"The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth" by Henci Goer is an extremely phenomenal and educational guide for expectant women. It is truly a remarkable resource that I would highly recommend to any woman who is planning on having a baby. I had the opportunity to read this book, and it was inspiring for my grandma, who, at the age of 67, is planning on having a baby. Her due date is April 20th. Reading this book to her was a wonderful experience. It was also an emotional roller coaster for me because my mom passed away 3 months before I was born, and I never got to meet her. So, learning about what it's like to be a pregnant lady through this book was really meaningful. I truly wish that I could be pregnant when I'm older. A pregnant woman is like a whole other species, perhaps like a special dog or something. I learned that women are more obedient while pregnant, which could be useful when I marry Caroline Winrub and we have a baby. I might make her mow the lawn and pick up dog poop, as she might not question me. Maybe even consider a shock collar? Overall, I rate this book a 10 out of 10!
Lots of extremely valuable information is presented in a well-organized manner, which greatly assists in the decision-making process. There are a large number of citations at the back of the book, enabling readers to explore more background details and refer to the sources if they so desire. I discovered that this book is truly beneficial when it comes to examining the various options that one might have to make or negotiate during the birth process.
However, what I don't like about it is the author's attitude of complete aversion towards obstetrics. While I completely agree with her that there are numerous flaws in the intervention-oriented obstetric model and I appreciate the information provided, I do feel that the way she discusses obstetricians can be very off-putting to parents who have chosen (or have no local alternatives other than) an OB. It establishes a "parent versus doctor" model that makes me uncomfortable.
If you are in a care situation where you need to assert your birth wishes, this book will be useful. But it still seems a bit too adversarial to me. Additionally, my experience with a mixed OB/midwife practice in a hospital has been very different in terms of the standards of care and routine intervention compared to what Goer describes in this book. Some of the problems she mentions do exist, but many others do not, or occur at a much lower rate than discussed in the book. This could be because the book is older, or perhaps due to the fact that where I live and the practices in my area are different from those in other places. For example, my hospital and practice's C-section rates are much lower than the national average, and there are no routine episiotomies, etc. etc. It is worth noting this difference.