters (sandwich crusts and Rice Krispie bars on separate occasions)? Then they should have stopped leaving food on the counters!!! He repeatedly broke screen doors by running through them? In that case, they could have installed a screen door with a solid bottom panel or bars to prevent him from doing so!!!!! The author complains about thousands of dollars in damages, yet much of that could have been avoided with a modicum of common sense.
There was one particular thing that disgusted me greatly. Near the end of the book, the author mentioned how when Marley walked past the couch, he would rub the side of his face along it, leaving drool all over the cushions. And then he would do the same with the other side of his face on the way back. EWWWWWW (not to mention all the drool and snot on the car windows from allowing Marley to roam freely in the car). I would not have wanted to be in the author's house with drool everywhere and an ill-trained dog.
It became abundantly clear to me that, although Marley's behavior could be very boisterous at times, a large part of his bad behavior stemmed from the owners, not from his own inherent nature. The same principle applies to ill-behaved children - a lack of discipline. I found this book more infuriating than endearing. The only reason it received more than one star was because the author had a good writing style and managed to make me chuckle in a few parts.
OK, I'm an absolute sucker for this book. Indeed, some of the anecdotes are the kind of things that every pet owner has experienced, and as a result, they may not be truly that captivating. And some parts of it focus more on life with a dog rather than the life of a dog itself. However, it was well-written, and at times, really hilarious. Marley sounds like he was an absolute love.
And that's precisely why it was so difficult to read the end. Yes, you know how it concludes. But Grogan's description of the canine aging process is truly accurate. Dogs do live in a compressed time frame, and they go from being pups to geriatrics in the blink of an eye. They bring an abundance of joy during their lifetime, yet they are reliant on their owners, especially as they age. It tears at your heart when they start to display signs of aging and frailty while still seemingly having the mind and demeanor of a puppy. It's an exercise in adapting to their needs and realizing that they, like you, have a limited time on this earth.
The entire account brings back a process that I've endured two too many times, so perhaps I'm overly sensitive about it. Still, it resurrects the whole sadness of bidding farewell to a loyal and completely trusting companion. It's so hard to know that they are naive and have that trust in you even when you are taking them to the vet for the last time. You know it's the right decision, but it still remains heartbreaking. OK, probably too much information.
Overall, it's a good book, and it struck a chord with me. I'm glad I was in the privacy of my own room when I finished it.
There is a charming puppy on the cover that immediately catches the eye. Its cute little face, with those big, innocent eyes, seems to be looking right at you, melting your heart instantly. The puppy's fur is soft and fluffy, as if you could reach out and touch it. It is sitting there, looking so adorable and full of life. The cover design featuring this puppy is truly outstanding. It not only grabs your attention but also makes you want to know more about what lies inside. It gives the impression that the content within is going to be just as heartwarming and delightful as the puppy on the cover. With its 10-star rating, it is clear that this cover has won the hearts of many. It is a perfect example of how a simple yet charming image can make a big impact.
When this book first came out in paperback, I read it immediately. I loved this story so much that I couldn't put it down. The vivid descriptions and well-developed characters made me feel as if I was part of the story. I was completely immersed in the world that the author had created.
I also saw the movie adaptation, but as is often the case, the book was better. The movie had to condense the story and leave out some of the details that made the book so great. The book allowed me to imagine the scenes and characters in my own way, while the movie presented a more fixed interpretation.
In conclusion, I would highly recommend this book to anyone who loves a good story. It is a must-read for fans of the genre and will leave you with a lasting impression.