Have you ever read a book that made you feel pain? A long day and night journey was one of those handwritten works that was extremely painful for me. Most of the time, after reading every five or ten pages, due to the intense pain I felt (not just emotional pain but even physical pain!), I would put the book aside and then come back to it later. I really don't know what to say in describing this work: whether it is amazing that a writer can vividly depict a chaotic, desperate, and highly intertwined family that is so painful for me, worthy of praise and admiration or criticism and condemnation?
A long day and night journey is a very beautiful and masterful story of the Tyrone family consisting of a father, a mother, and two sons. At the beginning of the book (in the morning), it seems that everything is okay and a very good family is portrayed. But soon, the dark shadow gradually emerges in this family, revealing the complexity, pain, and suffering of the whole family (until the end of the night). The life of this family is a story of a cycle of destruction, the reproduction of misfortune and failure by the members themselves for each other, forming a very toxic ecosystem.
How can a writer so beautifully envision the minds of all the members of a family in relation to each other? How can he so realistically describe the chaotic environment within the family where love and hate, desire and suppression, loss and self-indulgence, humor and bitterness, cruelty and kindness, envy and forgiveness, compatibility and incompatibility, and so on coexist? And not in the form of separate characters and events, but even within the lines of each one, these changes and conflicts encounter each other (especially in the dialogues of the mother of the family).
A long day and night journey is one of those works that those who have experienced the root problems of a dysfunctional family will surely feel pain, but perhaps like me, they cannot put it down. The psychological story that the author reflects from his own life in this play is a touching story of life that perhaps many of us cannot even express the tiniest aspect of our pain and sadness in words; let alone write about this beauty.
This text is a story of people who caused loss and desire in others and, willingly or unwillingly, applied any kind of suppression model they could to themselves or others. The Tyrone family, in my opinion, is reminiscent of many Iranian families where love and affection (often blind) coexist with the ignorance and stupidity of the father and mother, creating children who, with hatred of themselves and others, give up all their positions in society, as well as self-destruction, addiction, and escape to forgetfulness to the point of degradation. As if a veil of hypocrisy, modesty, shyness, and the pursuit of false honor and blind love makes this sick ecosystem even more toxic. These families, although all are in pain until the bone marrow, do not admit and feel remorse until it is very late, and when they do, it is very late...
A "reached but not broken" that is permanent and eternal is the best description I can give you of the chaotic and very tragic situation of this family. Reaching but not breaking is supposed to arouse hope (although in my opinion, a toxic and frustrating hope), but when things progress and this description becomes the eternal state of a family, even the most fragile hopes fade.
In chemistry, there is a term called "equilibrium distance" between the atoms of a molecular bond, which means that the distance between two atoms is constantly changing, becoming smaller and larger. This distance cannot be less or more than a certain point because when they get too close, they repel each other, and when they get too far apart, the attraction between them keeps them within this distance. The relationships between such families are also like this: a unique blend of constant rotation between love and hate.
At the end of the book, there was an analytical text by the translator for analyzing the narrative of the book based on Lacanian's three-order theories, which was really interesting and captivating for me to read.