As a Christian, this was an interesting read for me. In the past year, two of my friends whom I grew up with in church have come out as gay, making this topic very close to my heart. I didn't concur with everything presented in this book. If you're not a Christian, I wouldn't recommend it. The harsh stance that Christians sometimes have towards gay people, both in this book and in real life, is unjust. However, having grown up in a rather fundamentalist environment, I'm accustomed to hearing such views. It could potentially be anger-inducing if you're not a churchgoer, and I completely understand that. Additionally, the writing wasn't the best either. It seemed to drop off at the end without being resolved, which I really dislike. Nevertheless, I did enjoy certain aspects of it and felt that it was worth reading at least once. Overall, I rate it 3 out of 5 stars.
Attention Melody Carlson & all Christian heterosexuals:
"Assaulting Gays is Wrong" is not a position that automatically makes you a good and loving servant of God. At the end of this book, the MC plans to treat her lesbian BFF with love. This means being mostly nice, except when she tells the BFF that she's still uncomfortable. It also means "ministering" to her so she'll come to the "Truth of Heterosexuality".
Speaking as someone who's been confronted by both direct threats of homophobic violence AND religious talk about how I'm not created to be a lesbian and God will save me, both of these experiences are traumatic! This kind of "love" is what made me suicidal as a teen. I had so much love for God. I prayed and prayed, but nothing changed. I prayed, and none of it made sense.
Finally, I went to college and found other dykes. Now, years later, those impulses only come as distant shockwaves from the past, brought up by specific triggers. But I can't do social religion because it comes flooding back, the terror and disgust for myself. Similar and far worse things happen to LGBT people constantly!
So maybe stop justifying your homophobia with decontextualized and badly translated Bible passages. Maybe actually do the hard work of examining why you think homosexuality is fundamentally wrong, but owning possessions somehow isn't. I read this book while reading some shelves at work today. I hope to God no lez or bi teen girl comes across it.
I originally embarked on a search for a book in the LGBTQ+ section of the library. My intention was to find something that not only piqued my interests but also truly applied to me. However, in my haste, I made a regrettable choice. The moment I started reading this particular book, I was confronted with outright homophobia and an overbearing dose of Christianity that was shoved right in my face. It was truly revolting and made me feel physically nauseous.
Given my own personal history of religious trauma, this book was an absolute mismatch for me. It was as if a cruel joke had been played on me. If only there was an option to rate it with zero stars, I would have毫不犹豫地 done so. This experience has served as a harsh reminder to be more cautious in my future book selections and to always be aware of the potential content that might cause discomfort or harm.