This is truly an outstanding book that holds great value for anyone with an interest in a medical career. However, it is equally significant for those who wish to gain a deeper understanding of a new culture. The author has done an excellent job of writing this book in a way that is not only engaging but also easy to read. What I particularly liked was how the story was seamlessly interspersed with Hmong history. This added an extra layer of depth and authenticity to the narrative. Through reading this book, I have learned an enormous amount of information. I have no doubt that I will often reflect on the content of this book in the future. It has truly made a lasting impression on me.
Having now completed the book, I am privy to Lia's fate. However, you must peruse the book yourself to discover it. No spoilers here!
It is crucial to note that this book should be read not only by those intrigued by anthropology and the improvement of medical practices but also by those eager to learn more about the Silent War in Laos. So much has been written about the war in Vietnam, yet so little about that in Laos.
How does one teach doctors to feel empathy and love for their patients? Physical contact is a quick trick. And how many doctors look you in the eye? We all know when a doctor is truly communicating with us honestly. One doctor said she simply could not adhere to all the "cultural rules" necessary when communicating with the Hmongs....but they did sense her sincerity. She explained that the Hmong patients knew she was American and thus would be lenient. Body language speaks volumes. If we care, truly care, that message transcends most cultural divides. Empathy has a therapeutic effect. But it surely helps if we ensure doctors don't have 33-hour shifts and have access to interpreters.
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Through page 148: This is VERY difficult for me to read...... To clarify: I am petrified when I enter a hospital. Everything always goes awry. My own fears/experiences clearly enhance my empathy for Lia.
Nevertheless, this is a book that everyone should read.
I HAD to take a break from the book to pen this. I felt physically queasy. Writing gives me some detachment.
On an intellectual level, reading this after The Sacred Willow: Four Generations in the Life of a Vietnamese Family is simply perfect. The themes intersect.
Although Fadiman's skills are exemplary, I must note that I am not entirely certain the problem is solely cultural. All people misunderstand each other in tense situations, even those of the same culture. I would also like to state that sometimes medicine fails. We, as patients, struggle to accept this. I do not know, at this juncture, what will become of Lia...... but we must also accept that there is not a medical solution to every problem. Will Lia die? I don't know. I think if she does, there is not a single culprit. Cultural misunderstanding has indeed played a part, but also medical science today is not infallible and doctors are only human. Even the best make mistakes. These are my thoughts as I read this remarkable book.
It is truly very good to have this reminder to oneself. Reading outside of one's genre more often can bring about a plethora of benefits. It broadens our perspectives and exposes us to different writing styles, themes, and ideas. By delving into various genres, we can gain a more comprehensive understanding of the literary world. It enriches our vocabulary and enhances our writing skills. We may discover new authors and works that we never would have otherwise. This exploration of different genres also keeps our reading experience fresh and exciting. It allows us to break free from the monotony of always reading within our comfort zone. So, let's take this reminder seriously and make a conscious effort to read outside of our genre more frequently.