Each time the lover says: I love you forever, he confers upon a fragile and changing creature two divine attributes: immortality and immutability. The contradiction is truly tragic: the flesh decays, our days are numbered. Nevertheless, we love. And we love with the body and with the soul, in body and soul.
Love, in its essence, is a paradox. It attempts to impose the eternal on the temporal, the unchanging on the mutable. When we declare our love to be forever, we are defying the very laws of nature that govern our existence. The human body is subject to the ravages of time, and yet, in the throes of love, we imagine a future that stretches into infinity.
But perhaps this is the beauty of love. It allows us to transcend our mortal limitations, if only for a moment. In the act of loving, we experience a connection that is both physical and spiritual, a union of body and soul that is beyond words. We give ourselves completely to the other, knowing full well that nothing lasts forever, and yet choosing to believe in the power of love to overcome all obstacles.
An extremely interesting essay about love and erotism throughout history, equally supported by literature and philosophy.
In the impossibility of putting all the excerpts that I highlighted due to their high quantity, and due to the indecision of which one would better illustrate this book, I leave here a sentence that is part of the introduction (and that will justify the title of this essay):
"The original and primordial fire, sexuality, raises the red flame of erotism and this, in turn, sustains and raises another blue and tremulous flame: that of love. Erotism and love: the double flame of life."
This thought-provoking essay delves deep into the complex and intertwined relationship between love and erotism. By drawing on both literary and philosophical works, the author presents a comprehensive and engaging exploration of these themes. The inability to include all the notable excerpts only adds to the allure of the essay, leaving the reader curious to discover more. The quoted sentence from the introduction serves as a powerful teaser, hinting at the profound insights that await within the pages of this fascinating work.