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July 14,2025
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I truly loved it!

As I was going through it, I had a strong sense that I required a great deal of help.

This book was not only comical, which made me laugh out loud on several occasions, but it was also highly enjoyable.

The stories and examples within it were presented in such a way that I found myself completely engaged from start to finish.

Moreover, what made this book even more remarkable was its applicability.

The concepts and ideas it presented could be easily translated into real-life situations, allowing me to gain valuable insights and practical tips.

Overall, I would highly recommend this book to anyone looking for an entertaining and useful read.
July 14,2025
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This book is penned by Latter-day Saint authors.

It delves into the various aspects that couples can focus on to enhance their relationships.

It offers valuable insights on how to have successful courtships and ultimately, successful marriages.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book as it provides an abundance of excellent advice.

The authors have presented their ideas in a clear and understandable manner, making it accessible to a wide range of readers.

Whether you are just starting out in a relationship or have been married for a long time, this book has something to offer.

It covers topics such as communication, trust, respect, and forgiveness, which are all essential elements of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is looking to improve their relationship or gain a better understanding of what it takes to have a successful marriage.

July 14,2025
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This book offered some valuable insights for individuals or couples who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and are in the stage of dating or engaged, seriously preparing for and contemplating marriage.

While I didn't fully concur with every single thing the authors stated, and at times they made generalizations that might not be entirely precise or universally valid and applicable, yet on the whole, there was an abundance of good and worthy content within this book.

It served as a useful supplement to my self-education regarding marriage and relationships. It provided different perspectives and ideas that could help those in such situations to better understand and navigate the complex journey of preparing for marriage.

Although not perfect, it had enough merit to make it a worthwhile read for anyone within the Latter-day Saint community who is focused on building a strong and healthy relationship leading to marriage.

Overall, it contributed to my growing knowledge and understanding of this important aspect of life.
July 14,2025
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This is an absolutely fantastic book.

I picked it up and read it right after I went through a breakup with my fiance, Brad. At that time, my mind was filled with so many confused and bothering thoughts. But this book had an amazing effect. It managed to clear up all those things that had been constantly bothering me.

Now, interestingly, I am actually re-reading it. I find that it's like a refresher course for me. Each time I read it, I discover new insights and it helps me to further understand myself and my emotions. It's truly a remarkable book that has had a profound impact on my life.

I would highly recommend it to anyone who is going through a tough time or simply wants to gain a better understanding of themselves and their relationships.
July 14,2025
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I was truly in a dilemma when it came to rating this book.

To be honest, I really, really disliked a significant portion of the first half. The language used seemed rather shaming, as if it was only catering to the author's ideal. It was quite evident that this book was not written with single adults, divorcées, or anyone who didn't fit into the "traditional mold" in consideration. There were some rather bold statements made that, frankly speaking, I simply didn't agree with.

However, once I delved into the second half of the book, something changed. I actually found myself eager to read on. I particularly relished the chapters on communication and centering our lives on Jesus Christ. Granted, there were still a few comments that didn't quite sit well with me, but they became increasingly rare.

Would I recommend this book to someone? Honestly, probably not. Especially not to someone who doesn't have a belief in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The strong opinions expressed in the first part could potentially be hurtful and, in my view, might inaccurately and poorly represent the teachings of the Church.

If I could extract the chapters that focus on the Savior, those are definitely the words that I would share and recommend to others. So, as I've mentioned, I have extremely mixed feelings.

It's quite unusual to have such intense love and hate for the same book. Maybe if you decide to read it, it might be a good idea to just start from the halfway point?
July 14,2025
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My husband and I read this book during the summer prior to our marriage.

It was truly an excellent read for couples, as it brought up numerous topics for discussion.

It served as the perfect preparation for marriage, encompassing communication issues, expectations, financial management, and virtually everything else that could either make or break a marriage.

We were both delighted that we had read it, particularly during the initial few months of being married.

This is because it alleviated the transition phase to some extent and provided us with an awareness of what to be vigilant about.

Overall, this book was a valuable resource that we would highly recommend to any couple contemplating marriage or already in the early stages of their married life.

It offers practical insights and guidance that can help strengthen the foundation of a relationship and lead to a more fulfilling and harmonious marriage.
July 14,2025
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I don't know.

I have very complex and mixed feelings about this book.

At times, I truly felt that I could not agree with the authors. Their perspective on dating and engagement seemed to be a rather extreme "fire and brimstone" approach. It felt as if they were presenting a very harsh and unyielding view.

However, on other occasions, I found myself unexpectedly in agreement with what they were saying. Their words would resonate with me and make me think about certain aspects of dating and engagement in a new light.

These opposing emotions and viewpoints are what have led to my current state of mixed feelings. I'm not quite sure where I stand overall, as there are valid points on both sides of the argument presented in the book.

It's a bit of a conundrum, and I'm still trying to sort through my thoughts and feelings about it all.
July 14,2025
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This book was assigned for a class.

We had the liberty to read the chapters out of order, which was an interesting approach.

Surprisingly, despite not following the traditional sequence, it was still a really good book.

The author's writing style was engaging, and the content was presented in a way that made it easy to understand and follow, even when read out of order.

Each chapter had its own unique focus and contributed to the overall understanding of the subject matter.

It was fascinating to see how the different ideas and concepts interconnected, regardless of the order in which we read them.

This book provided valuable insights and knowledge, and I would highly recommend it to others.

Even if you choose to read the chapters in a non-traditional way, you will still be able to appreciate the quality and value of this book.

Overall, it was a great learning experience, and I'm glad it was assigned for our class.

July 14,2025
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Sean and I read this together before we got married.

It was an extremely helpful and interesting experience.

The content within it provided us with valuable insights and perspectives that we found highly relevant to our即将到来的婚姻生活.

We discussed various points and ideas that emerged from the reading, which further deepened our understanding of each other and the concept of marriage.

It served as a great starting point for our conversations about our future together, allowing us to address potential challenges and envision the joys and rewards that awaited us.

Overall, reading this together was a wonderful way for us to prepare for our marriage and strengthen our bond.
July 14,2025
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I rolled my eyes when my mom gave me this book and let it sit on the shelf for a while. However, I'm so grateful that I eventually picked it up!


Two LDS marriage and family therapists have put together this wonderful resource that delves into all aspects of preparing for marriage and romantic relationships.


It's filled with great questions and useful charts that are perfect for self-discovery, setting goals, and clarifying expectations.


I now use this book as a valuable resource in my own life, and my mother continues to give it as a thoughtful gift to my friends. It's truly a gem that offers valuable insights and practical advice.

July 14,2025
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I read this book from cover to cover, and my husband did the same.

It is truly a remarkable book, especially for those who are considering marrying someone.

Both individuals involved in the relationship should definitely read it.

This book has the ability to bring a sense of reality into the love shared by two young people.

It ensures that you are fully aware of what you are getting into.

I truly appreciate what it has taught me more than anything else.

It has provided me with valuable insights and made me think deeply about the institution of marriage and the responsibilities that come with it.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is in a serious relationship or is planning to get married in the future.

It is a must-read for those who want to have a successful and fulfilling married life.

July 14,2025
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I have learned a certain number of things, but it was truly quite Utah.

Utah has its own unique characteristics and perhaps the experiences or teachings I encountered there had a flavor that was distinctively Utahan.

However, when it comes to marriage preparation, I firmly believe that "Men Are From Mars" is a far superior book.

This book offers valuable insights and practical advice that can help couples better understand each other and navigate the challenges of married life.

It delves into the differences between men and women in a way that is both enlightening and engaging.

Unlike what I learned in Utah, "Men Are From Mars" provides a more comprehensive and applicable approach to preparing for a successful marriage.

It equips readers with the tools they need to build stronger relationships and foster greater harmony and understanding between spouses.

Overall, while I may have gained some knowledge in Utah, "Men Are From Mars" stands out as a much better resource for marriage preparation.
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