From the book jacket: Mr Ives, who has a prosperous career in advertising, a wife, and two children, believes he has realized the quintessential American dream. However, this dream is brutally shattered when his son Robert is killed at Christmas. Overwhelmed by grief and on the verge of losing faith in humanity, Mr Ives begins to question the very core of his life.
My reactions: I chanced upon this book simply because my Hispanic book club was in search of a Christmas-themed book. I had previously read Hijuelos’ Pulitzer-winning The Mambo Kings Play Songs of Love, but was unfamiliar with this work. I was immediately captivated by it and was pleasantly surprised to learn that it was a Pulitzer finalist in 1996. It is a beautiful, thought-provoking novel that delves into the character study and philosophical exploration of one man’s quest for spiritual tranquility.
Ives (yes, his first name is Edward, but he is always referred to as Ives in the book) begins his life as a foundling and is adopted by a man who was also a foundling. He never truly knows his background – is he Italian? Cuban? Greek? – but he feels a deep connection to the people in the Brooklyn neighborhood where he is raised and gets to know the Spanish-speaking workers in the printing plant where his adoptive father is a foreman. Hijuelos portrays a gentle man with a quiet strength born of his circumstances and the influences of both the Church and his adoptive father. It is through them that he learns to love and endure.
There is an abundance of sadness in this book. Certainly, the murder of his only son is a horrifying event (and one that is mentioned very early on, so it is not a spoiler here). But there are also the kinds of daily disappointments and sorrows that any of us might experience – a friend’s accident, a burglary, a loved one’s illness, a financial setback. These are counterbalanced by the joys of life – budding love, great friendships, camaraderie, favorite books, the birth of a child, or success at work. And this balance, this sense of perspective, is what this exquisitely written novel is all about.
A couple of quotes: Of course, while contemplating the idea of the baby Jesus, perhaps the most wanted child in the history of the world, Ives would feel a little sad, remembering that years ago someone had left him, an unwanted child, in a foundling home. A family photo elicits this: He loved that photograph because he and Robert were holding hands, and although they did not look particularly alike, they were standing in nearly identical positions, their feet planted wide apart, and each regarding the other with a slightly tilting head, eyes a little sad and enchanted at the same time, smiles nearly forming on the edges of their mouths. A different perspective on a city snowfall: Then they rested, side by side, on the frigid pavement like dummies, wistfully looking upward at nature’s swirling activity. A kind of magnificence, heaven, as it were, coming down on them. The quiet love between a husband and wife: She remembered a time when, without saying a word, she would have a sad thought and he, sitting by an easel or by his drawing board, would somehow know. Putting aside his brushes or pen, he would throw on a jacket and step out to hunt down some chocolates, which she loved, and a bouquet of flowers. I will be pondering this gem for a long time, and I’m certain I’ll reread it.
I found this to be a very sad book most of the time. The events and emotions described within its pages seemed to weigh heavily on my heart. I really didn't need to be more depressed this year, as life has already presented its fair share of challenges. However, as I delved deeper into the story, something unexpected happened.
But, I guess, at the end of it all, we learn that it is better to forgive. This simple yet profound message had a powerful impact on me. It made me realize that holding onto grudges and bitterness only serves to hinder our growth and happiness. So, this is really a positive story of encouragement and belief in fellow man.
The writing is beautiful, with every word carefully chosen to paint a vivid picture in the reader's mind. The historical perspective is also true and enlightening, providing valuable insights into a bygone era. All in all, this book is a worthy read that I would highly recommend to others.
Having never experienced this kind of pain and loss, I vicariously entered a multi-layered world. It was a world where a man, after a devastating death, was attempting to find and hold onto peace. The Catholic references and background were not familiar to me. However, the redemption in this story was truly powerful. So many of the finely drawn characters in this novel elicited my empathy. A horrifically violent act had changed the life of a gentle and quiet man. As I finished this novel, I was filled with a resolve. I decided to be more sympathetic to the ways and paths that people use to deal with loss of any kind and on any level. We often don't understand the pain others are going through until we step into their shoes, even if only through the pages of a book. This novel opened my eyes and made me realize the importance of compassion and understanding in a world full of suffering.